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Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by kidaby: 11:39am On May 17, 2017 |
Op, do not commit murder by abortion. If she does not want to marry you, its fine. But she should keep the baby. Tell her you'll support her every step of the way. If she insists she's aborting, I hope you know abortion is against the Nigerian law. If she dies, you are in trouble, no one will remember/hear that you offered to marry her. Nobody in her family probably knows she's pregnant now and if they eventually find out, you are in trouble. To be on he safe side, inform her family members (maybe sisters ) and let them know you are taking responsibility for the baby but their sister wants to abort. Don't give her money for it. Leave them to make their decision. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by EAZY2422(m): 11:45am On May 17, 2017 |
mzjaney:exactly,she's grown already.op go see her parents no matter what they say or do to you be ready to take responsibility for your action.thats what makes you a better man and parent hopefully.am speaking from experience of a friend bro,so you won't regret it tommorow.i believe you have something doing if not get prepared.if you do this it wouldn't be easy at the beginning but much later it will be worth it believe me.oluwa is your iroko. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by Nobody: 11:53am On May 17, 2017 |
she should be glad that you are willing to take responsibility and even marry her. Please try n convince her to keep it and take steps that will enable her to see your seriousness. and hope she agrees to keep it 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by stringa(f): 11:59am On May 17, 2017 |
Charlieeeboi:OP, Nairaland is not the place to find drugs for your issue. Visit a good medical practitioner since you claim you can afford it. DNC is better than taking any drug orally. But be aware that after the deed is done, you both will live with the regret of taking a life, most especially her. When she is finally married, and begins having children, she will remember the one she wasted away and what could have been. So, make the right choice. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by AYOILORI: 12:00pm On May 17, 2017 |
solasolasola:Don't abort ooooooooooooooooooooooooo |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by AYOILORI: 12:01pm On May 17, 2017 |
Please don't abort o |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by Bullet01(f): 12:02pm On May 17, 2017 |
mekybabe1: Pls follow this advice. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by Nobody: 12:10pm On May 17, 2017 |
"I've asked her to keep it but she refused, she said she doesn't want to be a disgrace to her family, that none of her sisters have gotten pregnant before marriage so why should she be the one" This is the kind of pressure our society puts on people that makes them do even worse or riskier things to cover their mistakes. Many threw away their babies just to save their faces only to have the same family members accuse them of being barren in future. I would advice that you do what is right for u n ur baby n forget about people. they will always talk as if they are without sin |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by kryptonianrock: 12:14pm On May 17, 2017 |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by Tchiman(m): 12:23pm On May 17, 2017 |
There is no need beating about the bush........Go straight and be the first to report the situation to the girl's parents......dobale dada for them and tell them you are ready to marry her and take full responsibility of the pregnancy...... That's the right thing to do..... Stop being a kid here......when you guys were rumbling under the sheets, you never asked us for advice. why asking us now? Don't ever abort that baby......God sent him/her for a purpose......don't cut it short as your parents never cut yours!!! |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by Nobody: 12:28pm On May 17, 2017 |
ebukahandsome: Seems u have problem understanding question or u just wan make noise. The Op just told us he wants her to keep it and u r taking rubbish 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by kinibigdeal(m): 12:32pm On May 17, 2017 |
You have to have pray for 40days and 40 night |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by preponey: 12:36pm On May 17, 2017 |
i don't know why you're using that phrase "You don;t what her to said it because of the baby and so on... Charlieeeboi: |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by johnjay4u2u(m): 12:39pm On May 17, 2017 |
Na wa o.
Stop the lie abeg.
2 weeks pregnant?!! Haba
Pregnancy is yet to be discovered at such an age. Which lab gave you such a result? She has not even missed a period yet. cook another lie bro. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by preponey: 12:40pm On May 17, 2017 |
kidaby you hit the point "that if he truly loves her" kidaby: |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by HotHot96: 12:42pm On May 17, 2017 |
pro choice. but at 24 I wonder what she shld b afraid of |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by Coolgent(m): 12:49pm On May 17, 2017 |
Charlieeeboi:Before i advice u... Were there when the pregnancy test was conducted? |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by Kakamorufu(m): 12:49pm On May 17, 2017 |
go meet her parent and talk with them. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by CharlieMaria(m): 12:54pm On May 17, 2017 |
Charlieeeboi:Insist and stand your ground...possibly involve her close relative...What if she dies in the process? Giving your consent and demanding for the drug to use negates your not wanting the abortion done. So brother do not participate in the murder...do everything within your power to stop her...if she dies in the process or kills the child eventually after your efforts then you can be exonerated. Good luck |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by Charlieeeboi(m): 1:00pm On May 17, 2017 |
johnjay4u2u: I had to go and check if d mods removed that her period z late.. stop sampling your senseless brain online if u have nothing to say |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by ebukahandsome(m): 1:06pm On May 17, 2017 |
Stelvin101:Your father left nyash |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by mrsfavour(f): 1:08pm On May 17, 2017 |
Sheungbengar:honestly ,its possible .I have kids and that's my method of preventing unwanted pregnancy . |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by Nobody: 1:11pm On May 17, 2017 |
Damibiz:are u a killer |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by taurusmena1(m): 1:16pm On May 17, 2017 |
Look who's making sense..whose consent did you seek before having sex with her which I believe is on numerous counts.Grow up nd stop been a cry baby. Charlieeeboi: |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by tafrica(m): 1:17pm On May 17, 2017 |
Charlieeeboi: Don't reply anyone foul post anymore. It doesn't help your present situation. Pls, how old are you, you working aldy? Even if it's lil job. Don't abort the innocent baby, tell ur gf you're keeping it. If she really loves u and even plans marrying you, she shouldn't object to that option, she should rather be happy. I was once in your shoes, abortion should have been our options considering my spiritual background and my now wife's position in the church, but we didn't. We got married shortly when it occurred, today we're blessed with a baby boy and doing okay with our lives. Don't let anyone condemn you. God forgives. Embrace this challenge, an elaborate wedding doesn't tell the success of a marriage or what the children from that marriage will be like. Tell that to your lady I am a testimony. I don't want to talk too much. I didn't have close to elaborate wedding, but God has been good to us. My baby boy grows bigger everyday and in intelligence. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by Ifymma(f): 1:20pm On May 17, 2017 |
OP give her two alabukun missed with dry gin half glass. let her take it in the morning before she eats. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by Nobody: 1:22pm On May 17, 2017 |
better go and report yourself to the parent they are the only ones that can stop her.as most girls are air heads and recieve advice from fellow airheaded friends..i no get tym to judge u pass how u don already judge yourself.for the sake of the baby man up for both of you...and next time biko.use protection... |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by aameyah(f): 1:22pm On May 17, 2017 |
Omotayor123: You can't force someone to do this. The baby is in her body. She will carry him/her for nine months. Birth. And tend to him/her afterwards. You simply cant force this. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by Posh3(f): 1:29pm On May 17, 2017 |
Why not go to there house, come there when are parents are around and tell him not to dare abort ur child . make sure her parents will hear it, then let d parents now force her to keep it. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by wizod(m): 1:32pm On May 17, 2017 |
Charlieeeboi:are u ready 2 marry her now, if yes, elope wit her, if no, let her execute her plans |
Re: My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion by trilobite: 1:35pm On May 17, 2017 |
stiles009:did I just read your question? my gosh!! no offense, you need to read. |
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