Untanglee I haff come back again ooo

I'm 20 and my bf is 28 but he acts ever so immature. If I make a mistake he makes sure that he must do his own back. He was to travel to Nigeria recently but we had an argument before he left. Even whilst angry I still texted that he should have a safe flight. I also called before he left but it was going to voicemail. He landed in Nigeria and never even called me not until I saw on snapchat the following day. I was so angry. Am I that little in his eyes. No matter what he should have at least said he landed. Every time we argue and the conversation is not going how he wants he just says he doesn't want to talk about it or he will call me ask me a question, expects me to answer it and when I do he will say he wants to get off the phone. Honestly I just count this as disrespect. We can't even communicate effectively as adults and he's older than me. Honestly I'm so angry. His last text to me was "Please I have a lot going through my mind right now and the last thing I want is for you to add to it again. Please and please. "
Can you imagine no call or text since then. Do I even mean anything to him. I'm thinking of calling the whole thing off. I'm tired. Could the age gap be causing problems?

Yet, you know all this and keep staying with your ungrateful careless bf... What will be the point in giving you advices if you are still gonna stay with this childish dude?!

Maturity is not just the Accumulation of years but the collection of experience and their integrity. It is obvious from your post that you are dating an immature guy

Hmm... Boyfriend as in internet boyfriend or what?
Age doesn't determine maturity though.

Mtchewwww!!

wait o
u love d guy a lot abi?

maybe u should check urself because ur man feels u bug him alot Sony may check urself

Is this the KIND OF LIFE u want to live

westlius:
maybe u should check urself because ur man feels u bug him alot Sony may check urself

For somebody who can't even text me that he will be late home, I'll be the one to be reminding him that he needs to be communicating these little things so it won't turn into an argument or misunderstanding. Is that one good? Later he will say I should ask but I'm tired of asking. Just do the right thing

tanyah001:
Untanglee I haff come back again ooo

I'm 20 and my bf is 28 but he acts ever so immature. If I make a mistake he makes sure that he must do his own back. He was to travel to Nigeria recently but we had an argument before he left. Even whilst angry I still texted that he should have a safe flight. I also called before he left but it was going to voicemail. He landed in Nigeria and never even called me not until I saw on snapchat the following day. I was so angry. Am I that little in his eyes. No matter what he should have at least said he landed. Every time we argue and the conversation is not going how he wants he just says he doesn't want to talk about it or he will call me ask me a question, expects me to answer it and when I do he will say he wants to get off the phone. Honestly I just count this as disrespect. We can't even communicate effectively as adults and he's older than me. Honestly I'm so angry. His last text to me was "Please I have a lot going through my mind right now and the last thing I want is for you to add to it again. Please and please. "
Can you imagine no call or text since then. Do I even mean anything to him. I'm thinking of calling the whole thing off. I'm tired. Could the age gap be causing problems?

Bebe stop sayin nurnsense juss ask us the trouth dat u arr nead arrnoda boiyfwend sinple

*sighs* love is just a season movie with all this drama!!!

You are both emotionally immature. The pair of you reached the crossroads a long time ago it's time to walk in opposite directions.

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For somebody who can't even text me that he will be late home, I'll be the one to be reminding him that he needs to be communicating these little things so it won't turn into an argument or misunderstanding. Is that one good? Later he will say I should ask but I'm tired of asking. Just do the right thing [/quote
don't rush him give him space and time if he loves u he will be hunting for u. some guyz Neva know Wat dey have until it's lost.

You have not been administering his daily BJ dosage properly. No man who is properly sucked behaves that way. Trust me I know what I'm saying.

for u to have tabled your relationship issues here says it all... the both of u should grow up abeg!!!!

Raine80:
You are both emotionally immature. The pair of you reached the crossroads a long time ago it's time to walk in opposite directions.

lol he's emotionally immature. Not me mate.

chenzen:
for u to have tabled your relationship issues here says it all... the both of u should grow up abeg!!!!

You had the chance to read and move on to the next page. I said mature advice needed. Clearly your the child that needs growing up because you feel the need to say something. Keep it moving.

kokoA:
You have not been administering his daily BJ dosage properly. No man who is properly sucked behaves that way. Trust me I know what I'm saying.

It's Ramadan. Have some shame please. A guy who acts like that because of sexual act is dumb lol how immature can you get because of BJ

tanyah001:



You had the chance to read and move on to the next page. I said mature advice needed. Clearly your the child that needs growing up because you feel the need to say something. Keep it moving.

hehe

tanyah001:



lol he's emotionally immature. Not me mate.

You are. Otherwise you would have moved on to much better things instead of worrying about lack of phone calls and why has he not responded. He did this and that, that can you not see how counterproductive all that is?

Raine80:

You are. Otherwise you would have moved on to much better things instead of worrying about lack of phone calls and why has he not responded. He did this and that, that can you not see how counterproductive all that is?

Harsh way you put it but you do have a point.

Mayb he is tired of u. Guys get tired of a r/ship in many ways of some wch are:
he didn't really love u, and wz after sex wch he hz gotten.. I am in dis position..bt if i want to leave her, on seeing her mood i'll pity her again and we continue fvcking again.. I want her to leave me wen she's tired
U ain't encouraging him, u always demand stuffs frm him
etc... But remember most r/ship goals are nothing compared to mandzukic goal against madrid.

There are guys like that and there are ladies like that... These set of people derive emotional satisfaction in making their lovers feel bad and as a result wanna get back at them for everything.... One thing is sure he loves you until other issue proof otherwise

I CALL THIS EMOTIONAL RECESS

These kinda people enter emotional recess over little things.... It is a state of mind that can be worked on and changed.... When they are emotional recess they play on your emotions for them to get better that's y it seems dey always wanna get back at you

Solution:
Get the timing right..... Ask him why he prefer handling your relationship issues that way ( when you're asking u have to put in d jovial looks n d full feminine characteristics that ll make a man divulge the truth....i believe u know these gimmicks)

Ask him to proffer a solution to it.... Then he wud tell u how best he want u to handle that situation when he's having his emotional recess.
In your convo tell him what u can cope with n what u can't adapt to... Teach him from your perspective how u feel he can handle it better

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[quote author=BabaDem post=57242018]Mayb he is tired of u. Guys get tired of a r/ship in many ways of some wch are:
he didn't really love u, and wz after sex wch he hz gotten.. I am in dis position..bt if i want to leave her, on seeing her mood i'll pity her again and we continue fvcking again.. I want her to leave me wen she's tired
U ain't encouraging him, u always demand stuffs frm him
etc... But remember most r/ship goals are nothing compared to mandzukic goal against madrid.[/quote

I don't want to be pitied. He messaged me this morning saying he missed me but I just had to tell him I don't have anything to say. I actually don't feel the same way. There's just too many red flags. I need to thinking carefully of what I want to to do.