dangotesmummy:
I see the hypocrisy too

They hate telling each other the Truth. All they want to hear is that women are always right. My friend was even saying Lola whobis the founder of that group is a smart business woman.its all about the money so bad publicity and criticism of members will affect her own cash and reduce members so it's best all of them are there living in delusion grandeur and deceiving themselves while Lola is making money from t-shirts and wrist bands.

Many women aren't thinking at all

dominique:


@bolded
Actually that's what I hate about the group, all they do is support and hail one another even when they are wrong. A woman posted how she insulted her husband's friend, they hailed her. Another postee how she insulted her ex classmate who asked her on whatsapp if she was married, she replied with heaps and heaps of insults bordering on curses and happily took screenshots to post on fin. The finsters were hailing her but some scolded her that she went to far with the insults. The admin quickly turned off responses. Another came to cry out how she was scammed by a fellow finster who went on to delete her (or his) profile, I was one of the lucky few to see the post because the admin took it down shortly after. That was when I started wondering what this group is really about. Now this one has killed her husband with her nagging, I'm sure some of the finsters will be hailing and praising her that she did right. Seems the admin wants to give impression that the group is about squeaky clean ladies holding hands and singing kumbaya. Too much hypocrisy going on there, I just can't deal.

Angy55:
Thank you. I'm also a member

ifewise:
Women and Nagging =Arsenal & Top 4
But D man messed up big time,He should hv Ignored d lady & Acted as if she doesn't exist.

ivykay:
I am a fin for life,l love fin and every one associated with fin,all d sis in d house, I see u,fin hugs dear.

Angy55:
I'm a member of FIN

pacesetter247:
Sorry OP, I think your title of post is misleading, you never mentioned if FIN is the reason why she nags her husband,and apparently, the counselor never gave an instance where the husband accused FIN of being responsible for the crisis in his home. I am a FIN Member and I have a peaceful home, FIN does not encourage one to nag her spouse or become a burden to her husband, I suggest you edit your topic before you spoil the purpose of your sharing this post. She and her husband had their issues and refused to deal with it properly don't say it was because of FIN afterall there are so many homes with even worse issues where the wife is a tormentor in the home and she does not belong to FIN, there are also husbands who are tormentors and vice versa, every spouse has a foremost responsibility to protect their home and partner from emotional torment.

ivykay:
I am a fin for life,l love fin and every one associated with fin,all d sis in d house, I see u,fin hugs dear.

Juillianne:


I see you sis.

swtcharissa:
Am not surprised,,I knew sooner than later it would get to this,,I once belonged to that group (FIN) on Facebook...a friend added me Jesus... They do notting but show strength over husband,insults their husbands n in-laws,once u just type on their page that u have a slight issue with ur husband, they will insult the living day light out of him that d next time u see ur husband,,u will see an empty vessel,n no woman dare support a member's husband even if the member is wrong,,I got fed up and spoke my mind blatantly on d group one day,asking women why should they take their homes for granted cos they want to show who is who,,,,the next thing they deleted me ASAP,....I know more rotten stories will still come from there...u will hear a woman asking her fellow woman to slap her husband mercilessly n run away from d house if the man misbehaves....or woman if that man comes home late again just carry ur load go back ur papa house....tufiakwa

Mujaheeeden:
I'd rather remain unmarried than to marry a nagging wife

eipreel:


Spot on ma'am! You speak the truth and you get banned. No you don't have a right to speak...just follow on like a zombie whether right or wrong for fear of getting kicked out what a silly group

Tenderly1:
Someone just broke one of FIN important rule. DO NOT SHARE

TinaAnita:


He endured being nagged by his wife for 9 years, now how many men can endure that? In fact, he messed up for not divorcing her long time ago

Dfinex:


na so.....U don dey old dey go oo

Mujaheeeden:
monitoring spirit

Afritop:
DIVORCING HER US NOT THE ISSUE BUT IF HE HAD SEPERATED AWAY FROM HER FOR A LONG TIME, THEN SHE WILL GET SENSE.

Dfinex:


yeah....trying to keep u from all evils