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Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by Zealoy(m): 7:33pm On Jun 08, 2017
my child hood friend bang the shit outta of my first girlfriend my first luv, n d both of them have d effrontery to lie to me well thank God I finally caught them red handed making out anyway its past now I've already moved on I swore never to trust any girl but keep having fun with them

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Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by Sliimlion: 7:35pm On Jun 08, 2017
dollyjoy:
Zero sense!
sense @ 0 terabyte
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by DoctorNyash(m): 7:35pm On Jun 08, 2017
Alimi my tight guyman from way back the guy just fall my hand. We both changed our scores inside staff room only for Alimi to go and report me that I changed his score and mine. I was given the beating of my life. Alimi was also given the beating of his life by my brother and I later grin Alimi wherever you are thunder fire you
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by madjune(m): 7:36pm On Jun 08, 2017
Back in 93, my supposedly best friend was supposed to help me with my Waec maths exam at the hall.

He failed to show up despite his promises.

After the exam, i went to his house to find out what happened and he said, "My little brother told me not to go because it would be risky."

I said ok and left, thereafter cutting down my interactions with him.

Many years later, which is now the present; he called me early in the year from Naija asking for assistance and that...to cut a long story, i told him,

"I'm too busy and I can barely hear you."

Never trust an Mbaise man.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 7:36pm On Jun 08, 2017
well, this is very interesting, Now i know why some people are so crazy on nairaland
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by Martin0(m): 7:37pm On Jun 08, 2017
optional1:


you suppose know oh
eh eh ok ooo,
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by Ezionye(f): 7:38pm On Jun 08, 2017
Noaril:
angry Went Outta The House With 3 Pieces Of Meat In The Pot And Guess What I Saw When I Came Back, The Dude Didn't Touch The Meat But Went Ahead To Use My Stew To Eat Rice.. I Felt So Betrayed Ehn? Or Wait! Was It Even A Dream? I Can't Even Remember..

This is supposed to be funny right?
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by steppins: 7:42pm On Jun 08, 2017
ZarZar:
Yes, I get angry all over again just thinking about it. I took her in after she & her BF were kicked out of their flat for fighting. First thing she did was go through my stuff while I wasn't home, to take my school certificate so she could use it as her own for a job application. She later told me about it, that's how I found out. Naturally, I was seething with anger but I forgave her because she was honest. Inside I knew one more mistake & I was gonna physically carry her out the door. I can't stand two-timers. The 2nd incident & the last straw, was when she stole money from me. That day things almost got physical because I was angry that she was denying it. Money can't grow legs & decide to go for a stroll out of the wallet. I kicked her out the same night. She had a nerve to remind me of money I owed her, while she stayed at my place for three months without paying rent because I was being considerate. I knew they were saving up for a new place. Needless to say, I told her to kiss my ass. I wasn't going to pay her her money after everything I did out of the goodness of my heart.
Instead of you to pay what you owe, you're twisting the story to Favour you.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by felix10(m): 7:44pm On Jun 08, 2017
Just this last weekend,I was actively involved in a friend mothers burial which was on Thursday & Friday.On Thursday I run an erand for him with my car to give my support,but on Friday,I went to a neighboring town to bring some ice block for him bt on d way,I gave 2 ladies a lift,d one at d back suddenly jump out of d car while on motion,police arrested me & d other woman with an allegation of trying to kidnap d lady that jump down.Immediately i got to d police station i put a call across to my friend to tell him what happened around 12noon,he never show up at d station,but later call me to greet me around 7:20pm,he did not deem it fit to check me in d house to even ask for what happened up till now.I am in a great shock,finding it difficult to recover from it.What a friend!!!

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Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 7:46pm On Jun 08, 2017
steppins:

Instead of you to pay what you owe, you're twisting the story to Favour you.

Is that so? Good to know
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by blazer19: 7:49pm On Jun 08, 2017
Mine was from a roomate I decided to take as a sister. I was on holidays when she wanted to pay our houserent. She told me the houserent was #60000 and I sent #30000 into her acc only for me to hear from other tenants after 6months dat d house rent was #45000. I later found out dat she connived with her friend to dupe me of #15000. I am sorry to say this but dat singular action made me to stop trusting yorubas in skul.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by CarlosTheJackal: 7:50pm On Jun 08, 2017
ZarZar:


Have you shared a story?

I have.

I'm not going to ignore mentions just because you have a problem with it.

Thought you've lost interest in the thread. Don't let the door hit you where the good Lord split you, on your way out!
Mumu girl

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Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by 1metre: 7:53pm On Jun 08, 2017
JasonScolari:
I'll never forget the little ungrateful bastard called Makinwa,




This dude who I called "best friend" literally sold me out to some cultists back then in school all because of a girl.


Gave some relevant information about me to them and the search begin.


Would have been a dead man on the 24th of July 2010, but God mercies kept me.




I really don't wanna talk about it.
that's what u see when u abandon your academic work going around dragging olosho with cultists.
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by Mightyraw(m): 7:57pm On Jun 08, 2017
Noaril:
.. You Can't Blame Me Though, That's What Happens When You're A Ladokite. Boredom Really Gat Me
Brother don't be so bored, we innit together
Get something doing
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by Mofpearl: 7:59pm On Jun 08, 2017
Yup. We were young though and I wasn't entirely innocent.

She went behind my back to say nasty stuff about me simply because she wanted to belong to a certain clique. She wouldn't support me and allowed them bully me and even join them. I felt betrayed because this is a childhood friend and someone who was also bullied. I didn't think she would do that to 'belong'. I wasn't entirely innocent because I had a do me I do you mentality....so I pretty much fought with her and our parents got involved at that time. I think I also paid her back when a few years along the line.

Anyways we were young then and now we are neighbors. Not very close friends but I can still branch her house to chop food and vice versa.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by adonismuller(m): 8:01pm On Jun 08, 2017
JasonScolari:
I'll never forget the little ungrateful bastard called Makinwa,




This dude who I called "best friend" literally sold me out to some cultists back then in school all because of a girl.


Gave some relevant information about me to them and the search begin.


Would have been a dead man on the 24th of July 2010, but God mercies kept me.




I really don't wanna talk about it.
but you just talked about it
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 8:03pm On Jun 08, 2017
Friends and Betrayal are synonymous.
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by idu1(m): 8:04pm On Jun 08, 2017
shinarlaura:
Yes..... A girl I called my friend, My sister betrayed me big time. I caught her red handed in bed with my bf. What hurt me the most was the fact that the day prior to that incident, I was the one looking after her baby cuz she told me she will be travelling out of town for a day meanwhile madam was bleeping my man. I was such a big FOOL.
I can't believe this
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by aumeehn: 8:04pm On Jun 08, 2017
Daninya11:
True friends are scarce. Its a laborious travail to see friends who stick closer to you than a brother.

I recount a scenario where a close friend of mine stole my phone.I never even have any reason to suspect him but with time ,I got to find out that he was the thief.He sold my phone at a phone market but unluckily for him a neighbour of mine saw him .

Have you ever been betrayed by a trusted friend ?,kindly share your experiences.
Exactly what happened to me in April, two of my room mates in school, as in tight hommies oo, stole my phone, infact they even snitch on me, i even wrote it in my diary wallahi, but my time is coming sha! I will treat their fuckup very soon.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by tete7000(m): 8:07pm On Jun 08, 2017
Nma27:
One devil back stabbed me and stole my bf... Swore to keep only male friends after that. Male frds get their own wahala though sad

Real men can't be stolen. Infact no one can be stolen. The guy had the will and desire to leave you. Stop blaming the girl, she only allowed her used by the guy to achieve his desire to leave youm I don't believe in bf/gf thing by the way.
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by shinarlaura(f): 8:07pm On Jun 08, 2017
idu1:
I can't believe this

grin you better ooo

Some people are evil
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by tunazi(m): 8:07pm On Jun 08, 2017
JasonScolari:

I really don't wanna talk about it.
You just did
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 8:09pm On Jun 08, 2017
More times than I can remember.
But the one that has got stuck in my memory is this one below.
It was the last days in April, can't remember the specific date. I was in 200 level, it all happened in the school hostel.
I'm in the habit of trusting and keeping my roommates as friends at least we would stay together for a year before we depart the session. Staying together for a year though not enough to build trust but enough to create a sense of belonging.

On this faithful day I had no money on me, same as my roommates. I called my sister for help, few mins later she sent 2k into my account. I smiled happily to bank, withdrew the money. Getting back to hostel, as I was keeping the money in my bag, I received a call that a lecturer was already in class giving an impromptu test. I lost all coordinations, I quickly dashed out without putting my bag in my wardrobe. It was Half way down to class, I remembered I left my bag on the bed. But I left one of my roomates, Gbenga in the room, and I was certain he saw me when I kept the money in my bag but due to the trust I had for him then, I just ignored and believed nothing would happen and proceeded to class.

When I came back after the test I searched my bag. Alas! the money was gone. I searched and searched, I went mad!
I complained to all my roommates about my missing money. One other roommate told me he's still cashless that even the toast bread he ate was bought by Gbenga. While the last guy (the last of four of us) has not been to the room since morning.
I later found out through the roomate who ate toast bread that he also suspected Gbenga of stealing the money. Well, kept on buying several things till evening. Certainly, most people go frivolous with a stolen money.

Not forgetting we all complained of lack of cash. I asked him where he got the money he used in buying all the things, he gave inconsistent explanations. He later did some other funny stuffs till we departed at the end of the session.
Well it not the money that got me disappointed but the trust!
Till today even a 2million dollar gift from him can't make me forget the issue. I have however forgiven him!

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Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by Greenbullet(m): 8:12pm On Jun 08, 2017
My friend , that mofo set me up with a girl telling me she is good and Godly, took her in and we started dating, unknowing to me the girl and my friend planned to kill me , in fact it was by the grace of God and my best friend, I loved the girl and the girl behaved like she loved me, I almost gave her my ,account details because I was supposed to do a contract which my friend knew about , when I found out, I immediately went to the hospital and checked myself lo and behold the food this girl has been cooking for me had little volume of a slow killing poison which has no effect except sudden death , I flushed it out of my system, I parked from my house and changed my sim card, I never met either that girl or my pathetic friend ever again.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by pbs4real(m): 8:18pm On Jun 08, 2017
shinarlaura:
Yes..... A girl I called my friend, My sister betrayed me big time. I caught her red handed in bed with my bf. What hurt me the most was the fact that the day prior to that incident, I was the one looking after her baby cuz she told me she will be travelling out of town for a day meanwhile madam was bleeping my man. I was such a big FOOL.
Lol, funny tho,sorry abt that, i haven't trust my shadow let alone friends.
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 8:20pm On Jun 08, 2017
kayjee101:

wait, did you just say "i don't wanna talk about it?' i love your sense of humour.
You got it Bro. Thanks. cheesy
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by adeshinacute(m): 8:21pm On Jun 08, 2017
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Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by jbaby265(f): 8:22pm On Jun 08, 2017
never wished to remember mine.. but I had to share

I had this girlfriend more like a sister, we grew up together and does a lot of things together,
SHE betrayed me by laying false accusations on me and made my pastor hate me so much that he don't wanna answer my greetings, I was given a back sit (suspension) in church, my parents put me under house arrest.. and the funny thing was that she was the only one who was permitted by my parents to visit me at home.. I was humiliated in the compounds because of that. in fact I was lost then..

what did she do? she wrote a letter (fake one) accusing me of losing my virginity and sleeping around yet still claiming to be a saint daughter She said alot of things and threw it inside our pastors office, he came into the office and saw a letter on the floor.. after reading the content he was devastated (cos he believes so much in me) he called Me to the office and read the letter to me. i was in tears cos I did not know anything of such and I was innocent of all. try to plead innocent but I did not succeed.. I left feeling pitiful for my self.. before I got home my parents were already boiling in anger.. I was given a treatment of an house help.. then I was grounded and locked up only that my friend was allowed to visit me.. she will come and sympathise with me wiping my tears.. after some weeks of been grounded..a friend from the church came and visited me when my parents was not around and told Me all the that I needed to know.. I felt so stupid of my self.. but do not know how to prove my innocent.. I just LET GOD fight for me.. and he didn't fail me.. after a year I was proven innocent and everyone who pointed a finger at me was saying sorry to me..

so ever since then.. I don't keep friends or better still distance friends .. no bestie in my dictionary

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Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by sunshineV(f): 8:22pm On Jun 08, 2017
I took one bros phone and on his hotspot for my usage then my best friend ask me to link him up but I said no cus d sub is not much. He just stood up and went ahead to tell d bros I'm using his MB angry angry

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Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jun 08, 2017
tunazi:

You just did



adonismuller:
but you just talked about it
That's me joking.
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by dingbang(m): 8:25pm On Jun 08, 2017
I don't keep friends
Re: Have You Ever Been Betrayed By A Friend?, Share Your Experience. by autonomous22: 8:27pm On Jun 08, 2017
TSOM:
She didn't steal your boyfriend - he cheated on you WITH her. It's a conscious decision by both. Blame him too for giving in to her advances.

...And no man would be comfortable dating a woman who keeps only male friends.

Weldone. .....

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