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Guys..

My Elder brother is Educated and gainfully Employed and I respect him a lot because he takes care of my Education and finances,he has always been the shy type when it comes to girls because most of the girls he hangs out with have always been arranged by me .
Now that he's planning to settle down,of all the girls I introduced to him ,he chose my girlfriend, who I love so much and plan to marry ...i tried to make him understand i love my girl but he has been begging me up and down to convince her to marry him and get another girl for myself,even tried bribing me with huge amount of money.
Now I'm confused ......guys please your advice is needed,what should I do?

Y u carry ur family mata come NL now, oga shift go one corner joor!

Let him know you can't arrange your girlfriend for him to marry.
He should go and arrange a wife for himself

Let him marry your girl friend If you're not ready to settle down yet.

Only if the FTC guy will be civil


btw.. OP, thats gon be the biggest mistake youll make in your life, instead break up with the girl than let your brother marry her


youll never get over it., if you let him..

From gf to sister inlaw.. Fuccck it

I know its a lie

Homeboiy:
I know its a lie

You're in the spirit.

no offense op but itz like there's something wrong with your brother in the head, just because he pays your school fees doesn't give him any right to demand such from you. Awon agbaya oshi make him sef use leg go look for wife

Homeboiy:
I know its a lie

SMH...its actually not me,a Facebook friend complained to me so I am looking for answers.

Biko what kind of brother is that

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Op make d lie a little longer nd rephrase it
now go back nd modify it so u will av enof views nd comments

So many sick motherfvckers around..so he doesn't mind marrying a girl his younger brother has fvcked crazy?besides what happens when you visit them after marriage?you end up fvcking her again?..yal are one crazy bunch and your brother is leading the pack WTF?

Ahhhhh, duuuude....! Your brand of "stoopid" is legendary; av never seen a pair of buttheads twist the Bro-Code outta shape like you two. You make it ssound like you learning Klingon or something. Which part of "IT'S A FREEAKING CRAAAAZY IDEA" don't you understand ?

Say Nooooo already fhuker, abi yhu dey crase ni ?!

How can Will your GF to your Bro? Do you know, how long a marriage lasts hypothetically, all things being equal? Year in, year out, you'll be there watching your bro kpanshing your Gf, "breeding" her and there you'll be, smiling sheepishly like persin wey lose money?

What exactly are you pple trying to afflict your family with? You guys need to chill the furkk out before you do what you'll regret later!

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film trick

Victornezzar:
Op make d lie a little longer nd rephrase it
now go back nd modify it so u will av enof views nd comments

Views and comments de give money? wetin I wan use am do?

StarBukola:
Y u carry ur family mata come NL now, oga shift go one corner joor!

Where would I have taken it to? ur house? or on Facebook?

Better convince her b4 u become a drop out n ur Facebook profile will carry 'works at self employed'

IamAirforce1:
Let him marry your girl friend If you're not ready to settle down yet.

Non-sense advice...so, you trying to say you can comfortably marry a girl your younger brother used and dumped without no shame.

Op, make him understand that he needs to man up and woo a woman for himself...what kind of elder bro is this one…upon all his years in school coupled with the no of years he's been working, he has not seen a girl he likes??...this is one problem with introverts...thankGod i'm not one.

Lol. Op is not saying the real truth . The said lady may just be a non intimate friend of the op. The entitlement of "my girlfriend" may exist only in his own mind.

if any thing should go wrong in the marriage. He will say its the wife you brought for him to marry,he will not remember when all these things are happening. let him go and look for wife for him self ..so that no blame will be on you and you won't regret later.. except you want to trade your girlfriend. I've said my

Gues u 2 av bn banging same guls proally at same tym dat y him get mind dh want d lov of ur life,any ways ur problem. DAMN! DHZ NO SAVING DZ WORLD

StarBukola:
Y u carry ur family mata come NL now, oga shift go one corner joor!

My friend sharrap there! Izit your family matter?
Over sabi.

If I were in your shoes i would first scrutinize their interactions. Why would your brother feel confident enough to mess up your relationship with someone you love just so he could try his luck with her ? Why is he so sure that she would agree to this madness? Make sure that he has never hidden his bishop inside her

Una own done be. it's beta both of you dump that girl because either ways, there will be a family catastrophe later. Don't be surprise that your loved girl friend has interest in your elder brother either because of his success. Don't also be surprise that your so called shy brother had discussed certain things with her behind you. May be he want to know your reaction on it. Never you trust any lady on issues with life partner. Be assured that either your elder bros bleeps her when you got married to her or other way round...If you like continue to underrate you broda with regard to women. You eye go soon open

I waka pass

Confused

I guess you'r girl friend and brother are already eying each other...he's your brother if the girl is good allow your brother marry her since you are not ready yet. Or you prefer to lose her to someone else??..... Remainber she will favor you more than when he marries someone else . Just my opinion.

The true test of love will not be by the brother who is trying to buy love or the brother who is dependent on the brother with means. It's your girlfriend who will show both of you if she does indeed love you or she was never yours to begin with. Not sure why are confused. The person who should be confused is your girlfriend. It is her who should be asking why she is being the focus of a trade deal. Regardless of what he does for you why are you even entertaining the thought? You don't love her as much as you think you do.

Passy089:
Guys..

My Elder brother is Educated and gainfully Employed and I respect him a lot because he takes care of my Education and finances,he has always been the shy type when it comes to girls because most of the girls he hangs out with have always been arranged by me .
Now that he's planning to settle down,of all the girls I introduced to him ,he chose my girlfriend, who I love so much and plan to marry ...i tried to make him understand i love my girl but he has been begging me up and down to convince her to marry him and get another girl for myself,even tried bribing me with huge amount of money.
Now I'm confused ......guys please your advice is needed,what should I do?

O boy, collect d moni go find anoda babe.. Besides,dat babe fit don dey cheat on you with your bros na y your bros suddenly come get morale dey ask 4 your babe.
Besides younger brothers are advised not to date until their elders are married..It's called RESPECT.. Afterall na him dey train you for school..Abeggi go collect the moni find me small thing

nkwuocha1:
Lol. Op is not saying the real truth . The said lady may just be a non intimate friend of the op. The entitlement of "my girlfriend" may exist only in his own mind.

Chaii... you harsh o