A friend confided in me abt the issues she's having in her relationship.The story is funny and complicated at the same time but i didn't jst want to jump into conclusion that's why i want to hear other people's opinion because she needs urgent help....Here's the story in summary:

My friend found out her bf was cheating on her with his longtime ex(so he claims) bt he was stil denying it,to get to d bottom of it she smhw contacted d ex-gf who confirmed dt they were actually hving an affair n dt d guy claimed he had broken up with his gf....both girls agreed to confront d guy to knw exactly wat he was up to n guess wat he told dem both? (This is d part dt got me laughing) The guy told dem dt he luvs d both of dem,he luvs my friend because she's loyal n if he were to settle down,it wld be with her...He luvs his ex becuz she's good in bed(smh)...Nw he doesn't want to breakup with my friend n dt is where she's confused becuz she luvs him very much too....Pls fellow Nlanders,What wld u advise her to do?

Your friend should go find herself a guy who isn't confused. Cos this one is totally messed up.

This is exactly wat am facing now......pls NL advice us.

So, indirectly...he'll keep cheating on her cz she lacks the skills

This is a no brainer...why bother??

lol this story sounds so familiar. back in high school some guy said the same thing to me and this other chick .

Op u making me wonder woman!

Your friend boyfriend is so self centered and selfish and it's obvious he has little respect for the ladies in his life!!

dollyjoy:
Your friend boyfriend is so self centered and selfish and it's obvious he has little respect for the ladies in his life!!

Why should he respect dos girls? Do dey respect demselves?


If dey did, dey both shud hv dumped him.

Wait what? My houmor is on holiday so bear with me. The other woman (so called ex) knew about your friend and some women will always hope of becoming the main chick. She needs to walk away from this with her dignity intact not start competing for his affection as some women will do.

It's funny that he loves her for her loyalty but he won't reciprocate it. The guy is clearly not ready to be exclusive with anyone , if she's looking for commitment she should move on .

Ur friend needs a high five on the face for loving him.... He knws ur frnd is gullible.. So he's getting to her through that

Nomfanelo99:
lol this story sounds so familiar. back in high school some guy said the same thing to me and this other chick .

Lol, and what was his reason to you

@blacisbeautie lol, does this kinda thing happen in Lagos or anywhere in this country ?

LePrezident:

Lol, and what was his reason to you

lol I'm guessing I don't have to tell you anymore

Nomfanelo99:


lol I'm guessing I don't have to tell you anymore

Lol

yinkeys:
@blacisbeautie lol, does this kinda thing happen in Lagos or anywhere in this country ?

lol...yes it happened right here in dis country.

He really loves your friend more than his ex l . No man jokes with a woman that's loyal and very respectful to him. Now that he has opened up. Tell your friend to ask the guy what he likes during sxx and I assure you that if your friend start doing those things that her ex does in bed. The guy will forget about that his ex and focus on your friend .but the problem is that most loyal girls are not wild during sexxx and this is why many married men are cheating on there sweet loyal wife's today

blacisbeautie:

lol...yes it happened right here in dis country.

which state if i may ask ?

I suggest yr friend shld walk away if she cant cope

dollyjoy:
Your friend boyfriend is so self centered and selfish and it's obvious he has little respect for the ladies in his life!!

sweet boobs