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I've lived in South Africa for many years and I'm moved to share my story as a lesson to others to learn from.


While in South Africa, I was involved in so many negative activities, I thought I was enjoying life and it wasn't long before I joined prostitution to make more money, then to smoking and finally into drugs, sharing my nudes and more. 


Few years back, I returned to Nigeria with the intention of finding a man to marry and settling down, and it wasn't long before my man came calling and soon we started our wedding plans. 


At a particular time during our planning, my fiance was broke and needed to approach a friend who lives in S.A for loan, the friend promised to help by sending some goods down for my man to sell - he kept his words, sending the goods but also sent a laptop to my fiance to keep for his use. 


When we switched on the laptop, my fiance and I were surprised to see my nudes all over its desktop - he enquired about the pics and I couldn't deny, I told him those were my days in S.A and I have since chanced my ways....  The pics had everything I did way back. My fiance didn't tell me who the friend was by he said he was a male. 


He informed the family, showed them the pictures and called off the wedding. In sincerity I have changed and regret my past has come back to haunt me, I've also given up on finding a husband and have accepted my fate, the situation has gotten to my bone marrow and I'm tired of life. 


My advice to people is to avoid my type of lifestyle because your past life affects your future life. I plan to return to S.A and I doubt if I'll ever find a husband. 


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Lionessza:
If her story is true, maybe she should stop looking for a husband and focus on bettering herself. Who knows, maybe during that soul searching journey she might find a former love-vendor or a guy who used to be a prostitute also and they will share their past with each other and accept it and live happily ever after.

saydfact:
The story is actually real - and she has stopped looking for a husband... thanks

indodon:
can you eat your cake and have it.....


well, your guess is as good as mine

Aderola15:
Story of your laive, itan aiye reh e...

Tahrah:
He showed his family your nudes?

saydfact:

Aderola15:
Story of your laive, itan aiye reh e...

hinky:
If they would ever listen

saydfact:
@cerowo - well, maybe out of anger - but that doesn't justify his act sha.. he shdn't have

cerowo:
Yea..... I knw he might have been heartbroken when he saw her nudes, buh it wld have been more matured dat he broke up silently b/w d both of them... And when his family members ask, he wld look 4 sumtin else 2 say

saydfact:
yeah - at least give the woman that respect and honour .. i agree.

cerowo:
Yea....very correct