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This post is a direct response to this "Any Lady That Expects Her Husband To Be With Only Her Is Plain Stupid" here https://www.nairaland.com/3811073/lady-expects-husband-only-plain

I don't understand why a Virtuous woman who does everything to make sure her man is comfortable in all aspects of marital life should be called stupid for expecting her man to be with only her forever.

I think some men needs to be flogged every morning when they wake from bed and also before they go to bed in the night, the writer of the above post is one of them.

To cheat now is not even a secret anymore, and it is something every man should do and be proud of according to what the writer.

Well, ladies! the good thing is this, any man who cheat should be treated like a toddler not even a boy.

One thing i don't even understand is the reason why men should think they are the only one free to seek sexual pleasure outside their marriage, forgetting that what is good for one goose is good for another goose.

You ain't stupid for desiring a good future free of war for yourself and your children as you know the effect of marital rivalry which may ensue when a stupid man mis-use the rod behind his legs.

If you can say she is stupid for demanding that her man should be for only her, what then should we call you who supports that a man should waste all the energy that should be used to satisfy the woman sexually?

If after you have wondered about with the antenna and there is no energy left for erection you will now be shouting foul when she seeks pleasure outside.

Oh! You think she should keep fasting and praying that it should come up?

You should be ashamed as a man if your woman can be completely faithful to only you, yet, you feel the only way to pay her for being loyal is to share the true bond which she enjoys secretly and legally for that matter with another woman who might even be carrier of STD?

As a man, what will go through your mind when you catch your woman moaning under another man?

The experience is unthinkable right? Why not just put yourself in her shoes before calling her stupid.

They know you cheat but pretends that all is well because you have never been caught.

Despite the fact that you are unfaithful she still trust you and accept that the TV is white and black because you said that is what it is when it is obvious to the blind it is coloured.

She turned deaf ears to the rumor and experiences of others, yet, all you can call her is stupid?

That antenna should be crucified the day you are caught in the act.

Respect is one thing that shouldn't be thrown to the gutter in an ideal marriage, the moment you can relate your sex escapades to your wife without fear you don't deserve any respect anymore from such woman as you have disrespected her woefully.

Please, it is important that if a woman can be respectful and faithful, every man should learn to at least accord her the necessary respect she deserves even if you cannot try to be as loyal as she is.

To all the good and loyal women out there; you are extremely wonderful and a blessing to a man who knows your worth. May the day you cried out of the womb to the world be blessed.


Source: http://bamisepeters..in/2017/05/re-any-lady-that-expects-her-husband-to.html

Me, I understand ppl cheat
But whatever you do make sure I don't find out
For safety reasons

B

Nice

You know sometimes is not the fault of the men who cheat here and there. Resisting the temptations of slay queens is difficult.

U fit just dey on your own dey think about your lovely wife/gf, and then one slay queen go just comot from nowhere and scatter your happiness

i concur

Do this men cheat with
Firewood or women?

You see women are the cause
And they are the reason men
Cheat..

They have accepted that it's
Normal for a man to cheat
Because they dated married
Men when they were single..

So my dear op.. Leave it like
That.. Any woman that expects
A faithful man is stupid...

chynie:
Me, I understand ppl cheat But whatever you do make sure I don't find out For safety reasons

You are the bomb.

Any man that expects his lady to be with only him alone is Plain greedy and foolish...

E get as e be.

Davash222:
You are the bomb.

Our ppl be saying suffer with your man
And I suffer with him sotey e come blow
Then come begin pursue p***y upandan

I laugh in Jamaica

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VampireeM:
[size=11pt]This is one the flimsy excuses men has been giving since time immemorial and it has become stale. I hope when your wife tells you the same you would UNDERSTAND

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You are not a man so you won't understand what every man goes through everyday just to fight the temptations of these slay queens. Men are not safe everywhere. Even our churches, slay queens won't let men rest. It is well

You are a woman, you don't wake up everyday to see some men walking around in only boxers, giving you some flirtatious look, etc

I keep saying this,

I LOOK FORWARD TO THAT DAY WHEN SEX WILL BE AS EASY AS LETS GO PLAY LUDO

elmagnifo:
You know sometimes is not the fault of the men who cheat here and there. Resisting the temptations of slay queens is difficult.

U fit just dey on your own dey think about your lovely wife/gf, and then one slay queen go just comot from nowhere and scatter your happiness

You are talking trash.simple you cannot control your thing.not all men that fall for slay queens.

u may be right

The worst is that those ''sugar daughters'' and irresponsible men who peddle such lies have made some good ladies doubt the possibility of finding faithful men out there.

Pls ladies, find yourselves responsible men who will drink only from your occean of water. Don't expose yourselft to unnecessary risks of infection for whatever reasons! Don't settle for a public toilet when you can have a personalized one in your private home. You deserve better!

Op, its like there is a special stream you ppl fetch stupidity

cos i cant see why you should be so full of it, arent you concern it may cause an irreparable damage to your senses?

A woman who expected her man to be faithful to her alone is not stupid. A man who is not faithful to one woman is also not missing the line, he is only been natural.

gotnel:
A woman who expected her man to be faithful to her alone is not stupid. A man who is not faithful to one woman is also not missing the line, he is only been natural.

Thank you, that's the point.

Nickizoe:
Any man that expects his lady to be with only him alone is Plain greedy and foolish...

Crush e be like say this one pain you.

elmagnifo:
You are not a man so you won't understand what every man goes through everyday just to fight the temptations of these slay queens. Men are not safe everywhere. Even our churches, slay queens won't let men rest. It is well

You are a woman, you don't wake up everyday to see some men walking around in only boxers, giving you some flirtatious look, etc

When i see a man, sexy body, nice smile, smelling good, do you know the thoughts that come to my head? How good could his stroke game will be? is he a good kisser? I wonder if his joystick is big? Women get tempted too, we're not robots who don't experience feelings. In terms of temptations, we have to fight it more. We have approx 5 different guys approaching us everday to 'get to know us'. So what exactly are you talking about. The main issue is that too many men lack self control and act on their temporary emotions.

If with all the temptation I face everyday I am able to remain faithful ... I see no reason why the man should not do the same. It all boils down to having self control.
That is what guys should understand, you are not the only one that face temptations.... so quit using this excuse.. it is already becoming stale.
Just the same way some ladies aren't satisfied with just a partner, we have the guys who do the same thing... it goes both ways. I repeat it still boils down to self control.
Dear Men stop deceiving yourselves saying most times you can't help it... If you can't be faithful to your partner don't expect faithfulness from them too... and vice versa

NaeChris:
Crush e be like say this one pain you.

Hahahahahahahah E pain me ooh

Nickizoe:
Hahahahahahahah E pain me ooh

Oya sorry no vex you hear?

Come 2 think oo
How will I even cheat on my wife
It brings down ur respect as a man
den y dd en u marry her at d 1st place

elmagnifo:
You know sometimes is not the fault of the men who cheat here and there. Resisting the temptations of slay queens is difficult.

U fit just dey on your own dey think about your lovely wife/gf, and then one slay queen go just comot from nowhere and scatter your happiness

Ur mumunity ti koja be careful
Just shut it till u have small sense