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Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Nobody: 3:00am On Jun 09, 2017 |
These days I have been feeling highly unstable and living destructive. I find myself just tired of everything, no zeal to work, It's like i should just chill and do nothing, Leave an empty house to work, come home to an empty house, It's reached the point that I have to smoke weed everyday just to get by, I remember taking break from work just to go drink because I was highly feeling displeased. Deep down I think am tired of working 24-7 it makes me sad waking up and going to work, and attending meetings. Just felt like ranting, also am trying to be in a relationship not getting younger at 31 I can't even point at this person and say this is who i might end up with. $Ranting 2 Likes |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Jun 09, 2017 |
Piiko:Of course, you can. Is there anyone you can confide in at work about your workload? Maybe they can help you lessen it? Your workload shouldnt be too much to the extent where you're feeling depressed. Stay strong. pcguru1:I'm sorry you're feeling this way. 1 Like |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jun 09, 2017 |
Almost two years and I'm ok now but this thing made me sad gann, depression is real outchea |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Jun 09, 2017 |
1bkaye: Very real but to be frank I am curious how you guys cope, me I know I have steady supply of alcohol and marijuana and a good skill to earn money to keep these flowing. So my question is how do you guys cope. |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Nobody: 8:30pm On Jun 09, 2017 |
pcguru1:I wouldn't necessarily say I was coping, but work kept me busy and took my mind off things though only temporarily, I actually have a very bad habit of isolating everyone when I'm down which doesn't help |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jun 09, 2017 |
1bkaye: As am talking with you am advising a girl like that too, I used to isolate myself a lot but I realized one thing meeting people opened opportunity but though I don't share my problems with others. If anything o spend more time on NL than with people. I wish you all the best though 1 Like |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jun 09, 2017 |
1bkaye: Very normal. The happier we are, the more energetic and the more ready to mingle we are. The converse is also true. 1 Like |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Nobody: 8:58pm On Jun 09, 2017 |
pcguru1:Definitely, thanks a lot dear, I wish you the best too |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Nobody: 8:58pm On Jun 09, 2017 |
Mindfulness:Very true, I'm getting there sha 1 Like |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Nobody: 9:12pm On Jun 09, 2017 |
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Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Nobody: 6:22am On Jun 10, 2017 |
fimi:question is what Do we Do? Staying in Nigeria is hard leaving the country is harder. Been looking for how to apply for a visa no luck. The government keep singing it be self employed how much do I make a month. God should just come down and let all this end. |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Nobody: 11:16pm On Jun 10, 2017 |
Who knows if we find someone we deeply care about, can it cure an emptiness and make us hopeful, coz am sure rejection makes it worse |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by salesforce: 2:06pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
Hmmmmmmm |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by gidjah(m): 2:37pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
Piiko:you are right sir, once we find someone to love and care for, who in turn also care about US, total mutuality in honesty of mind and purpose, I tel you, one will be able to pour out various troubles buggling ones mind, and burdens will begin to reduce , you begin to share burdens together , the yokes begin to get lighter by each day, and life begins to take a new shape with great beginning.most of Us get more depressed simply because, we do not true friends around, true friends that really can stand for one another .this is partly because, this modern world is fast changing ...people are now becoming selfish and more selfish....no more 'US', rather 'me , my self and I'! that's why true friends are hard to come across.this including in the married homes too!! 1 Like |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Erums(m): 3:38pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
I just wanna love and be love back.... So many trails bt failed... |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by justwant2bhappy: 11:11pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Hmmmmm. I realized I made the worst and gravest mistake of my life by marrying a man who neither care or value me. To him am just one of his acquired property. He doesn't share opinions with me. I am just married but living a lonely and miserable life, honestly I have been good to this man but I discovered recently that he's after other women(not one but plenty) I wouldn't mind if he's showing my own affection and respect but he don't just care if I exist. I already have a son for him so I can't leave my son and walk away. That's the only thing holding me back. My son is my world, he's the only thing I have on Earth. But am dying slowly each day, thinking to finish off the life. What is life without affection, what is life without who you can share your thought with, what is life with living with the wrong man, what is life if all I do everyday is cry myself to sleep, what is life with a serial cheating husband who don't care about me? What is life with a man who only come to me any time he need sex and will just raise my gown and dip his di.ck like he's fvcking a prostitute? Does the life really worth it? No it doesn't. I will end it soon |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by justwant2bhappy: 11:16pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Hmmmmm. I realized I made the worst and gravest mistake of my life by marrying a man who neither care or value me. To him am just one of his acquired property. He doesn't share opinions with me. I am just married but living a lonely and miserable life, honestly I have been good to this man but I discovered recently that he's after other women(not one but plenty) I wouldn't mind if he's showing my own affection and respect but he don't just care if I exist. I already have a son for him so I can't leave my son and walk away. That's the only thing holding me back. My son is my world, he's the only thing I have on Earth. But am dying slowly each day, thinking to finish off the life. What is life without affection, what is life without who you can share your thought with, what is life with living with the wrong man, what is life if all I do everyday is cry myself to sleep, what is life with a serial cheating husband who don't care about me? What is life with a man who only come to me any time he need sex and will just raise my gown and dip his like he's fvcking a prostitute? Does the life really worth it? No it doesn't. I will end it soon 1 Like |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Funjosh(m): 5:08am On Jun 16, 2017 |
justwant2bhappy: Can you please hang on for a little moment, Life is in sphere it will soon turn it good side to you. 1 Like |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Erums(m): 8:10pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
justwant2bhappy: Be strong maam, i come to this section just yo leran frm u all.... Young and single, searching too.... I realli need to learn how to manage a family before the time comes |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by remsonik(f): 8:29am On Jun 17, 2017 |
So life would turn it side on me. I lost my job three months ago but I can't even tell anyone cos it's an international ngo or any of my family. My sister that I stay with frustrates me daily. My fiancee is slowly drifting away. I just want to end it all. Yes I run a business and yesterday all I had left of my savings was collected from me. I entered a car from mile 2 to badagry, wanted to restock on coconut oil didn't know they were robbers. God where is your face |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by MizMyColi(f): 10:05am On Jun 17, 2017 |
remsonik: I'm here. That's what he's saying now Sis. The downfall of a man is not the end of his life. This song helped me at a time when I willingly ended my relationship and simply looked up to God cos I had no hope of where or how I will meet another good man, my desired kind of man. I am not the social social kind. I don't enjoy going out. I love my room and the internet and movies too. So how on earth was I going to meet a good man kwanu? Well, he did it when he did it and we are here today. Even in this condition, believe that you shall rise again. Sing praises to the Almighty. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UooIJ5kviw0 1 Like |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by MizMyColi(f): 10:12am On Jun 17, 2017 |
Mindfulness. Sis, I just replied remsonik's post. I believe you will be inspired to drop words of edification also |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by remsonik(f): 1:21pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
MizMyColi:Thank you sis. I just want my life back. 1 Like |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by MizMyColi(f): 1:24pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
remsonik: Then take it back. 2 Likes |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Funjosh(m): 2:30pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
remsonik: You will have it. Just don't lose hope and keep on pushing. Hope you have reconsider reapplying to some other NGO you never can tell with your experience you have an advantage of being employ. |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by remsonik(f): 2:52pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
MizMyColi:My whole life savings was taken from me. Part of that money was what a customer sent to me to as payment for her orders. I am just depressed 1 Like |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by remsonik(f): 2:53pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Funjosh:I am applying but the jobs are not forthcoming. |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by MizMyColi(f): 4:47pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
remsonik: Pele Sis There's light at the end of every tunnel. |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Mznaett: 6:28pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
We all have had our fair share of disappointments... Life seems to bring one exhausting thing after another... 1 Like |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by austine4real(m): 7:41pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Wow people are going through alot oo. Just went through all the pages now. God I thankyou for all u have done for me. Glory be to u in the highest May God be with you all n console u
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Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Funjosh(m): 8:48pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
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