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Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by delishpot: 6:02pm On Jun 27, 2017
100Th:
The guy no sabi work.Choi this is how he pulled 19 million two times ,went to SA ,came back, He supposed collect your account login self, should in case you decided to ask about his real intentions, Lol an Australian woman visited him last three months, I'll show him this thread,haha him go shout haha.whity don dey get sense
You know the guy?
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by slinkman(m): 10:05pm On Jun 27, 2017
delishpot:
Dare him.... tell him to pay for your flight or send you the money to process things and see if he will tell you stories.
grin you want to end another relationship..
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by naijamakossa(m): 10:54pm On Jun 27, 2017
dingbang:
I used to have a white chic from los Angeles loving me so badly... I never asked her a dime.. This made her come all the way from United states to Nigeria just to see me but unfortunately, we didn't get to see due to circumstances beyond my control...


So I think in all sincerity, any guy who likes you won't want to start pulling demands.destinies are not the same

And on the radio today I was advised by the OAP, never give money to anybody you met online who you havnt seen and you both have some "love"

If they really claim they like you, let them spend their time and money to come and see you.
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by naijamakossa(m): 11:05pm On Jun 27, 2017
Redgal:
Hi I'm an woman living in America. I met a Nigerian man online on a dating site. I don't usually do long distance relationship not even in the U.S. but I decided to exchange numbers with this man and we communicate mainly through What's App. I have been communicating with him for about 9 months now. He professed his love for me early. Which I was suspicious about but after talking to him for a while I believe he is probably genuine. He wants me to come over to Nigeria to visit him. He said it would be easy that way for me to come over to meet him and his family. Then when I go back it would be easy for him to get to the U.S. so he can be with me. He said he's not using me to get papers he genuinely loves me he says. I don't feel comfortable travelling to Nigeria by myself and having to rely on him for safety. I have asked him instead of me meeting him there maybe we could meet in a neutral country in Europe and a family member would go with me. He said its not easy to get a visiting visa to Europe. Is this true? He also says Nigeria is very corrupt and you have to pay a good amount of money to get Visa processed. Also he asked me to help him to get $2000 U.S. to pay the agent who will be working on him getting visa to U.S. I told him I might consider paying a part of that but he would have to come up with the rest. I wanted to test his sincerity. I'm asking anyone with good insight for their advice on this situation. Would you advise me to travel to Nigeria as a woman who doesn't know anyone except this man in that country? I'm a little apprehensive but at the same time I would like to meet him. Also do you think its wise for me to help him with the money for the visa? He said any money I lend him he will work hard to pay me back once he gets to the U.S.A. He said he recently lost his job and has little money.
forget about every advice they are giving you here,it would do you no good,maybe because of this advice you might not want to help this guy now.you know this guy more than we do so only you can tell whether he's genuine or not.you both are together for nine months now,if he's a bad person you will know,all the people saying you shouldn't help him is an enemy of progress.follow your heart dear
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 11:09pm On Jun 27, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
Oh dear... embarassed

But i do believe that there are still some Nigerians who are geniune despite a lot of ppol are into scamming.. undecided
babe. Don't fool yourself. 90% Nigerians are not genuine, all thieves and yes I am Nigerian. Never send money to any Nigeria man. Never ever.

@redgal don't .

I have said my own oooo.
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 11:18pm On Jun 27, 2017
AHCB:
Security is present, at least for foreign nationals. This I know.

What you say is only true as it relates to a very few set of people in this country. [s]The amount of scammers is very very little.[/s]

Have you been to Nigeria before? You having friends from almost all the geo-political zone in the country kinda piqued my curiosity.
pls shut up.
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by naijamakossa(m): 11:28pm On Jun 27, 2017
If it's Gods will the guy will still go to the USA without the support of the op,all of Una wey help spoil this guy na so Una helpers go change direction.
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 11:44pm On Jun 27, 2017
dingbang:
I think the scammer is in this thread And even commenting
i like this dude. grin no homo
naijamakossa:
If it's Gods will the guy will still go to the USA without the support of the op,all of Una wey help spoil this guy na so Una helpers go change direction.
its not anyone's fault. When naija youths have refused to work but engage in petty scams. We don't trust anyone again.
I've lost many contracts because I was Nigerian, so?
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody:
Redgal all I will say is don't send any money to that guy and if you ever do decide to visit, meet him in our neighboring country Ghana if you aren't comfortable yet to visit Nigeria, which for him is 16 hours by road and 45 minutes by air. If he's that serious to meet you he will make that trip to Ghana and do inform the US Embassy or the Consulate so they know of your presence in the country.
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 4:11am On Jun 28, 2017
Redgal:
I was questioning the $200 dollars but he said that's what it cost. The price went up. Something about the paper they process passport with. I was skeptical too.
As for this part he said the truth, passport is even kinda scarce to get nowadays cos the federal government and the foreign company that processes the Nigerian passport have unresolved issues. It's being resolved though so till then fingers crossed.
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 4:28am On Jun 28, 2017
Redgal:
He told me he lost his job. He has one child, a teenager. He says he's never been married. The child's mother is not alive according to him.
Lies from the pit of hell. Red flag.
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by KosiGee(m): 4:32am On Jun 28, 2017
Redgal:
He told me he lost his job. He has one child, a teenager. He says he's never been married. The child's mother is not alive according to him.
Spill it babe, tell em more. Btw, how old is this guy? How old are you?
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 5:05am On Jun 28, 2017
luminouz:
U can say DAT again!!! grin
Oga how far with the parole with your Cameroonian babe, una still dey date?
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 5:17am On Jun 28, 2017
Mcowubaba:

I have read most of your disgusting comments about Nigeria.

I really pity your soon to be Nigerian husband, he is in for very ugly experience.

You can only keep deceiving yourself on how you like "Good Nigerians".

You're a racist and self servicing lady, you have the guts to troll on Nigeria, who daquk do you think you are.

I have lived in USA, for some years and some other western countries, America is fvcking unsafe, the have the highest Scammers and con artists, next to China, Russia etc.

Homicide cases in New York city can nearly beat homecide cases in Nigeria.

Yes we have Scammers in Nigeria, but the are in the minority, and most of the software and programs the use in doing their nefarious activities are produced in USA, Sweden, China, Netherland etc...

Your people developed the applications and software, that helps Scammers not to easily get caught.

I know many VPN systems and some other software that have their origin server in Sweden.

Does it even occur to you that some Scammers use Nigerian names and Nigerian format, due to the popularity and effectiveness.

Do you think all Nigerian prince are actually Nigerians undecided

I'm not a fraudster or Scammer, but believe me, I have first hand information in things like this.

Americans are more fraudulent than Nigerians, crime rate in America is way higher than Nigeria.

America that a lunatic will just have a bad day at work or a break up from his bitchh, and go to a club and shoot everybody dead...

We Nigerians are not shying away from the problems in our Country, we criticize daily and some of us are working towards the betterment of our Nation, but we don't need your help in doing that.

If I have the powers, I will ban you from coming to Nigeria, we don't need you, you're too hateful.

I wonder how your marriage will last with a Nigerian undecided
I wish the niggga scams a hell outta you.
..

You should be ashamed of yourself, I know you are with the Nigerian guy because of his wealth, if he was struggling or managing, you wouldn't even consider him..
I wish I can get his contact, and talk sense into him...
Guy well done you deserve this.....

Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by RealAdewole(m): 5:30am On Jun 28, 2017
Nina4u:
wait wait wait.. You should cut him off on WhatsApp already... Its first of all a love scam and he ain't gonna use that money to aply for visa... Hes gonna use it on his gf and side chick to pretend he b biggi man.. Visa cost 160-260 dollar depending on what kind of visa as u can see on the screen shot.. so hes lying. I got Nigerian friends I had for many years and I can tell u a hole bunch of stuff.. I know almost anything about these men.. Culture politics food.. Traditions.. Many Nigerian men marry foren ladies to get a visa and then go back and marry a traditional wife. Since that is recognised by the Nigerian goverment and the wife abroad has no idea. Anyways he what I understand ask u of 2000 dollar.. That to me shows he has no intention of wanting to be with you he is a yahoo love scammer.. And ur the maga the payout ..ask me anything.. I'm from Sweden but live in Las Vegas NV. When it comes to traveling to naija.. U got to have plan A plan B.. Plan C... Lots of crimes and kidnappings and cult killings for black magic and rituals.. 15 american was kidnapped last year alone.. No lives were taken but big money payout.. The police is almost non existent and u seldome get help if a crime is commited aka rape or armed robbery.. Ask me anything.. I will answer
see how this woman destroyed Nigeria, I'll not be surprised if her best game is mortal kombat
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by delishpot: 8:14am On Jun 28, 2017
slinkman:
grin you want to end another relationship..
Habaaa! No na shebi na him say she should allow him bring her? The girl sef no dey use brain. He wants to bring her but can not finance hinself. Person wey want give people food chop but no get food for himself to chop. grin
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by luminouz(m): 8:15am On Jun 28, 2017
dumo1:
Oga how far with the parole with your Cameroonian babe, una still dey date?
Lmaooooo!!!
Rara o baba!!!! We no dey date again o!!!!
Ayam single now!!! grin
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nina4u(f): 9:03am On Jun 28, 2017
RealAdewole:
see how this woman destroyed Nigeria, I'll not be surprised if her best game is mortal kombat
How'd u know my name? I am in mortal combat from the city of sindel and I'm 10000 years old and ohh I can prove my name.. Nina is my second name but what is my first?
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by SAMBHOSS(m): 9:03am On Jun 28, 2017
Mcowubaba:

I have read most of your disgusting comments about Nigeria.

I really pity your soon to be Nigerian husband, he is in for very ugly experience.

You can only keep deceiving yourself on how you like "Good Nigerians".

You're a racist and self servicing lady, you have the guts to troll on Nigeria, who daquk do you think you are.

I have lived in USA, for some years and some other western countries, America is fvcking unsafe, the have the highest Scammers and con artists, next to China, Russia etc.

Homicide cases in New York city can nearly beat homecide cases in Nigeria.

Yes we have Scammers in Nigeria, but the are in the minority, and most of the software and programs the use in doing their nefarious activities are produced in USA, Sweden, China, Netherland etc...

Your people developed the applications and software, that helps Scammers not to easily get caught.

I know many VPN systems and some other software that have their origin server in Sweden.

Does it even occur to you that some Scammers use Nigerian names and Nigerian format, due to the popularity and effectiveness.

Do you think all Nigerian prince are actually Nigerians undecided

I'm not a fraudster or Scammer, but believe me, I have first hand information in things like this.

Americans are more fraudulent than Nigerians, crime rate in America is way higher than Nigeria.

America that a lunatic will just have a bad day at work or a break up from his bitchh, and go to a club and shoot everybody dead...

We Nigerians are not shying away from the problems in our Country, we criticize daily and some of us are working towards the betterment of our Nation, but we don't need your help in doing that.

If I have the powers, I will ban you from coming to Nigeria, we don't need you, you're too hateful.

I wonder how your marriage will last with a Nigerian undecided
I wish the niggga scams a hell outta you.
..

You should be ashamed of yourself, I know you are with the Nigerian guy because of his wealth, if he was struggling or managing, you wouldn't even consider him..
I wish I can get his contact, and talk sense into him...
racist filled blood....na dah one b that.....where there's good....there's also bad.......

born to b racist......God have mercy ooh
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by SAMBHOSS(m): 9:04am On Jun 28, 2017
Nina4u:
How'd u know my name? I am in mortal combat from the city of sindel and I'm 10000 years old and ohh I can prove my name.. Nina is my second name but what is my first?
uhmm....Rac.....t?
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 9:07am On Jun 28, 2017
luminouz:
Lmaooooo!!!
Rara o baba!!!! We no dey date again o!!!!
Ayam single now!!! grin
Aww!!! M sure she was a very nice woman, any reasons??
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nina4u(f): 9:11am On Jun 28, 2017
SAMBHOSS:
uhmm....Rac.....t?
Hahaha my name na Kitana Chantelle Nina Irene.. Finnish him lol
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by luminouz(m): 9:14am On Jun 28, 2017
dumo1:
Aww!!! M sure she was a very nice woman, any reasons??
Yes she was!!! Very accommodating too!
But I wasn't ready to settle down n I don't tell lies.....I told her all these before we had anything intimate so she could leave if she wanted to! She stayed n made me happy o bro for a while...but good things like bad things don't last...she had to go(she had a job in Cameroon)
We still talk once in a while sha
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by SAMBHOSS(m): 9:14am On Jun 28, 2017
Nina4u:
Hahaha my name na Kitana Chantelle Nina Irene.. Finnish him lol
for one person.....truly mortal combat.....I hail oh!!
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Alawi1(m): 9:28am On Jun 28, 2017
Please, dont give him the $2000. He is a scammer trying to prey on your innocence and don't be deceived by the word 'you're beautiful', ' i love you'. If you fall for his trick, sooner you shall come here telling us stories that touch, but we won't feel sorry for you because you being warned. Experience is sometimes not the best teacher, because you may not have the opportunity to tell your story. I am a Nigerian and nigeria is a good country with loving, kind and caring people though, with few bad ones who makes us look bad.
If that guy in question really loves you genuinely, he would sort himself out. He has families, friends and relative, he can engage in menial works to raise the money for visa.
Joblessness is no excuse. You had better cut all ties with him and remember marriage is the union of two friends. A real man will focus on building true friendship that would last forever not asking for money. A word they say is enough for the wise, choose wisely.
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 11:16am On Jun 28, 2017
Redgal:
Hi I'm an woman living in America. I met a Nigerian man online on a dating site. I don't usually do long distance relationship not even in the U.S. but I decided to exchange numbers with this man and we communicate mainly through What's App. I have been communicating with him for about 9 months now. He professed his love for me early. Which I was suspicious about but after talking to him for a while I believe he is probably genuine. He wants me to come over to Nigeria to visit him. He said it would be easy that way for me to come over to meet him and his family. Then when I go back it would be easy for him to get to the U.S. so he can be with me. He said he's not using me to get papers he genuinely loves me he says. I don't feel comfortable travelling to Nigeria by myself and having to rely on him for safety. I have asked him instead of me meeting him there maybe we could meet in a neutral country in Europe and a family member would go with me. He said its not easy to get a visiting visa to Europe. Is this true? He also says Nigeria is very corrupt and you have to pay a good amount of money to get Visa processed. Also he asked me to help him to get $2000 U.S. to pay the agent who will be working on him getting visa to U.S. I told him I might consider paying a part of that but he would have to come up with the rest. I wanted to test his sincerity. I'm asking anyone with good insight for their advice on this situation. Would you advise me to travel to Nigeria as a woman who doesn't know anyone except this man in that country? I'm a little apprehensive but at the same time I would like to meet him. Also do you think its wise for me to help him with the money for the visa? He said any money I lend him he will work hard to pay me back once he gets to the U.S.A. He said he recently lost his job and has little money.
This is SCAM 101.
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 11:17am On Jun 28, 2017
luminouz:
Yes she was!!! Very accommodating too!
But I wasn't ready to settle down n I don't tell lies.....I told her all these before we had anything intimate so she could leave if she wanted to! She stayed n made me happy o bro for a while...but good things like bad things don't last...she had to go(she had a job in Cameroon)
We still talk once in a while sha
At least you were open and honest about it. I admire that.
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 11:18am On Jun 28, 2017
Redgal:
@IamKashyBaby
Thanks for your advice. I appreciate it. I'm cautious about the whole matter. He has an excuse for anything. He said he can't ask family members to lend him the money because they don't have it like that. When I asked him about borrowing a loan he said they don't really give loans like that there unless you are using it for house payment. He also knows a lady here in the U S who is currently engaged to his cousin and she travelled to Nigeria by herself so he is saying why can't I do the same. I have spoken to her a few times and she said at first some of her family members were against her travelling to meet his cousin but now they all get along with his cousin and want to visit Nigeria. She's in the process of helping his cousin get the U.S. Visa. My feeling is he wants to get to the U.S. but I'm not 100 % sure about how sincere he is in his feelings for me.
He has no FEELINGS for you.
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by luminouz(m): 11:31am On Jun 28, 2017
dumo1:
At least you were open and honest about it. I admire that.
I have always been open bro!!
Thanks dou!!!
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 11:40am On Jun 28, 2017
AHCB:
WTF!!! You make it sound like everybody in Nigeria is bad! Like really bad.
Yes 95% of Nigerians are bad...

So if you are this lady, you will send the $2,000. Or if she is your sister.

You allow her to be scammed..
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 1:59pm On Jun 28, 2017
but nina irene sound nigerian name
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jun 28, 2017
Nina4u:
wait wait wait.. You should cut him off on WhatsApp already... Its first of all a love scam and he ain't gonna use that money to aply for visa... Hes gonna use it on his gf and side chick to pretend he b biggi man.. Visa cost 160-260 dollar depending on what kind of visa as u can see on the screen shot.. so hes lying. I got Nigerian friends I had for many years and I can tell u a hole bunch of stuff.. I know almost anything about these men.. Culture politics food.. Traditions.. Many Nigerian men marry foren ladies to get a visa and then go back and marry a traditional wife. Since that is recognised by the Nigerian goverment and the wife abroad has no idea. Anyways he what I understand ask u of 2000 dollar.. That to me shows he has no intention of wanting to be with you he is a yahoo love scammer.. And ur the maga the payout ..ask me anything.. I'm from Sweden but live in Las Vegas NV. When it comes to traveling to naija.. U got to have plan A plan B.. Plan C... Lots of crimes and kidnappings and cult killings for black magic and rituals.. 15 american was kidnapped last year alone.. No lives were taken but big money payout.. The police is almost non existent and u seldome get help if a crime is commited aka rape or armed robbery.. Ask me anything.. I will answer
this Nina is smart grin
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