greyboy5000:
you said my mind..I really don't understand why ladies think there ticket to a good life is a rich man... so what happens to girls and ladies that are not so good looking... do they deserve to die single as well.. cause that is what they are saying going by there logic
... no wonder lots of ladies bleach a lot nowadays

tobianthony:


Bro even we guys do the same thing .

On the real I remember dating a banker thinking that she would have her finances in order and help contribute financially in the relationship or at least be able to hold her own ...as at the time I was what the OP would call a " broke guy "

I was broke yet my office space rent was 1m .

I was broke but the previous year I was paying salaries to employees .

I was dead wrong ... Regardless of her salary still had to give her money every now and then to get to work and do other things .

It's ok let them call us broke ...as you are mopping floors , sleeping on other people's couches , eating what you can - sacrificing what you can to get to where you are going ...keep your eyes on the prize .

God can use anyone to pay your hospital bills ...including the so called " broke guy / girl " .

Quinn22:
Let me tell you a real life story, and I hope you mumu, not so smart ladies can learn from this

It goes like this, there's this my neighbor she's married to a calabar man. She was with him when he was broke, he was an okada man when she first met him, she helped him financially and she became a blessing to his life, right now as I'm saying this, the guy is into real estate and he's fucking rich all thanks to the help of his wife who stood by him through the thinnest.

But right now the man is way over his head because of his success having multiple side chicks here and there, embarrassing and disrespecting his wife in public, kissing his side chick in front of his wife in a surrounding where people know that they are married, the most painful thing is that he couldn't care less. Anyways long story short, the wife is living a miserable life due to a disaster marriage, she's having lots of regrets but it's too late now. The deed has already been done, FYI the married couple have 3 kids.

Quinn22:
Let me tell you a real life story, and I hope you mumu, not so smart ladies can learn from this

It goes like this, there's this my neighbor she's married to a calabar man. She was with him when he was broke, he was an okada man when she first met him, she helped him financially and she became a blessing to his life, right now as I'm saying this, the guy is into real estate and he's fucking rich all thanks to the help of his wife who stood by him through the thinnest.

But right now the man is way over his head because of his success having multiple side chicks here and there, embarrassing and disrespecting his wife in public, kissing his side chick in front of his wife in a surrounding where people know that they are married, the most painful thing is that he couldn't care less. Anyways long story short, the wife is living a miserable life due to a disaster marriage, she's having lots of regrets but it's too late now. The deed has already been done, FYI the married couple have 3 kids.

tobianthony:


The irony of wealth right ?

Cinderella5:
In my opinion, a girl loving a broke guy is like a guy loving an ugly girl, it's tough.

Girls how do you cope in loving broke guys?

Quinn22:
Let me tell you a real life story, and I hope you mumu, not so smart ladies can learn from this

It goes like this, there's this my neighbor she's married to a calabar man. She was with him when he was broke, he was an okada man when she first met him, she helped him financially and she became a blessing to his life, right now as I'm saying this, the guy is into real estate and he's fucking rich all thanks to the help of his wife who stood by him through the thinnest.

But right now the man is way over his head because of his success having multiple side chicks here and there, embarrassing and disrespecting his wife in public, kissing his side chick in front of his wife in a surrounding where people know that they are married, the most painful thing is that he couldn't care less. Anyways long story short, the wife is living a miserable life due to a disaster marriage, she's having lots of regrets but it's too late now. The deed has already been done, FYI the married couple have 3 kids.

Cinderella5:
thanks for being honest.

AHCB:
That's one case in a million. There are numerous cases where the man remain faithful..

TheMortician:
just station as it is. Women are biologically predisposed to look out for men with the resources to keep her and her offspring. A broke "fine" dude is a preconditioned illusion on Hollywood and Bollywood. In reality it doesn't hold.


A broke dude has no business preaching love or falling into one.

bpee:
ure d one that has d wrong mentality,,is it only guys that are broke? Girls are too..if as a lady ure broke,u have no right judging or calling out any broke guy,,and any rich dude consenting to date u is actually doing u a small favour

AHCB:
That's one case in a million. There are numerous cases where the man remain faithful..

Cinderella5:
you have a wrong mentlity.

tobianthony:


The irony of wealth right ?

AHCB:
LOL. Might I ask what your definition of a broke guy is?

TheMortician:
just stating as it is. Women are biologically predisposed to look out for men with the resources to keep her and her offspring. A broke "fine" dude is a preconditioned illusion brought about by Hollywood and Bollywood. In reality it doesn't hold.


A broke dude has no business preaching love or falling into one.

Apina:

I just can't believe there are brain dead peeps like Urself still roaming this forum. Money can never buy u life or love, I know u and those frustrated and confused ignoramuses will in ur defense say its better to cry in a range rover bla bla bla. Ewu! U will die frustrated, unhappy,lonely and unloved cos just like a piece of tissue, ur only purpose will be to clean someone else's sh.it.

Cinderella5:
the dictionary definition will do just fine. Someone who doesn't have enough to spend on necessities.

Berbierklaus:
On this thread,I feel ashamed as a woman

tobianthony:


If a broke guy or girl has no business being in a relationship how does he or her gain experience to treat their partners right when they have the money ?

Safiaa:
No. A leech is the wrong term. I find it so ironic that men will have so much standards and criterias for the women of their choice. From physical criterias that are so shallow to culinary criterias etc. The minute a woman decides she has 'standards' she's a gold digger. I agree that if a woman doesn't have shiiit and she wants a millionaire, she's reaching beyond her level. But for a woman to state that she doesn't date broke men or men below her financial status is completely her preference, especially if she's got money of her own. She's allowed to have her beliefs without being labelled a gold digger or a leech. Men get too emotional and soft when it comes to these topics, you forget to think rationally. Its due to low self esteem.

Quinn22:
I dey tell you, in reality they are worse than an olosho

Alphamale2017:
I understand what u Tryna say. it's not easy dating a broke guy. but u are not fine either. hope u are planning to be independent oh. just in case u don't end up with a rich man

Draei:

So in your little world of gold-digging fantasy,
any lady who decides to be financially okay
before stepping into any guy's life is trying to
impress the guy?

Now it is more clear the brain tumor in your empty
cracked cerebellum has eaten deep into your senses.

IdeyFindWife:


All these "mentally-retar.ded" threads overflogging cliches. Beggi-beggi girls on "ashawo-kobo-kobo" gold-digging levels looking for mugus to leech just dey put persin on RedAlert sef!

Your deliverance will come when you create ur wealth and control ur own reality instead of looking for moneybags upandan; u lot spend way too much time discussing shyt talk, mtcheww!

But, i don't blame you. Na d boys wey dey bother u for chyking to 'cool-bodi' we go blame; we don tell dem say "jobless man nor suppose dey erect preek", dem nor go hear, dey pop Alomo upandan, agbero generation ! U fit una selves!!

tobianthony:
Sometimes I can't believe the way some people reason on this forum ...how can you say that a woman cannot be broke .

A broke guy now equals an ugly girl .

Like I have said before it's high time we get a dislike button on this forum .

My brothers double your hustle ...sisters double your hustle ...your partner is not your hustle ohhh .

Money is never enough ... Looks will be insignificant in the realm of misfortune .

Strive to get your finances in order .

Well who am I to criticise . Just know that when you leave the so called " broke guy or girl " ...when God blesses them do not go back to the person to ask for help .

lefulefu:

go and date a billioniare na.dem force u to date a broke guy?

Quinn22:
Let me tell you a real life story, and I hope you mumu, not so smart ladies can learn from this

It goes like this, there's this my neighbor she's married to a calabar man. She was with him when he was broke, he was an okada man when she first met him, she helped him financially and she became a blessing to his life, right now as I'm saying this, the guy is into real estate and he's fucking rich all thanks to the help of his wife who stood by him through the thinnest.

But right now the man is way over his head because of his success having multiple side chicks here and there, embarrassing and disrespecting his wife in public, kissing his side chick in front of his wife in a surrounding where people know that they are married, the most painful thing is that he couldn't care less. Anyways long story short, the wife is living a miserable life due to a disaster marriage, she's having lots of regrets but it's too late now. The deed has already been done, FYI the married couple have 3 kids.

Cinderella5:
wow, you are so angry why? You can jump to your death then, not my business.