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IamSINZ:
You said you're the one with the problem, and you know it's psychological. Your sex life has lost its lustre because there's no more excitement. Una don fúck with all the style for Kamasutra - it's time to take a break from each other in order to re-ignite that spark that was once there. Breaking may even awaken your desire once again. It's an extreme move, but think about it.

As for role playing, that depends on how comfortable you both are experimenting

itsJude:
you try , she dey come this weekend, na to try the role playing thing if it doesnt work then i will give her space and see what happens

itsJude:
pls sir go to page 2 and wait

IamSINZ:
Next time, I go charge you consultancy fee


Be like you nor know say I be "Honourable" now abi?

BiafraBushBoy:
lol... why should I?

The thread is as useless as its creator na...

So make I scatter am finish...

Or you been wan make e hit front page??

lol...

#Dreamer!!

itsJude:
ok u sabi count abi


Read after me

first page

Page 1


Page 2


Wait for me at page 2 see link to the future page www.nairaland.com/3890306/what-when-loose-sexual-interest/2

Customized for you, shld be active soon, wait

itsJude:
no vex my lordship come office by 9 make i show somtin, i did some work today on that matter

itsJude:
make i no talk much una knw me, do anyhow and i go sacrifice this thread face u


This is my problem, i love my gf, i swear love is not the problem but of late i dont enjoy sex with her anymore, its not her fault its me, anytime she tires anything i always look for a reason to refuse, baby the ac is not on, baby am hungry, baby i just woke up, work was stressful, baby i dont like what u said yesterday


she hasnt changed, she is still beautiful and sexy but i think that i am losing touch with her sex appeal and this is sombody that i want to marry, my cheating has increased recently because of this

there was this day i told that i was not going to be home till 11pm so she wouldnt come over because i wanted to spend the night with another, i dont love or enjoy these girls but my body responds to them more than my gf


i have read and asked around somhow nothing works, i have starved myself off sex self no way, if i tell her she will form understanding but i knw her, once i say it i have declared war i dont knw if guys here have had this problem but this is new for me, i usually throw my feelings up and down, now that its going to one person this is happening. I swear i still love her

Jaynom:
I totally understand you. It happened to me twice (two different relationships) I was in love but there was no sexual attraction. I had to end it

Cleopatra4:
One issue with sex in a relationship..
Reverse is the case for me..
Will just start hating d poor guy for no reason
Before u know it everything don scatter..

itsJude:
tot about that too, the toy is not going to happen b4 she picks a bigger than me intimacy gadget but role playing for nigeria get as e be oooo, game of thrones dressing kind of tin abi?

itsJude:
thats my fear, i dont want break up

thepussyhunter:
.......you have to do it with an OPEN MIND

try not to think of anything (not even her ) and just go with the flow
and i tell you u'd see yourself wanting more of here

if you have no idea on how to naturally and manually be open minded i'll advice...............

(check next post for final piece..............)

Jaynom:
That was my fear but I had to. Love ALONE is not enough in a relationship

MsRoe:
Role playing requires that you seriously commit to character. You can play out whatever fantasies you have......(strangers at a bar in a public restroom, burglar in her room, teacher & student, etc).....you don't necessarily have to dress up in medieval gear.

You can try blindfolding each other and get each other off; set time limits to give each other orgasms; do it in your car before seeing a movie; get her off at the movies; play strip poker, T or D; use ice; get high; reminisce on your favorite sexual moments....etc

Emzyme:
Lol see o
I neva lose Sexual interest for person weh I no love
Na person weh I come love
How e wan happen

thepussyhunter:
you take .............. (dont know if i should say it here.......be rest assured it no booze or hard drug........it just a pill that takes ur mind away from everything but u'd still be well aware of ur surroundings and all that shiiiii,,,,,,,,,,,pm me if you wanna know)

in essence all i'm tryna say is just be open minded cos u dont really feel less attracted to her cos its all in ur head.......................

Anyways goodluck
(am off to page 2 )

teehamzat:
That's cos she is giving you on a platter of gold, you the one with the problem...go fix yourself., you love someone but you are not sexually attracted to her?..what manner of fuckery is that huh?

itsJude:
make i no talk much una knw me, do anyhow and i go sacrifice this thread face u


This is my problem, i love my gf, i swear love is not the problem but of late i dont enjoy sex with her anymore, its not her fault its me, anytime she tires anything i always look for a reason to refuse, baby the ac is not on, baby am hungry, baby i just woke up, work was stressful, baby i dont like what u said yesterday


she hasnt changed, she is still beautiful and sexy but i think that i am losing touch with her sex appeal and this is sombody that i want to marry, my cheating has increased recently because of this

there was this day i told that i was not going to be home till 11pm so she wouldnt come over because i wanted to spend the night with another, i dont love or enjoy these girls but my body responds to them more than my gf


i have read and asked around somhow nothing works, i have starved myself off sex self no way, if i tell her she will form understanding but i knw her, once i say it i have declared war i dont knw if guys here have had this problem but this is new for me, i usually throw my feelings up and down, now that its going to one person this is happening. I swear i still love her

Cleopatra4:
Pussyhunter everywhere you go
Wossup.

aha! If it isnt cleopatra the lady who leaves the image of her beauty and beautiful eyes imprinted in every thread she enters

i've been good o,,.,.,,,,,just been here and there doing some snooping around for hot e-fights

trust you had a wonderful day, qui?