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A friend wants me to share... Any advice for her wil b appreciated.. Mature minds only!!!

My Fiancé and i will be getting married soon. But recently av started feeling too much jealousy... Weneva he talks with a girl, even my own friends, i feel so irate that most times i spiral out of control. I also have problems with him chatting with girls. Truely he sometimes stops it when he sees am not ok with it. After I hv caused enough damage, i will start apologizing. And seriously, he has never given me any reason to doubt his fidelity. I feel its because i love him too much.. And am so scared of losing him to oda gals out dere.

Nothing can be done ...! But just tell her " Heart attack is real" ...

She will lose him definitely

it will ruin her believe me..let her work on her self!

When you die of HBP, you will realise it isn't worth it.

Tell her to call her family members around n start singing "if i die young..bury me in satin...lay me down on a bed of roses, sink me in a river at dawn...send me away with d words of a love song".... bcuz na dat love n jealousy go kill am last last...

3Dobserver:
A friend wants me to share... Any advice for her wil b appreciated.. Mature minds only!!!

My Fiancé and i will be getting married soon. But recently av started feeling too much jealousy... Weneva he talks with a girl, even my own friends, i feel so irate that most times i spiral out of control. I also have problems with him chatting with girls. Truely he sometimes stops it when he sees am not ok with it. After I hv caused enough damage, i will start apologizing. And seriously, he has never given me any reason to doubt his fidelity. I feel its because i love him too much.. And am so scared of losing him to oda gals out dere .

How I wish u learn from all the above sensible comments.

@ the emboldened,
Please don't be deceived, jealousy doesn't prove love. Jealousy is generated by insecurity. Take it or leave it!

Kindly visit & read the following :

whatislovedrcookerly.com/333/does-jealousy-prove-love/

http://exploringyourmind.com/jealousy-not-love/


www.tc.umn.edu/~parkx032/CY-JEAL.html




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A friend wants you to share? Hahaha!! Like her hands were amputated by the gworo chewing sharia law enforcers?

Let me advice you directly cos i know you are writing about yourself. So here goes....
1. Jealously will destroy every single relationship you try to build, so try to engage your mind in more positive thoughts when your boyfriend isn't there and you're wondering if he is with a girl. Get a hobby, a job, just something that engages your overactive, wandering and obsessive and possesive mind. That way you think less of who he could be with when he isn't with you.

2. Try to be friendly with his friends, especially the females too. That way you get to know them better. You get to observe and see what is really happening close up and not from afar as a stranger. Moreover, if he had intentions of flirting, he would reduce it or the feeling will diminish if he realises you're now friends with all the girls he is friends with.

3. Don't be selfish. You have your own friends. Why do you want to lock him up in prison without friends?

I'll give more advice but my ink is finished.

Maybe "your friend" is cheating on him or has cheated on him before that's why "she" is afraid of him cheating on "her". Notice the quotes?

May be she herself is cheating and is feeling unsecured. What then happens to the ladies the guy hangs out with in her absence?

ScotFree:
A friend wants you to share? Hahaha!! Like her hands were amputated by the gworo chewing sharia law enforcers?

Let me advice you directly cos i know you are writing about yourself. So here goes....
1. Jealously will destroy every single relationship you try to build, so try to engage your mind in more positive thoughts when your boyfriend isn't there and you're wondering if he is with a girl. Get a hobby, a job, just something that engages your overactive, wandering and obsessive and possesive mind. That way you think less of who he could be with when he isn't with you.

2. Try to be friendly with his friends, especially the females too. That way you get to know them better. You get to observe and see what is really happening close up and not from afar as a stranger. Moreover, if he had intentions of flirting, he would reduce it or the feeling will diminish if he realises you're now friends with all the girls he is friends with.

3. Don't be selfish. You have your own friends. Why do you want to lock him up in prison without friends?

I'll give more advice but my ink is finished.

A word is enough for the wise

dingbang:
She will lose him definitely

That is if she doesn't kill him or herself first......this one jealousy wey don dey reach terrabytes.....