Cinderella5:
you didn't prove anything. There are no broke girls. Only guys are termed broke. If in the next 10 years I don't make money no one will look down on me, provided I have a family, but if you don't, you will be termed a disappointment.

Oh really? How did you come about this genius thought of yours?

I'm sure you don't know the era we are in now prey on women who are broke, weak and dependant?

If you truly believe there are no broke girls, then I suggest you take a look at the number of student who beg guys for recharge cards and the girls who date their father's mate for cash.

Acidosis:


Unfortunately, nothing can tame a woman like you. Marry Adenuga, you'd still cheat on him with Dangote.

Marry Mark Zuckerberg, you will cheat on him with Bill Gates.

Your type will run after a Banker's salary, but end up wasting his hard earn money on a Gym FCK boy. When caught, you give the same excuse and the need for FUN.

I sincerely hope you aren't 18 yet... you reason like a JAMBite.

omo pity this girl abeg, do you want to give her sleepless night abeg I dey beg!

Cinderella5:
eya, You seem very broke. Sorry dear

What does it mean to be broke? It's girls like u that they use for rituals, jumping up and down looking for who will spend on a liability like Urself. Don't go and get something doing with ur life, keep on roaming the streets.

AHCB:
Must I pick a side? I don't conform to societal rules, regulations and norms. Neither do I conform to the flimsy thought that they are 2 sides to a coin.

Kindly elucidate on the bolded. I'm sure you know people say "men are scared of women who are financially independent". So I wonder what you meant by "you want to be equal with finance".

Fine. Don't pick a side. Now, when some women do not believe in financial equality with men, why can't you think rationally without calling her a gold digger since you don't conform to 'soceital rules' ? Why do you fit into the 'norms' of calling her a gold digger without actually understanding her point of view? If a women wants a man who will compliment her finances kini big deal? I just want to know.

Chai! People get mouth. I believe the one who open this thread must be regretting it by now. See finishing, this is what we call brutality.

Safiaa:
what is your argument? You're typing trash please.

If ur village people have seized ur brain, DAT u can no longer comprehend, better go and locate them and when u do, tell them u didn't see me.

Apina:

If ur village people have seized ur brain, DAT u can no longer comprehend, better go and locate them and when u do, tell them u didn't see me.

K

Cinderella5:
well, People say it but they are wrong, no broke girls. Reason is this, when a girl does not have money, it's not as much as an issue compared to when a guy doesn't have.

It is for a decent lady because without giving out your p*ssy,you can't receive.

AHCB:
You deserve a medal.

They need a brain reset , though they r still kids but will know when the time comes.
Pray they should know early cos if late, the sole called girls will beg to answer a man's name

Safiaa:
yawns. Weak argument. Weak logic. I would respect you more if you defend yourself with substance. This was a weak attempt. Try again.

Go get yourself a brain reset so you can talk to me.

makydebbie:
You've a twisted mentality. Go and make your money and watch how rich guys run after you. It's because you're broke, that's why broke seems the only option.

Nice one

Cinderella5:
you are funny.
Pls tell me why our new generation guys prefer to be tight handed and rather depend on women, our father's are not like your generation, what went wrong?

Ask yourself, are you stingy?
secondly, don't depend on anybody in life for money, seek God's direction so you also make it in life and help people.
Start having the mindset of helping people instead of the reverse.

u know one thing I like about reality?? it the fact that it is brutal and harsh. the reality is that 80- 90% of girls on this thread trying to defend this poo will still end up with average or even broke guys. only a few will hit the jackpot of "rich guy" that they all want.

and as they begin to age, their fantasies begin to die. they tend to become more realist
. u begin. to hear sentence like " so long he is honest and hard working and he can rent a place, we will start life together " LMAOO reality has a way of humbling people I swear

from the comments I have read so far, it means that without marriage, most of u will never ever be able to own a car. they will never be able to live an expensive house without marriage. if Linda ikeji was waiting for a man to come and do poverty eradication for her family, she was never have owned a house in banana island . that childish one said its not important for a lady to have be money. from. that her comment alone, I can tell u her level of hustle will be very low. I mean legit hustle oh. not alhaji in Abuja u want to visit. lol .

all this Na wishes and fantasy. reality will still fucck u up.

it's good to be optimistic. but he's better to be realist

Cinderella5:
whats the fun in a relationship where the guy cannot meet some financial demands of a girl? Cannot take her out to fancy places cos no money, we are just being realistic, call it leeching, doesnt matter.

My dear you would make a lot of sense to me and perhaps a few others on this thread if you would add a slash and both genders when making your points . For example :

" What's the fun in a relationship where a guy/ girl cannot meet the financial demands of a girl / guy ? Cannot take her/ him out to fancy places cos no money , we are just being realistic , call it love , it matters "

Last edit emphasis is mine .

Truth of the matter is the world has changed the roles and idiosyncracy of both males and females are being challenged by modern social trends .

As a man don't just bring home the money bag ...learn to cook and clean . As a woman just don't be satisfied by being a housewife ...go out and do something . # easier said than done .

One day I was driving and it hit me that all the girls I have dated none of them have my account details but I have theirs . I guess it says something more about me than it does about them .

My partner doesn't have a job at the moment but I don't mind taking care of her needs because when I was broke she was there ...I remember the day she gave me about four hundred and some change naira to go the office . Prayed for me and anointed me .

While my former fiance would constantly berate and belittle me for being broke and left me two months before my breakthrough .

Some people are natural takers they take ,take ,take ,take and when they give you things you might be tempted to think there's an unfair balance . While some are natural givers they give , give ,give - you might be tempted to take advantage of them .

Point - girl / guy every now and then treat your partner right nothing wrong in giving .

The Nigerian male child is conditioned to believe that if he does not have money no girl will love you .

My mum used to be so on my ass to get married till she travelled abroad and went on a few dates .

In the country where she lives ,she discovered that you are often expected to pay your part of the bill for what you ordered .

Over there nobody looks at you any different if you decide not to have children , or stay single or spend lavishly on weddings .

That's why I say my brothers do not let a woman's beauty sway you or influence you and my sister's do not let a man' s finances sway you ...get to know them and ask yourself if this person is good for you .

Beauty turns sour with a bad attitude ... Wealth could be ironic when you have no say in a relationship .

All the best ...got to go take a dump .

BiafraBushBoy:
Gold diggers association.

Make I dey go, before them dig my gold finish!!

lol ... how many gold you get

To all my brothers and sisters especially do not just sit down with a degree and wait for salary . Better go learn a skill which can be applied to produce a product that can be applied to a certain market place .

If you are broke at the moment there's nothing bad about it just keep your eyes on the prize ...Versace on the floor .

If you are broke at the moment be prepared for heart break .

If you are broke at the moment learn to be witty , funny , honest and be good in bed # yes don't laugh . real talk .

If you are broke at the moment keep dreaming ..do not give up .

Let the fear of proverty and the desire of a better life push you to become a better person .

There's power in being broke cause it makes you stronger , adaptable and hopefully wiser .

Do not despise your humble beginnings ...every empire starts from some where .

God bless

Safiaa:
Fine. Don't pick a side. Now, when some women do not believe in financial equality with men, why can't you think rationally without calling her a gold digger since you don't conform to 'soceital rules' ? Why do you fit into the 'norms' of calling her a gold digger without actually understanding her point of view? If a women wants a man who will compliment her finances kini big deal? I just want to know.

Does a woman not thinking rationally make her a gold digger? Come on, please check the meaning of gold digger. It has nothing to do with thoughts, but action.

Any woman who wants a man who will compliment her finance isn't a gold digger, especially if the woman has finance of her own.

But, any woman who wants a man who will compliment her finance, and she doesn't have squat, is already treading the path of gold digging.

Hope you understand now?

Cinderella5:
money makes ladies look good too, with the right clothes, hair, cream, make up, she will become beautiful.

Dats before she wakes up at morning

makydebbie:
You've a twisted mentality. Go and make your money and watch how rich guys run after you. It's because you're broke, that's why broke seems the only option.

you havnt made any sense.

Cinderella5:
you havnt made any sense.

Makydebbie made sense, go and hustle. Oshofree !!

Doctorfitz:



Makydebbie made sense, go and hustle. Oshofree !!

Linda ikeji has made money, it's good digging guys that are running after her, to eat her money.

Cinderella5:
so you can date a guy that never has to give and dependent

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on you?

Not dependent but it's not an expectation of mine to pay for everything ...
don't get me wrong if he is willing to pay and I have offered then all good ...
But I wont go there expecting lavishness
Some guys have money but on first date they don't show it.... so you could miss out on an all round guy just because he didn't splurge on u

makydebbie:
You've a twisted mentality. Go and make your money and watch how rich guys run after you. It's because you're broke, that's why broke seems the only option.

Mentality is on point
Love this !

The ladies themselves are broke ... so what will they be after
If she has her own small change trust me it's other things she will be looking at on the date.....

Imagine going on a date and maybe the girl says something he didn't like .. he gets up and tells her I am coming
But leaves

Now who go pay So u go begin cry abi .. una never jam crazy guys

AHCB:
Oh really? How did you come about this genius thought of yours?

I'm sure you don't know the era we are in now prey on women who are broke, weak and dependant?

If you truly believe there are no broke girls, then I suggest you take a look at the number of student who beg guys for recharge cards and the girls who date their father's mate for cash.

Lol my she no go school .. unilag alone
Have you seen them waiting for sugar daddies ..
They all broke leeching off married men comfortably.... without fear like it's a norm

lefulefu:

broke men shouldnt have erection
na so dem talk am

Burrrr, bro, u dey mind ur Naija boys, ni

Even with the de hot, harsh recession wind blowing everywia wey don shrink all the Indians, Chinko expatriates preeks run comot naija finish; na now naija broke boys come begin dey flex hard d!cks with thick veins upandan to dey find gals to take gym .

Even the way my own dey flex, dey nod, dey er3ct with anger everytime now dey worry me! Dibia say na only Japanese or Latina pvnny (complete with ringing-tones) de gods recommend for me to take step am down; where i go come find them na di issue now.

Help, a bros pls

Cinderella5:
you havnt made any sense.

How can I make sense to you when you aren't making sense yourself?
My dear, you've really got a twisted mentality. No kidding, I also hope you're not a feminist, because that makes you a hypocrite. Ladies that open threads like this one, I sometimes wonder if you don't have shame or something. You seem to see relationship as a poverty alleviation scheme. That's why most guys are always asking what we also bring to the table when all you do is ask. I pray you don't end up with an already made man as a broke girl. Then you'll know all that glitters isn't gold.

Why dont you make your money so you don't depend on any guy for shiit. Don't you want to take a stroll, and while you're at it, you see this ice cream you really like and buy it immediately? Do you have to wait for your boyfriend to come and get it for you? Do you know already made men don't give a shiit about broke girls? Even if you guys are dating that respect won't be there, after all its his hard earned money you're spending. That's why in my earlier comment, I said get rich and watch how rich guys chase you too. Do you know when you start making your money, that respect is there? You'll also know how to manage and not spend extravagantly because you know how hard you worked for it? I started doing menial jobs at seventeen. Not because I ain't pretty or I couldn't get rich guys, no. I wanted to wear my clothes, make my hair, flaunt it. And no guy will say he gave me any of it.
My dear make money first and you wouldn't worry about broke guys. There's a reason why we (women) were created, and that's not just to be eating off men.

LalaLushness:

Mentality is on point
Love this !

The ladies themselves are broke ... so what will they be after
If she has her own small change trust me it's other things she will be looking at on the date.....

Imagine going on a date and maybe the girl says something he didn't like .. he gets up and tells her I am coming
But leaves

Now who go pay So u go begin cry abi .. una never jam crazy guys

Honestly, the way girls don shine eyes for money ehn

You're so on point. My sister don meet one sha, she was lucky she carried something. The guy was owing someone and they came for him so she was alone na she pay for everything.

makydebbie:
Honestly, the way girls don shine eyes for money ehn

You're so on point. My sister don meet one sha, she was lucky she carried something. The guy was owing someone and they came for him so she was alone na she pay for everything.

You see! Your sis na wifey material
Invite me when she marry

Their eyes glow when they see paper some can smell it from afar lol