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NaeChris:
First and foremost, Adam was not arround when devil came, Eve could not take responsibility just for few minutes, and that almost cost us eternal life. Secondly, no one is saying men should not assist in domestic shores or thereabout, i will do that myself when i am married, that a man does not involve himself with domestications does not mean he is less than a good husband.

jhudit:
Sad one...
Now we understand your grievance.

Op, you can help us champion the case.
Someone has to bell the cat.
The women that beat their helps are wicked...
The men that watch their wives batter their helps,
What do we call such men?

eyinjuege:
Anyways, Adam was on duty, and was no where to be found. That's incriminating on it's own, it all happened under his watch.
You might be a good husband, but a terrible father and vice versa. It's not compulsory for that to be mutually inclusive.
You see some men shouting that their grown up children love their mothers more. That's the general belief, but it's all cause and effect. I'm categorically telling you now that it's not enough as a father to just provide for the needs of your children. Men need to do more, and get more involved in family life. Women hit that realisation since, and have being co-providers or even sole-providers in their homes especially these days.
Anyways, we've digressed from the main topic.
My stands on that is that it's everyone's (male and female) responsibility to safeguard/ protect the children and domestic helps. It's not just a responsibility for the women.
Also, child abuse/ domestic abuse on helps is perpetrated by both male and female. It shouldn't be condoned by either. Report any spouse doing so to the police or appropriate agencies, or call the parents of the children to come and pick their children.

NaeChris:
It was not under his watch.t

RadicallyBlunt:
Women are naturally selfish and self-centered. That's why they compete with their children over demand for care. Believe me some even get jealous of how their husbands gets to d heart of the child than she does. If they do any little thing, they'll demand for worship.

I happen to be a child of such women. I love my mother but I can't pray for her type as wife. She has never experienced what it means to submit to a man all her life of being a single mother. Now me being the first man to make her realize how a man shd be treated is just a child to her. Why would she bliv anything i say. She battered me while growing up under her...what I would term maternal abuse. She was demanding gifts from me at 100L when I didn't even have enough to feed let alone hand outs.

I had to starve myself and depend on a neighbour for food just to save to buy her Ankara and shoes..Shes a well-paid senior civil servant o. I still don't think a woman can ever love selflessly.

eyinjuege:
You're still not accepting responsibility on behalf of Adam. It was under his watch, he was the one in charge and he failed at it. Otherwise, unless you agree Eve was the one God put in charge of the garden or at the very least they both had equal leadership roles in the garden/ the home.
You cannot have the sweet part of being the head alone, and then refuse to accept the bitter part/ other responsibilities that come with it.
God put Adam in charge of the garden/home. He failed to keep the home/ garden.
I see a repetition of Adam's mistakes and even attitude afterwards in a lot of men generally today. Always failing to accept responsibility, always blaming others and their women for their inadequacies and failure to put a working system in place. Maybe it's ingrained since creation? Or they just lack understanding.

joyAA:
Bro,
what are you doing saying our family wahala on nl?

Lol you've actually just described my mom, tho she remarried

swear down, this is just her life

And haven lived with at least one other family, I say YES its true, most women are selfish, some only care about the children they labored for, all others children are thrash.
Oyo is ur case if you jam one of those 'only my pikin' women and ur own mom na 'only me'

If they are REAL Christians, they will change, but most are just follow follow Christian

Justice must be served for those children its unfair, just unfair

eyinjuege:
You're still not accepting responsibility on behalf of Adam. It was under his watch, he was the one in charge and he failed at it. Otherwise, unless you agree Eve was the one God put in charge of the garden or at the very least they both had equal leadership roles in the garden/ the home.
You cannot have the sweet part of being the head alone, and then refuse to accept the bitter part/ other responsibilities that come with it.
God put Adam in charge of the garden/home. He failed to keep the home/ garden.
I see a repetition of Adam's mistakes and even attitude afterwards in a lot of men generally today. Always failing to accept responsibility, always blaming others and their women for their inadequacies and failure to put a working system in place. Maybe it's ingrained since creation? Or they just lack understanding.