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Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by blackman232: 9:02am On Jun 12, 2017
The era we are now, husband are really hard to find. So ladies if your guy is doing things that makes you happy, i will advise you to upgrade the relationship.

Every relationship eventually reaches a point of no return; that point you always ask yourself “Is this a long term relationship? Is this relationship going to fizzle out soon? Can I spend the rest of my life with this guy? while it might be hard at times to answer those questions but the trick is to work out his fundamentals, his values because that is who he is at his core and that’s what you want to know to answer those questions.

Below are some habits of a Good guy and if he does those things know that is value system is intact and when it’s time you can start talking about the future.

“He supports you in everything that you do, even when you don’t need a pep-talk, he gives you one anyway”.

“Gives you complete emotional support and security and you feel safe around him all the time”.

“He takes initiative, plans dates, surprises you and makes sure that you feel like a priority”.

“Even when he’s angry, he still treats you with respect”.

“He takes care of himself, he has a job, a place to live, and can handle his own responsibilities”.

“He goes down on you as much as you go down on him and he likes it”.

“He listens and understands where you’re coming from, when you talk to him you feel like you’re talking to your partner, not a brick wall”.

“You’re constantly being told how appreciated you are”.

“He has healthy relationships with his friends and his family and he respects them and cherishes their opinion, just as he does with you”.

“He makes you laugh all the time”.

“He tells you he loves you all the time and shows it”.

“You feel like you have a best friend”.

“He is your biggest fan”.

“He talks to you about his feelings, emotions, and basically everything else”.

“He’s able to talk about the future with you openly because you’re someone who’s going to be in his future”.
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Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by Macgabe(m): 9:09am On Jun 12, 2017
Hmmm.... I doubt if you'd find this kind of perfect man. These qualities are hard to find in one person. Almost unrealistic!!!

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Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by NeduLuiZ(m): 9:11am On Jun 12, 2017
did all this but she got disrespectful.

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Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by Evablizin(f): 9:12am On Jun 12, 2017
Ok any lady that finds this type of man should hold him tight in short propose to him if he is wasting time and that lady should never forget to testify here on Nairaland lols

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Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by Nobody: 9:17am On Jun 12, 2017
Yawns... Is he in milky way?
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by Michellla(f): 9:39am On Jun 12, 2017
What if you marry him and he changes?

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Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by toastedbread: 10:46am On Jun 12, 2017
Nma27:
Yawns... Is he in milky way?
yes! he's on nl.
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by Nobody: 11:03am On Jun 12, 2017
toastedbread:


yes!
he's on nl.
U ryt
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by Misslynx(f): 11:28am On Jun 12, 2017
A true husband material exist but they are very rare.
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by Misslynx(f): 11:29am On Jun 12, 2017
My man is just exactly what the OP has described
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by firstking01(m): 11:32am On Jun 12, 2017
Michellla:
What if you marry him and he changes?
Then it's your character that must 've made him changed....a body must remain unchanged unless except an external body touches it thereby making it to change or move from it's present state or, other wise the body will remain unskated.
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by lahit14(m): 12:06pm On Jun 12, 2017
NeduLuiZ:
did all this but she got disrespectful.

How old was she? How mature in mind was she? Is she a graduate? If yes, does she have a job? No offense man, am doing a research on thinks like this, ur ansa will be very helpful.

Some women don't really knw what they want in truth especially very young ones , most unconsciously prefer their relationships sweet n bitter, if ur a very very nice guy, odds are she will most likely leave
ps: these theories are not founded, we are still working on them thus our researches before anyone calls me out

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Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by hernandson(m): 12:33pm On Jun 12, 2017
Michellla:
What if you marry him and he changes?
That's what they call ''Bad market''
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by hernandson(m): 12:37pm On Jun 12, 2017
the truth be told,being perfect in a relationship is good but impossible, and even when it happens, your relationship becomes boring, a little or average imperfection makes you depend on each other. and that's why you would be like,if he was around he would have taking care of this or she would have done this. buy been perfect, you wouldn't feel the need to even be with each other in the first place

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Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by Nobody: 12:51pm On Jun 12, 2017

“He makes you laugh all the time”.

“He tells you he loves you all the time
Some ladies still won't see a sign of deceit with open eyes.

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Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by drunkpunk(m): 1:18pm On Jun 12, 2017
Michellla:
What if you marry him and he changes?
Good question
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by Michellla(f): 2:27pm On Jun 12, 2017
firstking01:
Then it's your character that must 've made him change....a body must remain unchange unless except an external body touches it thereby make it to change or move from it's present state other wise the body will remain unskated.
I beg to differ
If "body" really can't be changed then we wont leave our infant stage or grow.
so "body" is an invalid example in this context.
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by Michellla(f): 2:31pm On Jun 12, 2017
firstking01:
Then it's your character that must 've made him change....a body must remain unchange unless except an external body touches it thereby make it to change or move from it's present state other wise the body will remain unskated.
Again her character might not be the problem.
Humans generally
can be erratic and unpredictable.
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by princefunmmy(m): 2:42pm On Jun 12, 2017
Such guys exist.. Just that Ladies that have such don't value them.. Ladies always want the bad guys

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Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by MissRaine69(f): 2:45pm On Jun 12, 2017
Guys like this do exist but ladies are too busy calling them broke or refuse to give them time because they are focused on the banker who has a wife ( or wives ).

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Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by NeduLuiZ(m): 4:19pm On Jun 12, 2017
lahit14:


How old was she? How mature in mind was she? Is she a graduate? If yes, does she have a job? No offense man, am doing a research on thinks like this, ur ansa will be very helpful.

Some women don't really knw what they want in truth especially very young ones , most unconsciously prefer their relationships sweet n bitter, if ur a very very nice guy, odds are she will most likely leave
ps: these theories are not founded, we are still working on them thus our researches before anyone calls me out
22
very immature
final year.
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by abolajidammy: 4:21pm On Jun 12, 2017
the truth be told,a woman will not value her man not until she loose that man

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Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by BiafraBushBoy(m): 4:41pm On Jun 12, 2017
MissRaine69:
Guys like this do exist but ladies are too busy calling them broke or refuse to give them time because they are focused on the banker who has a wife ( or wives ).

You the real deal. I appreciate you!!
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by firstking01(m): 6:54pm On Jun 12, 2017
Michellla:
I beg to differ
If "body" really can't be changed then we wont leave our infant stage or grow.
so "body" is an invalid example in this context.
Wow, but i expected you to understand when i used the word "body"....was trying to use one of the laws of motion to pacify and correct and impression here....body in this context means the person's character...guess you ain't scientifically inclined.....you are of the arts i guess??
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by Michellla(f): 8:07pm On Jun 12, 2017
firstking01:
Wow, but i expected you to understand when i used the word "body"....was trying to use one of the laws of motion to pacify and correct and impression here....body in this context means the person's character...guess you ain't scientifically inclined.....you are of the arts i guess??
okay wasnt looking at it in the scientific way grin ya art
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by firstking01(m): 8:15pm On Jun 12, 2017
Michellla:
okay wasnt looking at it in the scientific way grin ya art
I sensed it from afargrin
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by hercatonchires(m): 8:48pm On Jun 12, 2017
Truly, I doubt if you'd find someone like that. Did you read all the qualities? At peace with all his friends, his relatives, ... If there's anyone like that, he simply isn't existing coz he only exists to please others. He'd die of depression.
The funny thing is girls are incomprehensibly weird, they'll see someone with all these and still go for another. They'll say he's not manly, he's a weakling/sissy, he's not firm, bla bla bla. In the end, they begin to fight for him after losing him to another lady. Women are the most chemeleon specie in existence. You can't just understand, but tolerate them. Even they know this fact themselves. Smh

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Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by Nobody: 7:16am On Jun 13, 2017
lahit14:


How old was she? How mature in mind was she? Is she a graduate? If yes, does she have a job? No offense man, am doing a research on thinks like this, ur ansa will be very helpful.

Some women don't really knw what they want in truth especially very young ones , most unconsciously prefer their relationships sweet n bitter, if ur a very very nice guy, odds are she will most likely leave
ps: these theories are not founded, we are still working on them thus our researches before anyone calls me out

I faced a similar case and it was hell. I did twice of what OP described of a good man here but the babe was disrespectful and took me for granted. She made me feel weak and my decisions ain't final. Bro, am ready to tell the story and if you wanna publish it anywhere, you are free, but pls hide my identity
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by Nobody: 7:21am On Jun 13, 2017
I find a little dysfunction sexy so I won't find such a man attractive. Also, I have none of those qualities and traits so what's the point. I am an imperfect human being and I'm looking for my other half.
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by GoldenSpine24(m): 7:32am On Jun 13, 2017
......and when he comes along they remember that's there is that standard their prospective guy must have that the OP forgot to talk about. Then go for another one that has little or nothing and who also to him has everything to gain and nothing to loose. After being bruised, they say we guys are all the same.
Ladies, they exist. Forget modern trends and read in between the line. Between dark and white exists many shades of grey.
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by Josh44s(m): 7:45am On Jun 13, 2017
Nma27:
Yawns... Is he in milky way?

No he is in Galatica
Re: Ladies!! If Your Man Does These Things, Just Please Marry Himladies!! by sparta231(m): 11:01am On Jun 13, 2017
Evablizin:
Ok any lady that finds this type of man should hold him tight in short propose to him if he is wasting time and that lady should never forget to testify here on Nairaland lols
diz kinds of guyz really do exists bur dey are hell jealous talkin frm experience

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