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Stop being childish, no offence meant. She hasn't done anything, and you guys aren't married yet, biko free the young lady abeg.

ststyreal:
Stop being childish, no offence meant. She hasn't done anything, and you guys aren't married yet, biko free the young lady abeg.

I hope u are plan B for all d men u date till marriage.. no offence meant..

That rich Igbo guy sponsoring a girl through school, is what i see here

the OP is a joke u said you are not ready for marriage and yet u are still complaining. guy keep hitting that punna while you are also making plans for your plan B. it's like expecting commitment from friends with benefit relationship. just keep hitting the thing remove your mind from her

oyetunji12:
bro sorry oooo if u no b enermy of progress, how will u advice d bae to leave d Europe guy for u ........ morova wetin u dey do wit undergraduate wey Neva know her bearing abeg leave Her oooooo #let_me_come_and_going

Enemy of progress as how? let me tell you, am still 28years old and what I have accomplish in my life right now will take that European guy so many years of hard work to achieve. that's more reason am afraid to give her a second chance because I think she is after my wealth and that of my family. so stop saying what u don't know

Joe171:
That rich Igbo guy sponsoring a girl through school, is what i see here

No that's not the case my dear. her uncle is the one sponsoring her education, in fact since i knew her for almost two years now. all I have given to her was a gift of #15,000 nd some clothes and shoes I bought for her. is not bcoz I don't hv the money to spend on her. but just bcoz she is not lacking anything, so I decided not to spoil her with gift

Firstly What the hell were you doing in your sister's school for a whole week? Are you jobless?

Secondly you acted to immaturely by not eating the food, so this is how you will react to your wife if she offend you.

Finally you should learn how to control you temper or else you will die before your time.

ststyreal:
Stop being childish, no offence meant. She hasn't done anything, and you guys aren't married yet, biko free the young lady abeg.

Remember am talking of someone whom I have introduce to my parents and friends as my wife to be. not just ordinary girlfriend. the major reason we are yet to get married is bcoz she wanted to complete her education and I also wish to marry as from 30yrs. so are u telling me that what I discovered is nothing just bcoz we are yet to marry or what?

Benita27:
Lmao @ my further hope.

Do the comparison between the words she saved your number and the other guy's number with. "My soul mate" is a strong word for a girl to save a guy's number as. Even if you give her a second chance, once that guy appears she'd most likely dump your ass. You're just an alternative. Sorry!.

Guy saving the number with my further hope does not really matter okay, my own gf saved m with my own name. So just forget about it and give her a second chance. My gf has even done worse, she recently terminated our baby. Cos we are not yet married.

ststyreal:
Stop being childish, no offence meant. She hasn't done anything, and you guys aren't married yet, biko free the young lady abeg.

Remember am talking about a girl that I have introduce to my family and friends as my wife to be. not just ordinary girlfriend. the major reason we are yet to get married is bcoz she wanted to complete her education and I also wish to marry as from 30yrs. so are u telling me that what I discovered is nothing or what?

Livinus56:
Remember am talking about a girl that I have introduce to my family and friends as my wife to be. not just ordinary girlfriend. the major reason we are yet to get married is bcoz she wanted to complete her education and I also wish to marry as from 30yrs. so are u telling me that what I discovered is nothing or what?

Ok, no problem, now I understand you but then, a lady is free until you take her home legally and otherwise. May be she still have feelings for the other guy, just sit her down and ask her to make her choice between you and the other guy, the earlier the better. Stay cool bro. God bless!

Livinus56:
It all started when my sister came for a holidays and I saw a picture of this pretty young lady in her phone which capture my interest. my sister told me that she is a niece to her fiance. then I try and got her contact through my sister and before you know it, we have become very close to the extent that a day doesn't pass without hearing from each other. she sent me a lot of her picture and I must confess that she is a beauty to behold. then I starting toasting her and I was very Happy because she was also interested in me. that's how our relationship began, we spoke on phone and chatted online for a year and two months before we finally meet each other, then we already develop a lot of affection for each other and we know a lot about each other, because we were so open from the very beginning. the night I meet her for the first time at the pack was magical, and our journey together home will forever remain engraved in my memory and no matter what happened I will forever cherish those moment. then I didn't need to introduce her to my parents because they already knew her very well. she introduce me to her own parents who seems to love me as well, the mother couldn't stay for a week without hearing from me, so everything was going quietly well between us and our families. she has this dream of going to high institution so I encourage her to because am not yet ready to settle down. and to the glory of God she was able to get admission a year ago, so everything was going smoothly for us until last week. when I want to see my sister in school because she wasn't feeling well and my fiancee happened to be the one taking care of her. so after spending like a week there my sister was ok but a day before I returned something happened. I don't normal go through her phone, but on that faithful evening I was watching pictures in her phone when my sister called her to accompany her to buy some food stuff. she wanted to collect the phone but seeing that am not done yet she decided to wait. but my sister told her to leave the phone because they won't stay long, and that was how she left the phone with me. I notice that she agitated a little before leaving phone for me, so I decided to go through all her contacts and behold I run into this whatsapp contact that she save with my (soul mate). I check to see if that was my contact but it wasn't, so I read all their massage there and I find out it was her former boyfriend, who travel to Europe about two years ago and going by their chat it's obvious that they maintained their relationship all this while. she did spoke to me about the guy right from the very beginning, she even confess to me that she loved the guy so much then, as he was the first man in her life and the one that take away her virginity. she also told me that she find something in that guy that she doesn't like, and that they were already having problems before he travel. I latter find out that she save my own number with (my further hope) I try to control myself that evening because I didn't want to create sin in front of my young sister, I was very hungry that evening and she knew it, but when she finish cooking I refuse to eat. she almost cry begging me to eat but I refuse. during d night I didn't allow her to touch me and I was supposed to go in the afternoon but I left very early in the morning. she and my sister see me off to the pack. she was crying asking me what she did wrong but I was so hurt to talk to her. when I left she called me countless times but I never pick her call nor reply her messages. I didn't communicate with her for two days until my sister called me begging me to at least tell her what she did wrong. then I decided to reply her message, she wanted to denial it but when she find out that I already know everything, she confess to me that he is her boyfriend who she has told me about before. it's true that she told me sometimes ago that the guy always call her, but what I didn't know is the fact that she still see the guy as her soul mate why I remain her further hope. I simply told her it's over between us, but she has bn pleading to me since to forgive her and give her a second chance. she claim that she love me so much and cannot imagine her life without me. so my fellow nairaland. if u were in my shoe what will you do? I still love her but I don't trust her anymore. should I let her go once and for all or give her another chance. I need a matured advice please.

ur own good say she accept the mess n ask for forgiveness/continuation of d relationship. talk to her if she can stop chatting with Europe guy I guess u both will b fine

FromZeroToHero:
Firstly What the hell were you doing in your sister's school for a whole week? Are you jobless?

Secondly you acted to immaturely by not eating the food, so this is how you will react to your wife if she offend you.

Finally you should learn how to control you temper or else you will die before your time.

No am not jobless rather I have a business empire. even if am not around for months I hv capable hand running it on my absence. for more clarification I didn't spent the whole wk in my sisters school. I first drop by and went straight to visit my parents, I spent 5days with them nd then i returned to my sister place hoping to spend two days there.

aurxtino:
Guy saving the number with my further hope does not really matter okay, my own gf saved m with my own name. So just forget about it and give her a second chance. My gf has even done worse, she recently terminated our baby. Cos we are not yet married.

Don't worry, your case will be discussed another day.

Benita27:
I haven't. Will be waiting for it sha provided it isn't alcohol.

you hear monkeytail


Do you think its fanta or milo


What happen to your network the e_barman couldnt locate you

2dice01:
you hear monkeytail


Do you think its fanta or milo


What happen to your network the e_barman couldnt locate you

Perhaps your e-barman couldn't locate me 'cause I don't do alcohol.

beardlessdude:
I just couldn't understand anything you wrote up there. Please learn to spell, learn some grammar and learn how to punctuate properly before you post next time.

u need sense..

nnamdiokere45:
my tots exactly. ur very lucky she hasnt gotten a school bf

how do you know she has not gotten a school boyfriend? Seems you don't know girls very well

Benita27:
Perhaps your e-barman couldn't locate me 'cause I don't do alcohol.

like you havent tasted it

Anyways lets not deflower diss virgin thread
catch you in the oza room

My Further hope how market?...guy,you too mumu!

thowbie7ven:
My Further hope how market?...guy,you too mumu!

you must be a bastard!

beardlessdude:
I just couldn't understand anything you wrote up there. Please learn to spell, learn some grammar and learn how to punctuate properly before you post next time.

Mr man, common sense wud let u kn dat this forum is for both the learned nd d unlearned. so I don't hv to be a professor in English b4 posting on nairaland. anyone with sound mind will comprehend wat I wrote there

Op stop getting worked up over a lass who is not worth the fight. As a floor member of the National Association of chop and clean mouth, I've got this for you.

1) Pick her calls, agree to a meet up or whatever she suggests. When she begs, do small yanga and accept her apology

2) Start looking for your plan A, cos in her books you are a plan B so you also need to put her in a back up position. Even if you can't seem to get a plan A, never forget she is a back up option.

3) At this point you need to mess up her life, if you foolishly agreed to a no sex relationship, now is the time for a change. Fukc her silly, whatever styles you can think of should be practiced on her.

Since she has decided to be a hoe, a hoe should be treated as one

Livinus56:
Enemy of progress as how? let me tell you, am still 28years old and what I have accomplish in my life right now will take that European guy so many years of hard work to achieve. that's more reason am afraid to give her a second chance because I think she is after my wealth and that of my family. so stop saying what u don't know

#issokay luk for sumone else pop

If you are further hope... who is the nearer hope? Lol

Hehe hehe

Now I'm on the search for My Further Hope

Fell in love with this name one time...d name sweet pass Soul mate sef why yhu come deyy vex

Back to wah yhu wee do

"Bruh to be honest, Nothing..as long as her deek counts ain't on the rise, that's how shii z gonna be for a long time...yhu a dude..yhu know d rest of d story, don't av time to type epistles"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h1RGMfN2tKA
this is what i will do

Livinus56:
It all started when my sister came for a holidays and I saw a picture of this pretty young lady in her phone which capture my interest. my sister told me that she is a niece to her fiance. then I try and got her contact through my sister and before you know it, we have become very close to the extent that a day doesn't pass without hearing from each other. she sent me a lot of her picture and I must confess that she is a beauty to behold. then I starting toasting her and I was very Happy because she was also interested in me. that's how our relationship began, we spoke on phone and chatted online for a year and two months before we finally meet each other, then we already develop a lot of affection for each other and we know a lot about each other, because we were so open from the very beginning. the night I meet her for the first time at the pack was magical, and our journey together home will forever remain engraved in my memory and no matter what happened I will forever cherish those moment. then I didn't need to introduce her to my parents because they already knew her very well. she introduce me to her own parents who seems to love me as well, the mother couldn't stay for a week without hearing from me, so everything was going quietly well between us and our families. she has this dream of going to high institution so I encourage her to because am not yet ready to settle down. and to the glory of God she was able to get admission a year ago, so everything was going smoothly for us until last week. when I want to see my sister in school because she wasn't feeling well and my fiancee happened to be the one taking care of her. so after spending like a week there my sister was ok but a day before I returned something happened. I don't normal go through her phone, but on that faithful evening I was watching pictures in her phone when my sister called her to accompany her to buy some food stuff. she wanted to collect the phone but seeing that am not done yet she decided to wait. but my sister told her to leave the phone because they won't stay long, and that was how she left the phone with me. I notice that she agitated a little before leaving phone for me, so I decided to go through all her contacts and behold I run into this whatsapp contact that she save with my (soul mate). I check to see if that was my contact but it wasn't, so I read all their massage there and I find out it was her former boyfriend, who travel to Europe about two years ago and going by their chat it's obvious that they maintained their relationship all this while. she did spoke to me about the guy right from the very beginning, she even confess to me that she loved the guy so much then, as he was the first man in her life and the one that take away her virginity. she also told me that she find something in that guy that she doesn't like, and that they were already having problems before he travel. I latter find out that she save my own number with (my further hope) I try to control myself that evening because I didn't want to create sin in front of my young sister, I was very hungry that evening and she knew it, but when she finish cooking I refuse to eat. she almost cry begging me to eat but I refuse. during d night I didn't allow her to touch me and I was supposed to go in the afternoon but I left very early in the morning. she and my sister see me off to the pack. she was crying asking me what she did wrong but I was so hurt to talk to her. when I left she called me countless times but I never pick her call nor reply her messages. I didn't communicate with her for two days until my sister called me begging me to at least tell her what she did wrong. then I decided to reply her message, she wanted to denial it but when she find out that I already know everything, she confess to me that he is her boyfriend who she has told me about before. it's true that she told me sometimes ago that the guy always call her, but what I didn't know is the fact that she still see the guy as her soul mate why I remain her further hope. I simply told her it's over between us, but she has bn pleading to me since to forgive her and give her a second chance. she claim that she love me so much and cannot imagine her life without me. so my fellow nairaland. if u were in my shoe what will you do? I still love her but I don't trust her anymore. should I let her go once and for all or give her another chance. I need a matured advice please.

This your english is enough to send her into another man's arms

thowbie7ven:
My Further hope how market?...guy,you too mumu!

ROTFLMFAO

@Op. Be a man for Christ sake. Why should you be perturbed that a fiancée stored your number as "my further hope"?

Let me give you an advice when it comes to relationship. Always have it at the back of your mind that no matter how sweet a lady is to you, she could leave you the very next hour and she is not really yours until you are both married. Bf/gf title is just what we use to deceive ourselves.

Those that really love you would come around and stay without you thinking too much