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pocohantas:
Men who do not smoke, drink or womanise are very man enough to me. Where you wan take get them?

Let's not forget the health benefits of abstaining from these three things.

Babe they are around but very few.

DeGuyNxtDoor:
lol my lioness..you are one funny lady

You mean there are strong and soft cup of coffees?

Why would you talk to those who dislike you? Boundaries should be maintained between yourself and these pple my dear.

Music helps me as well...most times I write songs but only when I'm sad.

Lol.

Yes there are.

Lol , I was kidding about the calling of people I dislike replace that with people I like who know how to brighten up my mood.



Oh, you write songs ? . What kind ?

Josephamstrong1:
Zinny377 Where are you?
Is your man guilty of smoking, drinking and womanising?
What's your verdict?
Man enough?

As for OP,
I have never smoked since i was born. Never took beer or star or Hennessey or Gulder or whateva mehn!
Yet I am a man!!! Does looking soft affect ur manhood ni? I look even younger than my age..less toxins in my system....
Just be U! Who will love u will love u!
U are not d only one though...My parents don't....my woman don't......
Datz just ME!! If nobody likes and thinks it defines a man, then they are welcome to fvck themselves....
Again! Just be U!!!

I have a man who is confident and focused, as strange and unbelievable as it may seem he neither drinks, smokes nor womanise...I call him the real deal! He is man enough

Lionessza:
Lol.

Yes there are.

Lol , I was kidding about the calling of people I dislike replace that with people I like who know how to brighten up my mood.



Oh, you write songs ? . What kind ?

love songs, and I do rap as well... My friend nonso amadi inspired me.


Check out his latest, really cool especially with headphones.

https://my.notjustok.com/track/34003/nonso-amadi-tonight

ZarZar:
Lol, that's an interesting way of handling it. Me, I just sit it out with as little stimulation as possible because I hate everything & everyone, when I'm in a mood funk. Sometimes I pray noone contacts me because I'd take it out on them in a flash, cuss them up one side & down the other. There are currently people I wanna send mean messages to as we speak, but I'm doing a great job controlling myself this time. If it were the old me, I would have done so much damage by now. But thank God I now realize doing that is just a way for me to get some action & ease some tension.

LMFAO, I know what you mean. I always feel sorry for the first person who will step on my toes coz that's who I will unleash the dragon on. Lmfao @ the bolded, I'm familiar with that mean spirit as well and I've learnt to control it as hard as it is to do

DeGuyNxtDoor:
love songs, and I do rap as well... My friend nonso amadi inspired me.


Check out his latest, really cool especially with headphones.

https://my.notjustok.com/track/34003/nonso-amadi-tonight

Oh that's nice. Is your friend a professional writer or musician? Or someone you felt like praising in your song? .


Unfortunately I can't tap on the link right now coz I'm not allowed to here , but maybe later when I'm using a much more secure line.

Lionessza:
Oh that's nice. Is your friend a professional writer or musician? Or someone you felt like praising in your song? .


Unfortunately I can't tap on the link right now coz I'm not allowed to here , but maybe later when I'm using a much more secure line.

he's actually both. You'd really love the song wen you get to play it on head phone before bed.


Oh OK my dear, that's understandable. You just don't forget to visit this mention and click on the link and tell me what you think. You'd be glad you did

Lionessza:
LMFAO, I know what you mean. I always feel sorry for the first person who will step on my toes coz that's who I will unleash the dragon on. Lmfao @ the bolded, I'm familiar with that mean spirit as well and I've learnt to control it as hard as it is to do

Ja ne. Doesn't it make you feel like you're one sick sicko though? Because when I do stuff like that, I'm often amazed at what an unwell fucker I am at times It's heartbreaking

DeGuyNxtDoor:
he's actually both. You'd really love the song wen you get to play it on head phone before bed.


Oh OK my dear, that's understandable. You just don't forget to visit this mention and click on the link and tell me what you think. You'd be glad you did

Oh that's great. Has either of you released anything yet?. Oh , sure.



Ok , hun I won't.

DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks


Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?

Smoking or drinking add nothing to your manliness. It rather shows that you lack control over yourself. They are habits with serious consequences and the damage they cause are almost irreversible.

Stay your ground (of abstinence) and you will have one less thing to worry about.

Look for some healthy habits to engage yourself like good music, sport, game, reading motivational/spiritual books, movies etc.

ZarZar:
Ja ne. Doesn't it make you feel like you're one sick sicko though? Because when I do stuff like that, I'm often amazed at what an unwell fucker I am at times It's heartbreaking

Lol, I guess I sort of know that I have a sicko side that refuses to go away even though I'm trying too hard to shut it down hopefully the good side of me will win this war before I live this planet . I'm glad though I met someone who hardly awakens it unlike the asshole before who almost got me institutionalised

Lionessza:
Oh that's great. Has either of you released anything yet?. Oh , sure.



Ok , hun I won't.

he's into it much more than I am my dear.


Stay safe my lioness

DeGuyNxtDoor:
he's into it much more than I am my dear.


Stay safe my lioness

Ok sure.


Same to you dear .

Lionessza:
Lol, I guess I sort of know that I have a sicko side that refuses to go away even though I'm trying too hard to shut it down hopefully the good side of me will win this war before I live this planet . I'm glad though I met someone who hardly awakens it unlike the asshole before who almost got me institunilised

Lol, that's funny. What happened with him?

The strange thing with me is, I've been told nasty things by several people, but of course I'd blow up because how dare you point fingers & play doctor with me when you're the one starting all the drama? Like, I feel justified when I do the things I do. Don't start drama & there won't be none. Finish. But on some rare occasions, after the fact of course, I do get insight into my own behavior & see THE VERY SMALL THINGS I've done wrong Other than that I think my behavior is always considerate, until someone is unfair to me, then all hell breaks loose.

Lionessza:
He wouldn't be able to handle that one, so I will leave him to you to train him a bit before he takes on the God

Oh okay!! You are getting cocky now.I'm coming with my heavy artillery that can shoot from 15 ft away


Shoot to thrill

ZarZar:
Lol, that's funny. What happened with him?

The strange thing with me is, I've been told nasty things by several people, but of course I'd blow up because how dare you point fingers & play doctor with me when you're the one starting all the drama? Like, I feel justified when I do the things I do. Don't start drama & there won't be none. Finish. But on some rare occasions, after the fact of course, I do get insight into my own behavior & see THE VERY SMALL THINGS I've done wrong Other than that I think my behavior is always considerate, until someone is unfair to me, then all hell breaks loose.

Lol, don't ask me about him I'm just glad he's dead even if it's only in my mind . He knew how to rub me the wrong way I will grant him that , he made me realize so many things about myself and what I'm capable of doing when pushed to the limit .


Exactly, Zar people start shyt and when you react to it in your own way they start playing expert in mental conditions . I know what you mean, if only people could understand that if you do right by me I have no reason to bite you. I think my biggest problem is that I hold people to the same standards I hold myself , if I say I will do something trusts me I will do it without excuses and I expect the same from you. Lol @ rare occasions...I know what you mean we should be twins .

Jayceon:
Oh okay!! You are getting cocky now.I'm coming with my heavy artillery that can shoot from 15 ft away


Shoot to thrill

Lol, how did you know I love the feeling of being electrocuted? . Thanks Jace I feel like a woman again

Lionessza:
Lol, don't ask me about him I'm just glad he's dead even if it's only in my mind . He knew how to rub me the wrong way I will grant him that , he made me realize so many things about myself and what I'm capable of doing when pushed to the limit .


Exactly, Zar people start shyt and when you react to it in your own way they start playing expert in mental conditions . I know what you mean, if only people could understand that if you do right by me I have no reason to bite you. I think my biggest problem is that I hold people to the same standards I hold myself , if I say I will do something trusts me I will do it without excuses and I expect the same from you. Lol @ rare occasions...I know what you mean we should be twins .

Exactly! Me too, I'm a person of my word & I expect the same. Don't give me rubbish excuses when I'm not even asking for much, except reliability or your exit. But apparently, that's being "crazy" for some people. Crazy for where, crazy for why? When I start, my guy says "you need help". That I'd never understand. It simply doesn't compute with me because I don't understand how I'm being a nut when I address things. OK, I may not say them how you like but at that moment IDC because we wouldn't be having this discussion if you were Mr Considerate yourself.

ZarZar:
Exactly! Me too, I'm a person of my word & I expect the same. Don't give me rubbish excuses when I'm not even asking for much, except reliability or your exit. But apparently, that's being "crazy" for some people. Crazy for where, crazy for why? When I start, my guy says "you need help". That I'd never understand. It simply doesn't compute with me because I don't understand how I'm being a nut when I address things. OK, I may not say them how you like but at that moment IDC because we wouldn't be having this discussion if you were Mr Considerate yourself.

True that, walk the talk and you will be treated like a king. Lie , cheat or make excuses you will regret ever meeting me as I will give you the treatment only reserved for shyty kings . What I hate the most is when someone is being inconsiderate and when you confront them they still want to control how you react to their rubbish like they want to write a script of the whole thing. "I do this shyt that will make you upset, but be nice with your angry reaction so that I can feel comfortable with it". . Like really? Who's the crazy one here?.

DeGuyNxtDoor:
so u mean, the said shisha is not completely harmless?

your type is very rare. .keep it up,.

Lionessza:
True that, walk the talk and you will be treated like a king. Lie , cheat or make excuses you will regret ever meeting me as I will give you the treatment only reserved for shyty kings . What I hate the most is when someone is being inconsiderate and when you confront them they still want to control how you react to their rubbish like they want to write a script of the whole thing. "I do this shyt that will make you upset, but be nice with your angry reaction so that I can feel comfortable with it". . Like really? Who's the crazy one here?.

Hahaha. Yes! You treat me anyhow but you expect me to kowtow to you? Mofo, are you OK?

Really, where are all the good guys? Someone said they're either dead or gay. Sick of the rest of them bullshitters

sekxy:
your type is very rare. .keep it up,.

thank you my dear

ZarZar:
Hahaha. Yes! You treat me anyhow but you expect me to kowtow to you? Mofo, are you OK?

Really, where are all the good guys? Someone said they're either dead or gay. Sick of the rest of them bullshitters

Lol .



Lol , I'm keeping mine under my skirt I don't want any crazy biatches near him . I bet they are out there looking for good women but they keep meeting what they call " slay queens " here on nairaland lol.

Lionessza:
Lol .



Lol , I'm keeping mine under my skirt I don't want any crazy biatches near him . I bet they are out there looking for good women but they keep meeting what they call " slay queens " here on nairaland lol.

Lol @ slay queens. Yeah, hold on to him like a koala.A few good men out there.

ZarZar:
Lol @ slay queens. Yeah, hold on to him like a koala.A few good men out there.

Lol.


I can't stop giggling maybe ndiyadelela, my younger brother just told me over the phone that he's getting married . I really didn't see this one coming, this girl must be good

Lionessza:
Lol.


I can't stop giggling maybe ndiyadelela, my younger brother just told me over the phone that he's getting married . I really didn't see this one coming, this girl must be good

Have you guys met her though?

I hope it's not oomalotyolwa nge-braai pack It sounds sudden even though I don't know either of them.

ZarZar:
Hahaha. Yes! You treat me anyhow but you expect me to kowtow to you? Mofo, are you OK?

Really, where are all the good guys? Someone said they're either dead or gay. Sick of the rest of them bullshitters

The good guys abound everywhere but in multiple shades...
*True what that someone told ya, some died from heartbreaks, some turned gay cos they are tired of doing same shi again..... Goodnews!! The rest of them bullshitters make up for the third sets, they are the infamous fückboys. Guys with a good heart who have made the resolve of absolving themselves of dramas and unnecessary headaches that comes with staying committed to a female who can't keep to a male....so they opt to stay as friends and hit it on a steady. NO STRINGS ATTACHED.

kumulus:
The good guys abound everywhere but in multiple shades...
*True what that someone told ya, some died from heartbreaks, some turned gay cos they are tired of doing same shi again..... Goodnews!! The rest of them bullshitters make up for the third sets, they are the infamous fückboys. Guys with a good heart who have made the resolve of absolving themselves of dramas and unnecessary headaches that comes with staying committed to a female who can't keep to a male....so they opt to stay as friends and hit it on a steady. NO STRINGS ATTACHED.

What the difference between what the fuckboy & the so-called guy with a good heart is doing? From where I'm standing both are no good.

ZarZar:
Have you guys met her though?

I hope it's not oomalotyolwa nge-braai pack It sounds sudden even though I don't know either of them.

No I haven't met her , my sister and two cousins did but none of them really likes her though. They all thought kudala ekhona for yena .


Lol @oomalotyolwa nge-braai pack . First time hearing this one . It is out of the blue , lomntu was dating this other girl for a few years now and they had a fight a few months back and we all thought it was a short break up between two kids. About a month back he announces he's got a GF and now this bomb . My cousin is laughing her ass off, uthi Noba bamphe some advanced stuff that the young GF didn't know . My sister is livid ngapha, uthi she's going to talk to him. Maybe it's love bantu kwazi bani lol.

Lionessza:
No I haven't met , my sister and two cousins did but none of them really likes her though. They all thought kudala ekhona for yena .


Lol @oomalotyolwa nge-braai pack . First time hearing this one . It is out of the blue , lomntu was dating this other girl for a few years now and they had a fight a few months back and we all thought it was a short break up between two kids. About a month back he announces he's got a GF and now this bomb . My cousin is laughing her ass off, uthi Noba bamphe some advanced stuff that the young GF didn't know . My sister is livid ngapha, uthi she's going to talk to him. Maybe it's love bantu kwazi bani lol.

Ngumhloboni? Lol, we call people from this side (iintlanga) that because most of them have that desperation to get married, that even if a guy came to pay lobola with a braai pack, they'd accept. There's this woman that was my sister's neighbour. She was always proud to say her husband paid R1 000 for her. Caba that's HUGE where she is from in Limpopo. It was funny to us because i-thousand, really?

Oh, I see their concerns. Plus the rush. It's too much too fast. Hope akamdlisanga lol.

ZarZar:
Ngumhloboni? Lol, we call people from this side (iintlanga) that because most of them have that desperation to get married, that even if a guy came to pay lobola with a braai pack, they'd accept. There's this woman that was my sister's neighbour. She was always proud to say her husband paid R1 000 for her. Caba that's HUGE where she is from in Limpopo. It was funny to us because i-thousand, really?

Oh, I see their concerns. Plus the rush. It's too much too fast. Hope akamdlisanga lol.

Ngumpedi , part of the reasons zomsindo ka sisters uthi akabaqondi . Hayi wena? Seriously? 1000 rands they would get their asses kicked in EC for disrespecting our pimping uncles .



Hayi yi rush rush , it's scary . Lol batsho nabo.

Lionessza:
Ngumpedi , part of the reasons zomsindo ka sisters uthi akabaqondi . Hayi wena? Seriously? 1000 rands they would get their asses kicked in EC for disrespecting our pimping uncles .



Hayi yi rush rush , it's scary . Lol batsho nabo.

LMAO @ pimping uncles. Abo are desperados for marriage. Nam I'm not too fond of them because most of them have a backwards way of thinking. It's marriage by all means, even if umntu akafundanga. Talk about misplaced priorities & just plain dumbassery. If she's truly from there, then I feel sorry for your brother because ngamaqaba & only champion in gqwirhy things. I hope he hears word, shame. But it won't be that much loss because your family will pay one bucket yamasonja tops