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Choosing a life partner:

There are no laid down rules, formulae or principles for choosing a perfect life partner anywhere. Most times the choices are influenced by the peoples background, taste and religion.

Today i bring you some points that will go a long way in helping you choose a life partner, these may not work for everybody but will surely work for most people.

1. Values Compatibility:
Every normal human should have a set of values to lead his life everyday, there are things, activities or lifestyle that you value. Before you choose a life partner, you should be sure your values don't contrast but are compatible.

2. Steady source of income:
Marriage isn't for boys/girls; it is strictly for men/women that have a sense of responsibility. You don't wanna get married and have your parents still feeding you, hence, there should be a steady source of income first before taking a life partner.

3. Social Compatibility:
I keep telling my friends that my future wife will be my best friend as soon as we get married. She will be beside me anywhere i go and asides being my confidant, she will be my gossip mate. All these can only be possible if you two are socially compatible.
Imagine telling your partner that Donald Trump, the President of America has
shut his boarders against foreigners and she/he be like, "Has George Bush been changed?”. Social compatibility matters alot.

4.Spiritual compatibility:
Take a partner that will complement your spiritual life and not one that will undermine your efforts of spiritual growth.

5. Physical Compatibility:
How do you like your partner? Hourglass shape? Masculine with abs? Tall or short? Huge or petit? Go for what you want, because to each, his own. Don't make a choice today and say " this isn't what i bargained for” tomorrow. Physical compatibility matters.

6. Don't Limit Your possible Choices:
Some people for one silly reason or the other have sworn that that they can never marry outside their tribe, country or race. Thing is we are all human and some of us have our destinies tied outside our tribes,countries and races.
Do away with the eyes of a tribalist or racist when choosing a partner, love is the ultimate and paramount reason.

Noteworthy is also the fact that people nowadays choose partners based on the size of their pockets. This is utterly an act of blindness because love is irreplaceable no matter the opulence.

Source:
http://ogabenji..com.ng/2017/05/choosing-life-partner.html?m=1#more

May God give us our heart desire...

Number 2 make sense

well said. choosing a life partner isn't an easy something especially with fake life ppl live wth this days... God help us in discerning d right person. .

Bumbae1:
Number 2 make sense

wadup

2,3,5 gat it... Nice one op

Sexual compability, always taste d product before buying,some ladies do not last in bed,always complaining dt dey r tired,wen yuh just getting started,buh dia fada go gv u long note wen u come for dia hand in marriage, buh dey cnt even stay 4 three rounds smh....

Nma27:
2,3,5 gat it... Nice one op

yea, thank you.

Headlesschicken:
Sexual compability, always taste d product before buying,some ladies do not last in bed,always complaining dt dey r tired,wen yuh just getting started,buh dia fada go gv u long note wen u come for dia hand in marriage, buh dey cnt even stay 4 three rounds smh....

lol,

walesalak:
well said. choosing a life partner isn't an easy something especially with fake life ppl live wth this days... God help us in discerning d right person. .

Exactly, all these factors revolve around God.

Lalasticlala

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Marriage is not anything to joke with


It create happiness and sadness


It can ruins u and can make u hold


Prayerfully choose ur partner

nice one op

astrological compatibility comes first joor

things to consider when choosing a Nigerian babe - her love for cash -

Working dick should be added.

Number 7 killed it....

breast and yansh must big, I don't like buying pillows in the market

Let me bookmark this page, I have this new lady I've been talking to. I hope she's worth it or will drop at next available bustop

chibabe259:
Working dick should be added.

E be like say them don cheat u bfr

Compatibility of z oza room

Lala go and sleep

Ok

Nice!

Its nothing but a gamble. Forget list

fav444:
May God give us our heart desire...

May God give us the best that will suit who we are

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I can interprete women into a simple language.

Ladies: What qualities do you fancy in a lady?

Interpretation: What do you like so that I can "package" myself better?

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GOD help we the guys... I don't know what kind of ladies we have nowadays . They keep on proving that their only usefulness is fucking

Op, are you stating from experience?