nathasha:
This your story kwa... Why you drag FIN into the matter?? So she "nagged" her hubby to death cos she's a FIN member? Odikwa egwu o. Simply say u were kicked out of FIN for possibly being insensitive now u dey find story. Continu!

This news has been debunked as fake and besides this particular woman has been missing since last year, so tell me how she nagged her husband to death when she has been missing and at a particular time she was declared dead. Bloggers are up and about posting fake news. Natasha, go check FIN that post has been declared fake. The person who posted it said she was misunderstood. I see you sis

Ifebazz:

Where did all these cock and bull stories emanate from sef? I just don't even get the narrative or explanation or descriptive or whatever or whoever is doing the talking/writing. Is it the dead man or the girlfriend or the wife or the friendly friend? The story reeks of Mills and Boon.

Exactly. Number one the woman named in the write up has been declared missing since last year while the picture going around belongs to another woman who doesn't even have a clue of what is going on. Bloggers and fake stories.

pacesetter247:
Sorry OP, I think your title of post is misleading, you never mentioned if FIN is the reason why she nags her husband,and apparently, the counselor never gave an instance where the husband accused FIN of being responsible for the crisis in his home. I am a FIN Member and I have a peaceful home, FIN does not encourage one to nag her spouse or become a burden to her husband, I suggest you edit your topic before you spoil the purpose of your sharing this post. She and her husband had their issues and refused to deal with it properly don't say it was because of FIN afterall there are so many homes with even worse issues where the wife is a tormentor in the home and she does not belong to FIN, there are also husbands who are tormentors and vice versa, every spouse has a foremost responsibility to protect their home and partner from emotional torment.

I see you sis. Tell them, FIN doesn't encourage such, and I read some of the banned FIN members saying FIN doesn't give an advice to people. You liars should fear God oooooo. I have seen a lot of post where other women on FIN have advised other women who come to say they are tempted to cheat. They advised them lovingly instead of the usual way of insulting the woman because she came out to voice her challenges. You all FIN haters should get a life abeg. FIN doesn't give bad advice at all. Once again ma'am I see you sis. Chop kiss

dominique:


@bolded
Actually that's what I hate about the group, all they do is support and hail one another even when they are wrong. A woman posted how she insulted her husband's friend, they hailed her. Another postee how she insulted her ex classmate who asked her on whatsapp if she was married, she replied with heaps and heaps of insults bordering on curses and happily took screenshots to post on fin. The finsters were hailing her but some scolded her that she went to far with the insults. The admin quickly turned off responses. Another came to cry out how she was scammed by a fellow finster who went on to delete her (or his) profile, I was one of the lucky few to see the post because the admin took it down shortly after. That was when I started wondering what this group is really about. Now this one has killed her husband with her nagging, I'm sure some of the finsters will be hailing and praising her that she did right. Seems the admin wants to give impression that the group is about squeaky clean ladies holding hands and singing kumbaya. Too much hypocrisy going on there, I just can't deal.

Ma'am that's not true and besides concerning this news, the woman charity aiyedogbon have been missing since 2016 and I think her story was once featured here on Nairaland, at a time she was declared dead but that was debunked. So how did a missing woman nag her husband to death?

Mujaheeeden:
Jux negodu. Don't nag if you want your bf to be happy with you

sorry, I don't know what u are talking about as I ain't gat no boyfriend

mamatwiny:


Auntie dominique, u are breaking the rules.
E be like say u go chop ban for fin.

Lol I couldn't care less if I'm removed from the group or not.

Dfinex:


sorry, I don't know what u are talking about as I ain't gat no boyfriend

A pretty Dame without a boyfriend, that's a Buhari kind of Lie.

Here the real poster has said she was misunderstood. And she didnt imply that FIN is a bad group. After the devil fear bloggers, they would do anything for traffic. They used the name of an innocent woman that has been declared missing for months and the picture of another woman who knows nothing about the news going on. And they even misquoted the original poster. Yes FIN is a support group, they don't judge women because women are already being judged on the outside world. They give support and advice in a loving way. They don't support anything bad instead they would understand you and still give you advise in a loving way. That is what is expected of you as a finster but some people can't give advice without insulting and sounding judgemental hence the reason they are banned from the group. FIN is not an occultic group, of course there are good and bad advice, you are expected to pick the one that is good for you. FIN isn't responsible for the man's death but the woman herself. To all the finsters, I see you sis!

Too bad.

God help us!

IyfeNamikaze:
. if that FIN is such an amazing group like you all said, why all these secrecy?? you people are breeding a monster and trust me it will consume all of you.

My Brothers! it's like marriageable women don finish for Nigeria o! na to follow our brother Mikel and do team foreign oo. gezzuz!! I can't believe what I'm reading here!!!

Are you scared of FIN?

Prettiepearlz:
Here the real poster has said she was misunderstood. And she didnt imply that FIN is a bad group. After the devil fear bloggers, they would do anything for traffic. They used the name of an innocent woman that has been declared missing for months and the picture of another woman who knows nothing about the news going on. And they even misquoted the original poster. Yes FIN is a support group, they don't judge women because women are already being judged on the outside world. They give support and advice in a loving way. They don't support anything bad instead they would understand you and still give you advise in a loving way. That is what is expected of you as a finster but some people can't give advice without insulting and sounding judgemental hence the reason they are banned from the group. FIN is not an occultic group, of course there are good and bad advice, you are expected to pick the one that is good for you. FIN isn't responsible for the man's death but the woman herself. To all the finsters, I see you sis!

I see you sis!!! #FINLOVE

Tenderly1:

I see you sis!!! #FINLOVE

There is nothing like nagging someone to death. He was ready to die. Also, how is it relevant to mention FiN? Fake gist trying to tarnish image of FiN.

very pathetic story,but i don't know what FIN has to do with this story

wetin concern fin concern this matter, it's already established that it was because of her mothers advice.
so y u dragging fins name. Respect yourself.

shumuel:


I thought each state organize their own parties by themselves, so how is she making money from it or do they give returns ?

they have coordinators in each state na

dangotesmummy:
they have coordinators in each state na

... So the co-ordinator give returns ? If thats the case, then she is indeed very smart and a good business woman,, see how she just create wealth for herself, no wonder there are many parties organized everytime

Over 200,000 members

shumuel:
... So the co-ordinator give returns ? If thats the case, then she is indeed very smart and a good business woman,, see how she just create wealth for herself, no wonder there are many parties organized everytime

Over 200,000 members

why won't there be parties. Do you know how many women will buy the t-shirts to be able to identity with fin all over each state on a monthly basis.the caterer that is one of them do you know how much she will make for cooking and refreshments

Stay there. That woman is capitalizing on women's marital issue as a camouflage to make money for herself so you think she'll allow any woman criticize another woman even when she knows that person is wrong

Once she can give them a platform to express themselves, the money comes in

It's similar to what seun is doing. Only difference is seun doesn't organize nl parties

shumuel:
... So the co-ordinator give returns ? If thats the case, then she is indeed very smart and a good business woman,, see how she just create wealth for herself, no wonder there are many parties organized everytime

Over 200,000 members

out of 200,000 at least 150,000 members will buy the shirt which is 3000 naira.now calculate 3000 naira x150,000 members home and abroad=get your answer

Meanwhile in all of this have you ever seen her talking about her own marital woes the way her members do?

You to think am na

Marrying a nagging wife is a curse from the pit of hell.a friend of mine is still regreting marrying his nagging and unreasonable wife. His wife can nag from now till tomorrow. She is troublesome, reckless and disrespectful . my friend is a kind, generous and respectful man, He's a very good man but he end up with an evil woman... Sometimes my friend will leave his house for a week and the wife will start lying around that he abandoned her and the kids for no reason. I can't imagine what my friend is been going through from the hand of this nagging woman.

dangotesmummy:
why won't there be parties. Do you know how many women will buy the t-shirts to be able to identity with fin all over each state on a monthly basis.the caterer that is one of them do you know how much she will make for cooking and refreshments

Stay there. That woman is capitalizing on women's marital issue as a camouflage to make money for herself so you think she'll allow any woman criticize another woman even when she knows that person is wrong

Once she can give them a platform to express themselves, the money comes in

It's similar to what seun is doing. Only difference is seun doesn't organize nl parties

Mehn...! There are easy ways to make money, i mean cool, legit and easy money in this country o,, anyways respect to her for being smart, besides the Fin parties are always mad fun; a ladies hang out where females are allowed to express themselves without the presence of a man, only just that some are already diving into lesbianism.

shumuel:


Mehn...! There are easy ways to make money, i mean cool, legit and easy money in this country o,, anyways respect to her for being smart, besides the Fin parties are always mad fun; a ladies hang out where females are allowed to express themselves without the presence of a man, only just that some are already diving into lesbianism.

their sexuality their choice. I heard something similar too but its a rumor

And one idiot will pay we shouldn't have slap women

TINALETC3:
I dnt no y gentle and Gud men end up wt nagging wives

meanwhile if this is ur face without make up, my dear, you are indeed very pretty. perhaps u dont need make up at all

#BuhariWickedO

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
HMMM. Our legal systems worldwide has refused to accept nagging as a form of domestic violence. We as a people are also quick to condemn every man that hits the wife as a beast, coward etc. While I don't justify wife beating in anyway, I wish to state that many wife beaters today were not violent pre-marriage and never dreamt they'd ever hit someone, least of all their wives, but here they are! Whenever there is a post on Nairaland on a man beating the wife, the name calling party starts and you hear even unmarried men saying 'I can't beat my wife' lol. Many women today, quite sadly are gifted in the art of exhausting a man's reservoir of patience. I have never ever come close to beating my wife o! Lai lai! It is not because I am perfect in that respect but because my wife helped to make it happen. What can a woman so nice possibly do to me to warrant such a reaction. I took time (5 years to be precise) to ensure I didn't make the mistake of marrying one of those uncouth females; wolves in sheep clothing, roaming the streets lookin for a man whose life they can wreck. Several years down the road, I have nothing but joy in my heart and gratitude to God and my wife for the ocean of peace I call my home. GOD KNOWS THAT IF I HAD MADE THE MISTAKE OF MARRYING ONE OF THOSE LOUSY BRATS, SHE'D LEAVE MY HOUSE IMMEDIATELY I NOTICE THAT ATTITUDE. AH! I CANNOT SURVIVE NAGGING O! AT ALL AT ALL!

Bro 85% of of woman nag depend on how you control them ..

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

If you had read my post well you would have seen how I said 'our legal systems worldwide', I also said 'I don't support wife beating in anyway' and I even said what I would do in the face of persistent verbal abuse (send her out of my house, period!). I still maintain, had I married a lousy wife, I swear before she gets on my nerves to the point of me hitting her she will pack out of the house in one week, never to return! That guy endured it for 9 years and a heart attack was the result. Sharp guys like me will not get a heart attack over a lousy brat!

Bro i swear we seem to share same view, I can't stand a Nagging woman as i will be pissed.. Thank God i know how to control my anger and instead of hitting her, I know the kind of word to say that will reset her brain..

BiafraBushBoy:
fools

Try this with me, I will kill you, your mum that advised you, your dad that didn't train you well and every member of the FEMALES IN NIGERIA group that advised you at one point!!

A girl will show her true color in a relationship. Fear girls without emotions or who act before thinking and later saying sorry!!

IDIOT FEMALES!!

I guess you are part of those attacking Gentry oooo.

Women can frustrate man and rush to media when you pinch them

Useless wife, I have said this and will say it again, marriage is like bondage, 85% of women will always want to control you..

igbodefender:
RIP. Some ladys can drive men to an early grave. Some will demand you change their car, not because it is old or spoilt, but because a friend of theirs just got the latest one. So sad.

OMG i swear you are right, Some women don't even think with their brain.. I once tell my wife the day she compare herself with someone or compare me with someone that was the day she will move to that person house..

CuddleMe:
Man up and divorce any devil in your house. Too bad he paid with his life. All this arrangee marriages

You see reason why we should not quick to blame some men that beat their wife, If to say that man don tear her slap like 5 times her brain go don set..

I don't believe this story.....proudly a finster#

Well said sir. Or even divorce the woman. Better to divorce that not have peace of mind. Plenty women around to date.

ifewise:
Women and Nagging =Arsenal & Top 4
But D man messed up big time,He should hv Ignored d lady & Acted as if she doesn't exist.