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Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jun 05, 2017
ZarZar:
I'm not really sure but I 1st heard about it from a friend that's married to a Nigerian, this year. She just had a baby in January but when she went to register for a birth certificate at Home Affairs, they told her that she should go to Lancet for a DNA test before they can proceed with the registration.
i think it's a brilliant! idea! it will help with holding men who thinks it's okay to go about getting women pregnant and abandoning them responsible unless it's just to victimise foreigners residents in SA.
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by jakandeola(m): 12:53pm On Jun 05, 2017
ZarZar:
You have control issues. You just did the same thing to aderola15. Why can't you just let people be?
I love my country snd hate wem people insult us most girls are hippocrate and useless dat thinks only we guys are players. see dis demon dat give another man baby as his. aderola na my padi I just attack her same wit amarabe we agree to disagreed. pls follow me back
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by Nobody: 1:02pm On Jun 05, 2017
gypsey:
i think it's a brilliant! idea! it will help with holding men who thinks it's okay to go about getting women pregnant and abandoning them responsible unless it's just to victimise foreigners residents in SA.
What do you by, unless it's to victimize? How does knowing you aren't raising a child that's not yours victimization, South African or otherwise? Because they can't claim child support unless it's filed, in this case, by the mother. Noone else has that authority. The way I see it, it works to protect everyone involved because guys are also victims of lying females regarding paternity.
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by realabraham: 1:02pm On Jun 05, 2017
goodmorning40:
What do u expect when u go looking for baby mama's, when u are not responsible shits will happen to u
Organize ur life make a home and stop donating sperms upan dan

Yeye man!
God bless you. The girl shouldn't have lied. But what refund? Haba girls don't suffer. If she refunds his money, he must also refund every sperm he put in her. He enjoyed it while it lasted. It's good to start a family the right way. There are good women too. Gosh
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by Horlahmah(m): 1:03pm On Jun 05, 2017
Real Nigeria Man.

Learnt lesson after the deed is done.

No pity for shameful unorganised life of some youth of nowadays.
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by Nobody: 1:04pm On Jun 05, 2017
jakandeola:
I love my country snd hate wem people insult us most girls are hippocrate and useless dat thinks only we guys are players. see dis demon dat give another man baby as his. aderola na my padi I just attack her same wit amarabe we agree to disagreed. pls follow me back
OK. Fine.
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by jakandeola(m): 1:06pm On Jun 05, 2017
ZarZar:
OK. Fine.
tnk u baby
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by Nobody: 1:06pm On Jun 05, 2017
jakandeola:
tnk u baby
You smiley smh
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by Nobody:
ZarZar:
What do you by, unless it's to victimize? How does knowing you aren't raising a child that's not yours victimization, South African or otherwise? Because they can't claim child support unless it's filed, in this case, by the mother. Noone else has that authority. The way I see it, it works to protect everyone involved because guys are also victims of lying females regarding paternity.
i meant, ultimately demanding for children support from the fathers of children born in SA by the SA child support agency, since you have elaborated on the benefits of it to mothers I agree totally it is a fantastic idea. it makes a lot sense.

I also believe that a father should be responsible for the welfare of his children not abandoning them for their mothers to take care of.
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by Sterope(f): 1:17pm On Jun 05, 2017
Passing off someone else's child as another's...should be CRIMINAL

It should carry a hefty sentence. It is wickedness at its peak
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by Nobody: 1:25pm On Jun 05, 2017
gypsey:
i meant, ultimately demanding for children support from the fathers of children born on SA but the SA child support agency, but since you have elaborated on the benefits of it to mothers I agree totally it is a fantastic idea. it makes a lot sense.

I also believe that a father should be responsible for the welfare of his children not abandoning them for their mothers to take care of.
Yeah, you're right. But sadly, there are some guys who prefer their children to be like flour & be self-raising grin This puts a lot of strain on tax payers because it means the govt. should now take over responsibility for the welfare of these children. Things are changing though, as more women are going to court to put these deadbeats to shame. Reason why I think they came up with this law that requires the state to be privy of who fathered the child, so there won't be any false claims or confusion should the mother decide to seek child support.
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by califotox: 1:29pm On Jun 05, 2017
Kobicove:
This guy is obviously a looser...couldn't even write in proper English undecided

By the way, shouldn't this be a private issue?
. Proff.. I c u dat write English well who u ehp?? Check his acct balance and check urs. For the fact he used pigin English 2 write on his fb wall doesn't mean he can't write English proper! Just chill wen he combak 2 9ja he'll employ u in his company+++++++ #checkmysignature grin grin
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jun 05, 2017
ZarZar:
Yeah, you're right. But sadly, there are some guys who prefer their children to be like flour & be self-raising grin This puts a lot of strain on tax payers because it means the govt. should now take over responsibility for the welfare of these children. Things are changing though, as more women are going to court to put these deadbeats to shame. Reason why I think they came up with this law that requires the state to be privy of who fathered the child, so there won't be any false claims or confusion should the mother decide to seek child support.
LOL @ self-raising flour, i Absolutely! %1000 agree totally with everything you ve said.
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by WORLDPEACE(m): 1:36pm On Jun 05, 2017
ZarZar:
Lol @ your last line. No comment.
I can understand if you don't like the impersonal and transactional nature of the whole thing. I just thought things would be easier for you that way. The alternative is you come to Nigeria and we do it here. I guess we would need some time to warm up to each other. My hometown is just right for that. The whole town is a beautiful beach and the bushes are full of plants with aphrodisiac properties. They will help us get our blood hot. I have royal blood. That means you'll have a prince in your hands. There's nothing better than a child who has leadership in his genes. You must give this the consideration it deserves.
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by tectonotimes: 1:38pm On Jun 05, 2017
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Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by PastorAji(m): 1:43pm On Jun 05, 2017
methinks i have to do DNA test on that boy asap
slawomir:
Sure. Record has it that about 40% of first child between a couple is not really owned by the husband!!!
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by EuroBoy007(m): 1:47pm On Jun 05, 2017
goodmorning40:
What do u expect when u go looking for baby mama's, when u are not responsible shits will happen to u
Organize ur life make a home and stop donating sperms upan dan

Yeye man!
I'm not in support of baby mama stuffs but oga even some married women carries another man's​ child n d husband b thinking he's​ responsible for d pregnancy....
Married or not married some women are just very wicked throwing dia legs upandan for other men after bn married angry
I know someone who discovered 4yrs ago that out of his 5 children just 2 are his.


We still have some responsible women though.
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by eyinjuege: 1:50pm On Jun 05, 2017
Sterope:
Passing off someone else's child as another's...should be CRIMINAL

It should carry a hefty sentence. It is wickedness at its peak
Until you criminalise having multiple sexual partners, it can't work..
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by Sterope(f): 1:55pm On Jun 05, 2017
It will work!


eyinjuege:
Until you criminalise having multiple sexual partners, it can't work..
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by Lekan1o1: 1:56pm On Jun 05, 2017
ZarZar:
Flirting doesn't mean anything though, it's just talking
I mean flirting d**ks up and down. smiley.
some of my friends confirmed that.

Uuuuh La-La!!!.my o my... I wana visit S.A tongue
And i hope i meet u zarzar tongue
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by Afritop(m): 1:56pm On Jun 05, 2017
YOU HEAR FATHER IMPREGNATES DAUGHTER AND YOU JUMP TO CONCLUSION THAT WHAT KIND OF FATHER IS THIS.

THE MANY REASONS FOR THIS IS THAT FATHER IS NOT BLOOD RELATED TO DAUGHTER.
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by Ericnrm(m): 2:03pm On Jun 05, 2017
I don't blame the girl cause that's what happens when you let a fox inside the henhouse. Learnt from experience one too many times
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by Xclusivedaniel6(m): 2:05pm On Jun 05, 2017
women and cheating are very close friends
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by soulfood(m): 2:07pm On Jun 05, 2017
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by don89(m): 2:17pm On Jun 05, 2017
Mr Don : Some useless girls go carry belle but dem no go know u get am because they are into many guys. After dem go choose the one DAT is financially OK and pin the pregnancy on him .Guys shine your eyes.
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by pocohantas(f): 2:31pm On Jun 05, 2017
mmsen:
Smart man.

Always get a paternity test as soon as possible.

Better you feel the pain after 6 months than 16 years.
True talk. You should suggest it to your dad...I'll do same.
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by technicallyrich(m): 2:34pm On Jun 05, 2017
ZarZar:
You smiley smh
I have this felling that you are a yoruba girl In ogbomosho forming typing from south Africa.like trap queen and Mr cork.I fell this way because there is nothing these afonass won't do to form suferisticated.
Just my thought though cool
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by mmsen: 2:43pm On Jun 05, 2017
pocohantas:
True talk. You should suggest it to your dad...I'll do same.
Why does someone getting a paternity cause you pain?

Could it be because you can't readily identify the father of your children...
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by pocohantas(f): 2:57pm On Jun 05, 2017
mmsen:
Why does someone getting a paternity cause you pain?

Could it be because you can't readily identify the father of your children...
You're the only one in pains. Suggest it to your dad,friends and uncles...let's spread this word. Adulterous women must be caught.
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by boomssey(f): 2:58pm On Jun 05, 2017
Benjom:
Dayuum! ...Thank God this didn't happen in the '80s. You for carry your cross for life.

Hmmn... Could this be why one of my friends' son was behaving like Thor even when the father couldn't even lift a hammer properly? Lmfao

.
lmfao
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jun 05, 2017
WebSurfer:
Trust me this shiit happens alot..

Same almost happened to me this year
trust u learnt from it
Re: Nigerian Man Discovers Baby Is Not His, 6 Months After Proudly Welcoming Baby by Ismaxtr3(m): 3:10pm On Jun 05, 2017
Newboss:
Useless hoes everywhere. Later they will be forming that they don't like sex, meanwhile multiple guys are servicing their engines.
abi nw... Nd later in future dis mumu girl will get married and will expect her spouse to bleep just her... She dey mad... Her FATHER:.. Bleep PUSSIES.... They r piece of craps
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