yinkslinks:
must you eat in their house without contributing too after they house you? you are selfish and lazy bro

tell us how u take knw that he's selfish and lazy?Ni condition is permanent.A crawling baby of today nor go remain in that position for Eva. Reason well

hillsway:
which part of lag you dey,cause I get one fallow apartment when I fit give you around egbeda as long as you get hussling spirit.By the way I feel your pain,cause one of my closest friend from way back when get mind lock me out of him crib couple of years back(due to fact that his dad apartment was in close proximity to my work place),later see say God pass am,when him popsi later sell the house and me by then done exit 9ja by then for a better offer outside.Just get back @ me and abeg double your hustle and prayer.

God bless u yanfu yanfu.Ur light shall not be put off.I believe if he see/get something doing,he'll gladly do it.Pls help him

ipobarecriminals:
u dey mind those ones?Invite any of those peep insulting the op to a party and watch them scoop/loot ur jolof rice,malt/meat in already nylon/poly bags.Nonsense

War Wolf.

And yes ipods are criminals.

hatchy:
My friend you are a big fool for behaving like a child.
Don't you no that there is time for everything? Dont you know that once they started complaining and finding faults that your time in that house is up? They are kind enough,a family of three to absorb you in this perilous times and you want to put blame on them for being harsh on you. You have overstayed your welcome even if they housed you for one week,time for you to move. Be a man,take up the challenge and look for accommodation elsewhere even if its Batcher (temporary).

But wait o,you may be wasteful indeed because two spoon of milk is enough na considering that you are adult,must you scoop three even in presence of the wife?
Learn a lesson from this,no condition is permanent.

Is that the reason why u call ur fellow brethren a F00l?What is milk?Tomorrow,U'll go to Church to deceive urself not God.No condition is permanent.Down is not out

LOVEGINO:
this guy no get shame o

Shame? He kill person/ Rob?The owner of the way is still on the throne.

amba2017:
the major problem is eating their food at all. from your report you are not doing any work at the moment and therefore you must not stay in lagos so I advice you relocate if possible

even. if he nor chop their food,nah the same thing. Fear women

solasoulmusic:


You can see how I made my point without insulting anyone I expect the same from you but like you said this is Nigeria

Just because you don't believe doesn't mean others with faith don't triumph over difficulties es.

What kind of compassion only lasts a while or even if it's hard his gesture should be enough to say he is grateful and making a contribution

I don't have to know you don't believe in God I can tell from your attitude all non believers have this penchant to shoot down the claims of Christian's we are not your enemy your ignorance is

Back to the topic shebi he will leave and they will soon find another common enemy in the house hope it won't be the child who eats rice crisps

And they wonder why their country is messed up. Guy, it is one thing to be compassionate and another to be taken advantage off. You guys can never survive outside Nigeria with this kind of mentality. Funny people. These are the same people who happily burn another human being in the streets. These are the same people who's daily existence is to shaft "the other guy". I know what you will say. You are going to say "i don't do that". I know. But your society overwhelmingly does which is why Nigeria is the way it is. They scream compassion behind a computer but are something else outside it. And you are right; i don't believe in a make believe God. I take responsibility for my thoughts and actions which is why i try to plan ahead for eventualities. And when my plans don't pan out, i chuck it to life lessons and learn from it. Bad things don't happen because of the devil. It's just life. Learn to live it. Christians fall on their knees praying to some imaginary God to accomplish tasks they can easily do for and by themselves. Meanwhile in normal right thinking countries, they have their sleeves rolled up and accomplishing the impossible. I hope for your sakes you wake up from this nightmare you all seem to be in.

tafabaloo:



Must you drink tea?

Bros, you self no do well, 3 full teaspoon of milk in this recession is over too much.

Besides, you shld stop taking tea untill u get a house of yours!

How much is sachet of peak milk 50 naira.I buy 900g tin twice in a month.God will not sleep

unitedsurv:


wana accommodate him? if you do will he know he has to work and plan for his future?

2. do you know if your valuables are safe when he's with you knowing? he has a relative in calabar

3. if you get fed up of his laziness how do chase him out?

just suprised you wana show charity in Nigeria of now and see him talk so far to me he's not ready to do something good yet

we never read where he come to rob ur house/beg u for food/accommodation. U are not his God. Shift make better person wey wan help him do biko

Onopa:
Today I fully understand Nigerians are heartless and the the people are wicked and frustrated

Someone came here laid his life experience and probably frustrated all you guys could do is desend on him like a wounded lion give him rope to hang himself

And you stupid black people complain those Europeans are angry they dont need refrigee or migrants

You hate trump for saying he doesn't need illegal immigrants feeding off Hard working American TAX money

i tire too oo.

ikezuora4689:
u are stupid,dont ever pray to see ur self in that position,everybody in this platform is forming hardworking(no be person wey see work go work),most of u dont knw what it means to stay under someone especially woman am speaking from experience,its better for ur mum to shout on u than any random woman,i knw want i pass through when i was living with my blood brother,i vow that once am alive none of my child we live with anybody not even my blood brothers.op i understand ur plight bt dont worry God wey do am for me go do am for u.....good morning to u all

God bless u.Dnt mind those ones shouting hustle.Majority of them still eat their parents/uncle free food. Kids will always be kids.i

YelloweWest:
Op u are an ungrateful entitled little piece of shiiit. I don't care how young you are, anyone above 18 and living on his own without his parents should have a better sense of reasoning.

The wife of your friend is a very good woman due to the fact that she agreed to take u into her house and even feed you!!

If u were a man she would only see u in the evening after the days hustle. You won't even eat their food. You'd eat cheap Street food.
But look at u complaining about milk and food rations IN ANOTHER MAN'S HOUSE!!!
Shame on u.

U fit help with job,let see if he'll not do it.i never read where he complain about food rations.

Same kind of mindset we have in Nigeria where everyone feels the other person should take charge of them and their responsibilities / take care of you etc.
You're the first born so take care of your parents and younger one, you have money so take care of everyone in the society etc such mindset make more people entitled.
Op made a mistake by making himself too comfortable and I hope he learned his lesson.
Op, have an open mind and be grateful for the little they did. Stay strong and work hard.

Nairaboi:
The responses from this thread shows that "the heart of some people are truly wicked" especially the women folks haven had a glimpse of the first page. So because he is not a family member he should not eat or feel the comfort of a home. Some are referring to 3 spoons of milk as too much.
Damm! i have friends i have accommodated, fed and often give cash once in a while to change clothes and my fiance knows about this and encourages me. so it crazy that many people can't do half of these.
truly, a wicked world we live in.

As long as the op nor beg any of them,nah their problem not the op.He come here to seek for help but our own dangotes/otedolas here rather unsult themselves.

banmee:


And they wonder why their country is messed up. Guy, it is one thing to be compassionate and another to be taken advantage off. You guys can never survive outside Nigeria with this kind of mentality. Funny people. These are the same people who happily burn another human being in the streets. These are the same people who's daily existence is to shaft "the other guy". I know what you will say. You are going to say "i don't do that". I know. But your society overwhelmingly does which is why Nigeria is the way it is. They scream compassion behind a computer but are something else outside it. And you are right; i don't believe in a make believe God. I take responsibility for my thoughts and actions which is why i try to plan ahead for eventualities. And when my plans don't pan out, i chuck it to life lessons and learn from it. Bad things don't happen because of the devil. It's just life. Learn to live it. Christians fall on their knees praying to some imaginary God to accomplish tasks they can easily do for and by themselves. Meanwhile in normal right thinking countries, they have their sleeves rolled up and accomplishing the impossible. I hope for your sakes you wake up from this nightmare you all seem to be in.

You see assumptions I have lived in the US for over 5 years and came back by choice. He bought the milk that's all I read and that showed his level of humility now to your comments about the nation until we stop handing the powers of the country to friends and too old leaders we will continue to go back in circles. Faith doesn't mean that we don't progress it's the reason we progress without faith we for become slaves no be missionary save you from killings yourselves

U no thank God say the wife no accuse u of rape or something,better find your way,yeye man.How u go get mind sleep for married person house?u suppose chop slap

Freethought:


Please shut up and just move out of the thread already..

Sometimes, I marvel at the way people(xpecially you) reason at times. You can't help and you are still trying to discourage someone trying to.. WTH is your problem?!

That's kid for u.They reason from their anus.Everything nah joke

Nairaboi:

Now let me tell you a fact. If every dime you give out to friends is reported back to your wife, then you are not a man. You dare call me small boy? haha! You are a wicked person does not mean everyone will be like you.
The fact is you cannot help everybody. I grew up in a house only to realize most of the people i used to see around were not my siblings but children from 'the streets' my parents took in, sent to school, feed them, gave them shelter, and my mum never had an qualms with that even though they were managing they knew they would survive. So before you come at me, share your experience of how you have helped in your own little way.
its people like you that would see an accident victim and walk pass them.

Dnt mind that one.Person wey still dey swallow ball of Eba @him papa village.

jfleece:
Instead of u peeps to advise him In a constructive manner, some of u are already making fun of his predicaments and then when he commits suicide tomorrow u label him as being a weakling... If u can help him, pls do and stop castigating him and adding fuel to his situation.

He'll not commits suicide. Many are the affliction of the righteous, God has delivered him. Down is not out

talk2cletus:

What is with the servile beggarly attitude?Mtchew.I hate it when i see men who can't hustle.
Look at the way you are even talking.You cant even ask for a job.You cant list things you can do in exchange for money, you just want someone to take you in.You are even an ingrate complaining about food and milk.If you want to rise above you need think of the value you can add to society and provide it.The world will beat a part to. Your door.And don't be too proud to do anything.
Here is coming from someone who has been broke, hungru and trekked unholy distances before.And im a woman so please-as they say-be a man
gbagam u nail it i swear

I like people like u.Can u help him with 'a' job ?Let see if he'll not do it

NubiLove:
He is likely going to go and leech on his relative in Calabar and this same problem would arise after some months... there is a limit to how much help a person can render, in most cases after 3 months, they would get fed up.

Damn ryt

Fummylola:




Wicked soul , and you will call yourself a woman .

That one wey they use fake moniker to probably do beggar They call am hustle. Awon oniranu raurau.

fm7070:
Why should you be a parasite on someone who host you.
They saw you as an heavy burden on them.
If you added value to their life or they see prospect in you
or they saw that you are trying your best, they may not react that way.
Good luck as you face life in its raw form.

Whether u do good/bad,dnt expect everybody to love u.People kip shouting hustle, hustle.The same hustle Evans do wey land him in hot soup now.Wonder why those shouting hustle nor help him with hustle/job and let see if he'll not. work.Hustle kor/whistle ni

DukeNija:


I laugh at your ignorance. Judging from your response, I know you are struggling to survive and make ends meet. The anger in you will consume you. People who think like you remain at the same level till they die. I am currently looking for someone to cook and assist my mom with her school and if @op was a lady I would have contacted her immediately. You know nothing!

u should ignore people like that.

solasoulmusic:


You see assumptions I have lived in the US for over 5 years and came back by choice. He bought the milk that's all I read and that showed his level of humility now to your comments about the nation until we stop handing the powers of the country to friends and too old leaders we will continue to go back in circles. Faith doesn't mean that we don't progress it's the reason we progress without faith we for become slaves no be missionary save you from killings yourselves

Lol. The way you think. He bought milk so he's humble. The thought process. And why do you hand over power to friends and old leaders time and time again? I'll tell you why? Because you all don't think like normal people. You keep thinking the same way and expect different results. Based on this topic alone and the reactions from people like you sums up why Nigeria is the way it is. Also, i don't need faith. What i need is hope. I hope that my plans and efforts put in place come to fruit because chance and life may have other plans. Plus, every nation from time immemorial has been set free from whatever bondage they've been in. What they did with it is what matters. Believe it or not, when the first settlers in America found the new country, they almost died from hunger. The indians showed them where and how to grow corn. Missionaries saved you from killing yourselves right, how have you used that grace? You are no better now than you were then. And you came to Nigeria by choice? Ok. Sell that shiit to someone who is willing to buy it? Explain to me how one leaves a well functioning society to come live in a dysfunctional and chaotic one. Smh.

CEEcey:
1 sachet of peakmilk is just two spoonfuls=#50
3spoonfuls of milk is equivalent to 2sachet of milk=100. permit me to say that you are wasteful,HABA!!KILODE? Na because of you they buy the milk??

Am sure you must have heaped the spoon thereby wasting the milk cos am sure you are part of the people that do lick the milk they use in taking tea even after taking the tea.
The wife for slap you...broke ass nigga still looking for who to squat with.no be ur mate dey sell pure water,carry cement for head.ODE

We never read where he com knock ur door mouth for favor.U even complain about 100 naira, chai! Anyway, the owner of the way is still on the throne.He never sleep/travel.May God enlarge his coast

XtraTochi:
Hmm people are mean, This type of comments can change your mindset and make you want to make it by any means, by fire by force. This type of comments will surely motivate the next Evans.
No chill no love

see them shouting. hustle,go hustle. if he steal now,they won't think twice b4 they douse him with gasoline

banmee:


Lol. The way you think. He bought milk so he's humble. The thought process. And why do you hand over power to friends and old leaders time and time again? I'll tell you why? Because you all don't think like normal people. You keep thinking the same way and expect different results. Based on this topic alone and the reactions from people like you sums up why Nigeria is the way it is. Also, i don't need faith. What i need is hope. I hope that my plans and efforts put in place come to fruit because chance and life may have other plans. Plus, every nation from time immemorial has been set free from whatever bondage they've been in. What they did with it is what matters. Believe it or not, when the first settlers in America found the new country, they almost died from hunger. The indians showed them where and how to grow corn. Missionaries saved you from killings yourselves right, how have you used that grace? You are no better now than you were then. And you came to Nigeria by choice? Ok. Sell that shiit to someone who is willing to buy it? Explain to me how one leaves a well functioning society to come live in a dysfunctional and chaotic one. Smh.

As long as we are not as cynical as you our future is bright

How do you hope without faith it will happen

I didn't lie in the embassy I know what I went there for - Education and once I was done I was out not everyone prefers to live there and my family is here check out Lakeland.edu then come back

No student loans no loans just straight up cash money


goodnight

stressedout:
Pls nairalanders, I am in deep mess right now. I have been living in my compound for 6 yrs now but due to some money issues I was evicted and my friend/fellow tenant was kind enough to take me in for the time being. It is him the wife and their small baby son that stays.

The problem started when the wife start complaining that am wasteful. i have never remained food they give me. from then they reduced quantity of food they give me and i dont complain.

Now just this morning am making tea and take 3 spoons of milk in her presence and all hell break loose. she starts shouting and call her husband that even them dont take more than 2 spoons. the man called me later and said it is time for us to part ways.

Am devastated now. i even used my last cash to buy a tin of milk for them. what do i do now? i have no where to go.

Bro..... phew. Even me I don't use three spoons.

ipobarecriminals:
see them shouting. hustle,go hustle. if he steal now,they won't think twice b4 they douse him with gasoline

lol that's world people my brother
The guy has already gone back to calabar and I hope God changes his situation. See how people are making milk seem like a luxury simply because the guy is living with person, nobody asked if he's adding sugar to the tea, because he's squatting with them he should now drink water and call it tea. Go and hustle go and hustle na wetin Dey push person enter bad thing.
I have also lived with people I don't know and never for once was I treated bad, Infact they are always cautious of what they tell me so that I don't feel like they are doing so cos I'm living with them. I've also accommodated someone I met on the street fed him till he travel to cote de ivoire. Some people just don't have love especially the women

XtraTochi:
lol that's world people my brother
The guy has already gone back to calabar and I hope God changes his situation. See how people are making milk seem like a luxury simply because the guy is living with person, nobody asked if he's adding sugar to the tea, because he's squatting with them he should now drink water and call it tea. Go and hustle go and hustle na wetin Dey push person enter bad thing.
I have also lived with people I don't know and never for once was I treated bad, Infact they are always cautious of what they tell me so that I don't feel like they are doing so cos I'm living with them. I've also accommodated someone I met on the street fed him till he travel to cote de ivoire. Some people just don't have love especially the women

As for women,forget those ones.Most of them go to party with poly bags to scoop jolof rice/meat.50 naira.See them screaming 50 naira milk! May we not see evil.

ipobarecriminals:
As for women,forget those ones.Most of them go to party with poly bags to scoop jolof rice/meat.50 naira.See them screaming 50 naira milk! May we not see evil.

Amen oo bro