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| Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by JUSTICEOFFICIAL(op): 3:51pm On May 21, 2017 |
Our topic for today, “DO YOU CUT ALL TIES WITH AN EX OR MOVE FORWARD AS FRIENDS?” After a breakup, do you cut all relations with an ex, block their phone number, unfollow them on social media and totally delete them from your life or do you move along as friends? Let’s get talking! You can send your comments to www.thenigerianyouthmag.com | BLOG and your views may be published in the new TNY magazine. Source: https://thenigerianyouthmag.com/2017/05/21/do-you-cut-all-ties-with-an-ex-or-move-forward-as-friends/ 1 Like
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| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by purity22(f): 3:53pm On May 21, 2017 |
Hmmmmm It depends on the type of relationship we had. If it was holy relationship (no sex) I can continue being his friend, just friends. But if we used to make love before then the only thing between us will be brief greetings. All my ex guys (4) that knows me sexually before I don't use to greet them more than 30 seconds just to avoid stories that touches the heart 8 Likes |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by YOUNGELDER1(m): 3:54pm On May 21, 2017 |
Depends .. |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by Afonjashapmouth: 3:56pm On May 21, 2017 |
We cannot move anywhere as friends, once we cut ties we don cut am b that. I dont even observe anything like their birthday or whatsoever any more... Let d new guy take charge and help them move on 8 Likes |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by UGLEEBOI: 3:57pm On May 21, 2017 |
Depends on what led to the breakup... Besides, I'm an open minded fellow Buh u know Women... 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by SuperSuave(m): 4:09pm On May 21, 2017 |
purity22:Purity! Purity!!  11 Likes |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by Homeboiy: 4:18pm On May 21, 2017 |
We continue being friends cos i might get to fucck her again in future 2 Likes |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by zarakay(f): 4:25pm On May 21, 2017 |
purity22:u must be a very funny somebody oo  2 Likes |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by johncallidon(m): 4:54pm On May 21, 2017 |
it depends on how we broke up. . .(so it won't obstruct mua,,,from future bleeping) 2 Likes
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| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by swagguElite(m): 5:05pm On May 21, 2017 |
It doesn't depend on nothing ...if it ends ... I can't just stop talking to you like that! ...I will greet her evrytime I see her but no further talks other than good morning! ...good afternoon! Any other talk will eventually lead to us bleeping each other again n dat will surely end with a "What happened? ..I thought we were done?" N I will say "Yes;of course ...we are done! ...yu should be heading for the door now!"  ...no time! 4 Likes |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by JUSTICEOFFICIAL(op): 8:53pm On May 21, 2017 |
Thank you all for sharing your views. For starters, @purity22 went all in, straight to her point and I believe she spoke for many other people. I do agree with @Afonjashapmouth, you wouldn't want to call your exes on events like their birthdays, it will be odd if their new partner finds out. Like someone said on TNY comments section, you don't need to keep their phone number, what if you mistakenly dial their number. Probably, they think it's a tactic to get in touch or getting back together or so. I believe someone somewhere learnt something today, at least I did. |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by Cleopatra4(f): 12:00pm On May 22, 2017 |
I cut every ties with my ex. hate bringing back memories. Let the past be in the past... 4 Likes |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by Fuckshiit: 12:10pm On May 22, 2017 |
[color=#F535AA]wè refûck ourselves on occasions [/color] |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by Fuckshiit: 12:11pm On May 22, 2017 |
Cleopatra4:[color=#F535AA] guess he's a bad fúcker?[/color] |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by Nobody: 12:12pm On May 22, 2017 |
Friends with an ex? No, I'm not that evolved. I cut all ties completely. |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by Nobody: 1:12pm On May 22, 2017 |
Some guys try to pull that let's be friends years down the line after a breakup but my point is, why be friends with your exes when you could make new friends?. |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by newslifeop: 1:12pm On May 22, 2017 |
yes |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by Cleopatra4(f): 2:17pm On May 22, 2017 |
Fuckshiit:Dunno what you mean?? |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by Burna88(f): 2:23pm On May 22, 2017 |
I didnt even use to follow dem Before,i ll avoid Everythin Dar can gv me Stress later |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by Aniker(f): 2:32pm On May 22, 2017 |
Not just that, I'll go on to date his bff  |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by Nobody: 2:36pm On May 22, 2017 |
If it ended amicably I can be cool with them |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by rooskii(m): 2:37pm On May 22, 2017 |
Lol, na so oo |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by Dicedpineapple(f): 2:59pm On May 22, 2017 |
i don't mind keeping in touch with my ex.....Friends,yes.....bt EX u are and EX u still would be |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by ModusOperandi(f): 3:52pm On May 22, 2017 |
Block them on WhatsApp, delete their numbers , if your phone has a number blocking feature, do that too |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by Nobody: 4:01pm On May 22, 2017 |
That depends on the reason for the break up and circumstances surrounding it. 3 Likes |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by YoungBlackRico(m): 4:45pm On May 22, 2017 |
[color=#CC6600]It depends on how or why the relationship ended. Sometimes, I think it's best to give each other some space and focus more on making yourself a better person after breakups. After some couple of years together, my relationship went south few weeks back. It used to be an on and off thing, but then I decided I've had enough. I deleted her numbers, disposed off photographs and blocked her on social media. With the way things ended between us, I don't think we're ever gonna talk again. [/color] [color=#848b79]©YBR[/color] |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by YoungBlackRico(m): 4:49pm On May 22, 2017 |
Cleopatra4:[color=#CC6600]You nailed it. [/color] [color=#848b79]©YBR[/color] |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by Nobody: 5:06pm On May 22, 2017 |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by MsFaith: 6:30pm On May 22, 2017 |
I cut all ties with my exes, of what use is keeping in contact and be wishing you were still together ,after he has moved on or probably married 'the bone of his bones'. My ex even called me some days back, he was surprised I asked, 'who is this?'. He was like, faithy, you have deleted my number! I said yes na, when you already have a gf, why should I still be holding on to you. yeye dey smell 1 Like |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by mekybabe1: 6:33pm On May 22, 2017 |
You did chook chook with four of your x an  d your name is purity abi?purity22: |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by Lalas247(f): 6:35pm On May 22, 2017 |
Cut all ties... friends ko Only time i will contact is to send my wedding invitation ... nonsense |
| Re: Do You Cut All Ties With An Ex Or Move Forward As Friends? by KennyID17(m): 6:40pm On May 22, 2017 |
Lalas247: Note taken |
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