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Hi nairalanders, plz advise a friend.
During my Nysc days in the North I dated a beautiful girl from benin, am Igbo. I loved her but not to the marriage level, she's older than me with a year (she did not know this). She sacrificed a lot for me, went as far as doing one d n c. We both in Lagos now, though different places. The thing is I've decided to move on with my life, I don't even how to let her know. She might kill herself. She told me twice, she dreamt when I left her for another girl. Just that, she started crying all over but I still assured her of my love. Nairalanders, plz which way for me?. Advice a bro

Same story line papi

Guy may over loaded truck of dangote pursue you in dreams..
#wicked

marry this girl and u ll be happy u did. my bro, when girls love, reciprocate and seriously too.

Op. You forgot to include the new girl that has brainwashed you.

All I can say is you shall be fruitfull

And he just decided to move on.

You finished NYSC and the girl is older than you, estimate of 25 - 26 and you just decided to move on.
Goodluck with that

Op i been wan say make Rick Ross and DJ khaled combine and fall on you but since i dont have strength to fight ,leme keep kwayet.

You are done with the NYSC girlfriend,
Same way you finished with the university girlfriend,
Now you are moving on to the Lagos girlfriend.

You done try.

jhudit:
You are done with the NYSC girlfriend,
Same way you finished with the university girlfriend,
Now you are moving on to the Lagos girlfriend.

You done try.

And later when karma falls on him
He will come to nl screaming all girls are gold diggers, olosho and the rest

u are wicked. to awaken a woman's love n now u want to leave her. if ur life no beta later.dont says its ur father people dat r doing u o. i pity u. leave dat gurl. come bk here on 5th july 2019 and lets knw ur life is

This op is an upcoming bastard! Many guys do not deserve loyalty. Op bet me eh d lady u wanna dump that your gf for will render u useless.. Just watch out

guy, u wicked o, dis girl loved u with everything and now u want to leave her, karma will fall on u like an iroko tree if u leave her, who can person trust in dis world sef ?

Hmm,thing wey u no go chop why u dey use am dey smell nose?

Nma27:
This op is an upcoming bastard! Many guys do not deserve loyalty. Op bet me eh d lady u wanna dump that your gf for will render u useless.. Just watch out

yes, some guys don't deserve loyal ladies, let him leave her now, another guy who knows her worth will come around, karma still dey for gym dey exercise

you have ended the relationship and instead of u to tell her its over, u are saying "...I still assured her of my love". then it means u are still giving her a hope (false hope). Better stop that cos that babe is not a small girl anymore.

op just be honest tell her youv'e moved on, and God forbid if she commits suicide it is not on your head. it is not by force to love someone you dont love

Nma27:
This op is an upcoming bastard! Many guys do not deserve loyalty. Op bet me eh d lady u wanna dump that your gf for will render u useless.. Just watch out

Am not dumping her for anybody, I just want to face my life, hussle and be a better man.

Nma27:
This op is an upcoming bastard! Many guys do not deserve loyalty. Op bet me eh d lady u wanna dump that your gf for will render u useless.. Just watch out

jesus christ,sure say ur ex is not useless now,ah u get mind ooo

Hmmmmm... why the hypocritical bashing on the OP



Dude may have erred by awakening the girl's love for some amorous reasons (no facts to support this though), but the fact is, rightly or wrongly, he doesn't want to settle down with her.


So he should just go on with this lady simply because she has done some things for him? Like seriously?



Op, man up and invite her over, then be very honest with her with regards your intentions. She would sure feel terrible about it, but hey, at least you'd be saving both of you from a lifetime of regrets and bitterness.

d way sme niqqa dey bhave self,op na ur type dey make innocent nd clean guys no dey get beta gurl cos wen u Bleep her up nw na so she go dey see oda guys nd judge dem..op I pity u gan sha cos d kind suffer u go suffer for dis nonsense u wan try ehn...I wish u all d best either in suffer or appiness.

kennies12:
marry this girl and u ll be happy u did. my bro, when girls love, reciprocate and seriously too.

I second this. When they love they love for real. Don't go falling into the hands of a slay queen that will slay your destiny bro. D tin wey dey hungry u for sokoto dey ur sokoto.

Men are trash. Dare to tell me different

kennies12:
marry this girl and u ll be happy u did. my bro, when girls love, reciprocate and seriously too.

Dude I think you should take this advice right here, I mean u got yourself a woman that loves u n has sacrificed a lot for you, when den do u want to leave her and break her heart? U didnt mention any negative issues on her part so my advice is stick with her

Nma27:
This op is an upcoming bastard! Many guys do not deserve loyalty. Op bet me eh d lady u wanna dump that your gf for will render u useless.. Just watch out

Haba take it easy sis, just advice him so he does the tight thing. cheers

my guy. first of all I would have like to know what are your reasons that made u feel u can't marry her but any way using the information I got here. I will advice you to stick to ur decision, never u marry a lady out of pity because alone their line u will regret it and they will not be love in the relationship. no matter the shit u guys have done u did it together because it takes two people to have sex. so just summon courage and tell her she wouldn't kill herself

Safiaa:
Men are trash. Dare to tell me different

Op tell her to her face instead of giving her false hope. even if she commit suicide her death isn't on you bro cos you ain't the first to bleep her and trust me you ain't gonna be d last .


some has dump her before you take her up. you dumping her is nothing. shit like this is born to happen

Don't let her hold you down by threatening you with her life.

Quote wahali I go swear for you

The way u tagged her "Nysc" girlfriend says it all

Let her go, u never loved her at all from the start, u just used her to cure your "Nysc" konji.

You even mentioned her being older than you by a year as if that has anything to do with anything except u tryin desperately to formulate excuses.

Leave her alone bro, she deserves better