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IT IS NOT A MUST TO HAVE AN EX: To young guys & young ladies who are about stepping into relationship adventure, please note this! It is not compulsory you must have an Ex.

It is not an achievement that you have so many Exs before you will finally settle down to marry. Yes, situations & circumstances beyond you can cause such to happen, but when you begin to count 10 to 15 exs you dated and dropped because of your unbridled desire, sexual adventure, materialism or looking for perfect guy/lady before you will finally settle for one, it is a bad sign.


The way some boast of this 'my ex, my exs, all my exs, they make it look like, you must have serial of broken relationship before you can finally settle down in marriage.


It is possible to be in love with just one lady/one guy and you both build a solid courtship and end up marrying each other. Don't let many guys/ ladies refer to you alone as their ex.


I just feel like telling you this. Accumulating Exs as if you are accumulating degrees is not an achievement. Look well before you leap. If you know you won't marry that person, stop sharing your love, emotion, affection,& body here and there.


Ebenezer Diyaolu

So

Are you saying if you in a relationship .. he cheats beats the living day light outta ya
You will stay because you don't want to have an ex

Like
Makes no sense

So what if she goes and tries again nko.. .. please sometimes dating not always sexually you need to go through a few frogs to find your version of Price charming !
Now if you are a virgin !!!!!! You can still have ex's
Or are you saying if you date one Guy don't date again ( so we don't acquire ex's )

Sorry just don't get the point you trying to make ..

G

LalaLushness:
So

Are you saying if you in a relationship .. he cheats beats the living day light outta ya
You will stay because you don't want to have an ex

Like
Makes no sense

So what if she goes and tries again nko.. .. please sometimes dating not always sexually you need to go through a few frogs to find your version of Price charming !
Now if you are a virgin !!!!!! You can still have ex's

Sorry just don't get the point you trying to make ..

U obviously didn't get what she was trying to say...

Y do women like deflecting? The topic is very straight forward until u decided to twist it..... If you find urself in an unhealthy/violent/unfruitful relationship Ofcourse u should leave (be u a man or woman) buh she's not talking about that....

Doctorfitz:
U obviously didn't get what she was trying to say...

Yh i don't get it .. please explain .. me n naija mentality no they mix
Yh but what if every relationship the lady goes into she is unaware the guy gets violent or maybe serial cheat!
Also gave example for virgins too wasn't only focus on the violence ..
How r u

[color=#F535AA] Fúçkiñg yeah right[/color]

LalaLushness:
Yh i don't get it .. please explain .. me n naija mentality no they mix
How r u

She's just saying don't fvck around too much, do it with discretion..

Moreover having too much experience myt haunt you later,

Doctorfitz:
She's just saying don't fvck around too much, do it with discretion.

Ok so basically doing the same body count post we had last week .. then the topic should be changed
It is misleading we have Nigerians all over the world not all understand this ..#justsaying

LalaLushness:
Ok so basically doing the same body count post we had last week .. then the topic should be changed
It is misleading we have Nigerians all over the world not all understand this ..#justsaying

U're not Nigerian I presume or maybe you didnt grow up here?

Doctorfitz:
U're not Nigerian I presume or maybe you didnt grow up here?

I am but didn't grow up there .. so I see things black and white
Having ex's doesn't mean they having sex with every single one hence why I was confused

LalaLushness:
Yh i don't get it .. please explain .. me n naija mentality no they mix
Yh but what if every relationship the lady goes into she is unaware the guy gets violent or maybe serial cheat!
Also gave example for virgins too wasn't only focus on the violence ..
How r u

I'm fine, can a lady be that unlucky?

Doctorfitz:
I'm fine, can a lady be that unlucky?

Lol yup the naive ones ... and you know how you guys come fp dressed as sheep
No one has player or cheat on their forehead we take risks sometimes risks doesn't pay off .. life i guess

LalaLushness:
I am but didn't grow up there .. so I see things black and white
Having ex's doesn't mean they having sex with every single one hence why I was confused

Oh no wonder, most relationships in Nigeria are sexually oriented, hence the write up... Though there are exceptions Buh it is still what it is..

LalaLushness:
Lol yup the naive ones ... and you know how you guys come fp dressed as sheep
No one has player or cheat on their forehead we take risks sometimes risks doesn't pay off .. life i guess

Like women don't play men

KennyID17:


Like women don't play men

Yes vice versa .. lol I no get deep na
Morning sunshine

LalaLushness:
Lol yup the naive ones ... and you know how you guys come fp dressed as sheep
No one has player or cheat on their forehead we take risks sometimes risks doesn't pay off .. life i guess

So U're not naive invariably?

Doctorfitz:
Oh no wonder, most relationships in Nigeria are sexually oriented, hence the write up... Though there are exceptions Buh it is still what it is..

Lol yes starting to see in Nigeria either it's sex or money no inbetween .. guess it's the way the country is "shrugs"

Doctorfitz:
So U're not naive invariably?

Nope been burnt once so super not interested
Can only trust Jesus at this point

LalaLushness:
Yes vice versa .. lol I no get deep na
Morning sunshine

Morning your Royal awesomeness

LalaLushness:
Nope been burnt once so super not interested
Can only trust Jesus at this point

Oya Goan marry Jesus na

To me I think it's healthy to know what you want to prevent having too many exes...

The frequent heartbreaks, financial commitments, sexual commitments, emotional trauma etc has a way of messing up with u in the long run ..

U start having trust issues, u're unable to love etc

At the end of the day a good guy turns bad and a once good girl myt turn bad.

Comot there jor! See this smor geh, what do you know?

KennyID17:
Oya Goan marry Jesus na

U no see halo for my head ni
Men watching politics I'm torn between conservative now o

KennyID17:
Morning your Royal awesomeness

Omo Alhaji

LalaLushness:
Nope been burnt once so super not interested
Can only trust Jesus at this point

Now U're getting what the op is saying, having an ex messes up with you... Now u have trust issues, just imagine having another heartbreak and see how deep u fall into that zone, not my wish Tho

LalaLushness:
U no see halo for my head ni
Men watching politics I'm torn between conservative now o

I can't really engage u on d politics of d UK, as I'm on knowledgeable based on what I'm fed by d news. But conservatives are right winged na

KennyID17:
I can't really engage u on d politics of d UK, as I'm on knowledgeable based on what I'm fed by d news. But conservatives are right winged na

Yes was but this morning I am swaying to labour ....
Conservative for those earning 80 grand n up the rich before them increase taxes again

LalaLushness:
So

Are you saying if you in a relationship .. he cheats beats the living day light outta ya
You will stay because you don't want to have an ex

Like
Makes no sense

So what if she goes and tries again nko.. .. please sometimes dating not always sexually you need to go through a few frogs to find your version of Price charming !
Now if you are a virgin !!!!!! You can still have ex's
Or are you saying if you date one Guy don't date again ( so we don't acquire ex's )

Sorry just don't get the point you trying to make ..

come baby Av u asked urself this simple question......why is it only me that will be cheated on and beaten by any guy am un a relationship with. It simply means something is wrong with you. Either u re cursed or have some bad habit that you don't want to come to term with. Tho is not directly to you my dear am just telling anylady who is always in such scenario to do some check ND balance on her self and character

madone:
come baby Av u asked urself this simple question......why is it only me that will be cheated on and beaten by any guy am un a relationship with. It simply means something is wrong with you. Either u re cursed or have some bad habit that you don't want to come to term with. Tho is not directly to you my dear am just telling anylady who is always in such scenario to do some check ND balance on her self and character

That is a reality for lots of females and males .... as we speak someone is fvking their receptionist
You know how many ppl cheating in the world right this min
In the quest of finding mr right or mrs right you will have at ex's

LalaLushness:
Yes was but this morning I am swaying to labour ....
Conservative for those earning 80 grand n up the rich before them increase taxes again

Theresa may is a conservative na?

LalaLushness:
That is a reality for lots of females and males .... as we speak someone is fvking their receptionist
You know how many ppl cheating in the world right this min
In the quest of finding mr right or mrs right you will have at ex's

[color=#F535AA] And jërking him the fûçk off while sucking his fúçkiñg cöçk [/color]

KennyID17:
Theresa may is a conservative na?

Yh lol but think ppl would rather have labour
She too mean lol