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What if your ex wants to come back? Find out; 1. Independently what your ex has been up to, who he has been with and why he is quitting to come back to you, 2. Your level of commitment to a new relationship, that is, if you are in a new one, 3. If you are in a new relationship and whether or not you are deep into it, assess the following: a. Having experienced both worlds, you should be better placed to gauge their level of seriousness with you in terms of the quality of time devoted to you, b. Accessibility and quality of communication. You could be with someone without having access to the person's inner recesses where the true person lives. This could be because he doesn't talk much about himself, his interests and his fears. He neither volunteers nor answers. 3. Why you? Find out from him. Take your time to study the development before you say 'No' or 'Yes', it is alright to give someone a second chance when they realize their mistakes, come back to apologize because they are remorseful and want you back be cause they now appreciate you worth. But be careful how you handle it. You wouldn't want to fall a victim the second time, would you?

I don't go back to my vomit,lobatan

StarBukola:
I don't go back to my vomit,lobatan

Really? can you say the same if he is a celeb or billionaire? just saying

Zzyzxt:
Really? can you say the same if he is a celeb or billionaire? just saying

FYI ,I don't run after money

StarBukola:
FYI ,I don't run after money

Its ok

Forward ever, backward never

YtivitissuP:
Forward ever, backward never

@ StarBukola: Sometimes in life, we need to go back to that heap of rubbish or vomit, to find the gold covered in dirt. Sometimes, we need to do the 'socially wrong' to get our lives back on the right track.

You see, a relationship is about two people from two different backgrounds, often with two different childhood dreams, coming together to seek happiness on the same path. There must be problems, some could pull them apart for a brief or a long period. But if they were meant to be together for love sake, they would come back, forgive one another, forget about the past and move on stronger together.

a dog never goes back to its vomit

What's the point? If you press rewind, the song will still play back the same.

Ayietim:
@ StarBukola: Sometimes in life, we need to go back to that heap of rubbish or vomit, to find the gold covered in dirt. Sometimes, we need to do the 'socially wrong' to get our lives back on the right track.

You see, a relationship is about two people from two different backgrounds, often with two different childhood dreams, coming together to seek happiness on the same path. There must be problems, some could pull them apart for a brief or a long period. But if they were meant to be together for love sake, they would come back, forgive one another, forget about the past and move on stronger together.

Yep! You're right but I don't just breakup. If I think she's the kinda girl that I might still consider, I'll cool off the relationship, something like going on a break, so that it becomes easier to get back

When I cool off my relationship with a girl, I don't consider her my ex but a friend. I keep the distance too, though not too far. One of the reasons I've got only one ex....