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Aderola15:
Yeah

slayking:
You mean you will call it off?

ZarZar:
Lol, but that's a $green$ lie, it's most welcomed

But honestly, who wouldn't like a lie like that?

Benita27:
I think this lie is understandable. Call off what?, I'll only tell him never to lie to me.

Benita27:
I think this lie is understandable. Call off what?, I'll only tell him never to lie to me.

Aderola15:
Yeah

Nma27:
Yes. I hate such petty lies

ZarZar:
LMFAO. Or he better not be lying about that. It's not fair to get a girl excited for no reason

ScotFree:
The Only Honest and Unpretensious comment from a lady today.

slayking:
Nma27 and Aderola15 You girls are not serious.

Between, that's an intelligent lie.

The movie coming to America by Eddy Murphy comes to mind, one of my all time favourites after Titanic.

Same things happened to Akeem the prince of Zamunda who went to Queens in New York City to find a bride.

I'm actually the type who don't like impressing ladies with wealth.

Martin0:
It impossible for ladies not to know the financial state of the guy u intend getting married to,I don't believ that can someone actually hide something from a lady without her knowing?hmmm celebrities with logic

Aderola15:
Intelligent lie my foot! Okay, let's agree he did that initially because he didn't want to be seen as a moneybag. What about months into the relationship, when he proposed nkor, he was yet to trust me during the engagement too abi? Let him get the fvck out with his money biko! If you can't trust me enough to let me in on who you are, your worth, your plans and anything that might involve our future together... Bounce

NorthSide:
I know your type

Benita27:
Some guys hide their real worth to ladies to see if they're been loved genuinely or it's the money the lady is in love with. So if my fiancé comes up with such pranks I'd understand the times and era we're in made him make that decision. It isn't a lie that'd affect my marriage so why will I be mad at him?. It's a move to protect himself from deceitful ladies, so I'd see it.

Aderola15:
Intelligent lie my foot! Okay, let's agree he did that initially because he didn't want to be seen as a moneybag. What about months into the relationship, when he proposed nkor, he was yet to trust me during the engagement too abi? Let him get the fvck out with his money biko! If you can't trust me enough to let me in on who you are, your worth, your plans and anything that might involve our future together... Bounce

ScotFree:
Correct Person

slayking:
Beni.ta27 really impressed me. I'd really like to see the face behind the moniker.

slayking:
Na, some people really know how to pretend.

Besides, it's only in Africa we see showing off as as a sign of being wealthy.

I won't be surprised if Hushpuppi with all his social media stunts is just a scam. Really wealthy people invest in other things apart from the things ordinary people show off.

See Otedola for example, im sure hia Nokia phones don't cost more that 10 or 15k.

How would you assess him seeing him standing in his leather sandals and white guinea.

Poor ofcourse.

Same as Mark Zuckerberg...he drives an Acura Zdx which is a mid range vehicle for the middle class. Not a Bentley, Rolls Royce or Lamboghini.

I can go on and on.

So not all people like showing off.

slayking:
Benita27 really impressed me. I'd really like to see the face behind the moniker.

slayking:
Na, some people really know how to pretend.

Besides, it's only in Africa we see showing off as as a sign of being wealthy.

I won't be surprised if Hushpuppi with all his social media stunts is just a scam. Really wealthy people invest in other things apart from the things ordinary people show off.

See Otedola for example, im sure hia Nokia phones don't cost more that 10 or 15k.

How would you assess him seeing him standing in his leather sandals and white guinea.

Poor ofcourse.

Same as Mark Zuckerberg...he drives an Acura Zdx which is a mid range vehicle for the middle class. Not a Bentley, Rolls Royce or Lamboghini.

I can go on and on.

So not all people like showing off.

Martin0:
Maybe you should explain to me what the meaning of ''rich'' coz it seems misunderstanding things if ur partner is here I think he should check into your relationship to see if it not too secretive

Chukzii:
Lols, its easy cos it hasn't happened to you. Na people like you wey no go sleep for two days out of joy. Abeg no need to form

slayking:
To be honest, I'm quiet secretive at least its wise not to reveal certain stuff about yourself until you get very comfortable with that person.
But this thread isn't about me.

As per being rich, i never said rich people show off. All i said is that showing off is an African mentality...
It's a culture even the blacks still propagate in their music centuries after being shipped away as slaves.

Hardly would you see a Caucasian Rock artist singing and showing us expensive cars yet they are Multi millionaire platinum selling artistes.

Get my drift?

Martin0:
yeah I understand u,but wait ooo how possible is it that your partner won't know your financial stability even before you get married hmmm some folks will classify it as scarm ooo remember hmmm I don't think I can hide my finance from my babe even if I do it gonna be highly impossible,imagine ur wife to be ah women with their antics hmm

slayking:
Most introverts are.

Besides, if its not absolutely important that she knows my financial standing, then there's no reason telling her.

A smart girl would still know cuz there will always be hints from the way you spend your money.

That notwithstanding, id rather let her discover herself rather than telling or showing her.