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My boyfriend is like this. Except the going down part. He doesn't do it as much but the rest is exactly him. Men like these exist, u just gotta know your worth. Men like these are also hard to come by so cherish them. If you like don't believe me, wetin concern me.

princefunmmy:
Such guys exist.. Just that Ladies that have such don't value them.. Ladies always want the bad guys

Such guys only exist to either scam the Lady or just want to use and dump after he's had his fill. Then they disappear into thing air, phone number unreachable.
We know them.

blackman232:
The era we are now, husband are really hard to find. So ladies if your guy is doing things that makes you happy, i will advise you to upgrade the relationship.

Every relationship eventually reaches a point of no return; that point you always ask yourself “Is this a long term relationship? Is this relationship going to fizzle out soon? Can I spend the rest of my life with this guy? while it might be hard at times to answer those questions but the trick is to work out his fundamentals, his values because that is who he is at his core and that’s what you want to know to answer those questions.

Below are some habits of a Good guy and if he does those things know that is value system is intact and when it’s time you can start talking about the future.

“He supports you in everything that you do, even when you don’t need a pep-talk, he gives you one anyway”.

“Gives you complete emotional support and security and you feel safe around him all the time”.

“He takes initiative, plans dates, surprises you and makes sure that you feel like a priority”.

“Even when he’s angry, he still treats you with respect”.

“He takes care of himself, he has a job, a place to live, and can handle his own responsibilities”.

“He goes down on you as much as you go down on him and he likes it”.

“He listens and understands where you’re coming from, when you talk to him you feel like you’re talking to your partner, not a brick wall”.

“You’re constantly being told how appreciated you are”.

“He has healthy relationships with his friends and his family and he respects them and cherishes their opinion, just as he does with you”.

“He makes you laugh all the time”.

“He tells you he loves you all the time and shows it”.

“You feel like you have a best friend”.

“He is your biggest fan”.

“He talks to you about his feelings, emotions, and basically everything else”.

“He’s able to talk about the future with you openly because you’re someone who’s going to be in his future”.
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I was like this until she changed me

firstking01:
Wow, but i expected you to understand when i used the word "body"....was trying to use one of the laws of motion to pacify and correct and impression here....body in this context means the person's character...guess you ain't scientifically inclined.....you are of the arts i guess??

Did you study physics??

TsaTrinity:
I faced a similar case and it was hell. I did twice of what OP described of a good man here but the babe was disrespectful and took me for granted. She made me feel weak and my decisions ain't final. Bro, am ready to tell the story and if you wanna publish it anywhere, you are free, but pls hide my identity

if you can have the patience to read this then all your problems will be solved

https://illimitablemen.com/2016/01/15/tuition-from-tragedy-bens-story/?_e_pi_=7%2CPAGE_ID10%2C2520897787

read down

for a woman to appreciate a man she has to also know and believe that she can loose that man and it is the man's position to make her believe so

harriet412:
Did you study physics??

Not physics as a course but engineering

firstking01:
Not physics as a course but engineering

Oh, owk.

Michellla:
What if you marry him and he changes?

in that case, there is a possibility he has been pretending all along

TsaTrinity:
I faced a similar case and it was hell. I did twice of what OP described of a good man here but the babe was disrespectful and took me for granted. She made me feel weak and my decisions ain't final. Bro, am ready to tell the story and if you wanna publish it anywhere, you are free, but pls hide my identity

No it's not gonna be published and ur identity cannot be known, it's just a research, collecting data from different people with the same experience. U can send the story to der4alle@gmail.com. Thanks

NeduLuiZ:
22
very immature
final year.

Thanks for ur response

Hmmmm

Evablizin:
Ok any lady that finds this type of man should hold him tight in short propose to him if he is wasting time and that lady should never forget to testify here on Nairaland lols

Am that kind of man, i wish i can find that kind of good lady, but i lack love all what i see is fake love in ladies this days

lahit14:
No it's not gonna be published and ur identity cannot be known, it's just a research, collecting data from different people with the same experience. U can send the story to der4alle@gmail.com. Thanks

I have a very good story too, its not based on this it happened to me

Those men do exist, just that our ladies dont appreciate them, am an example