When two people live under the same roof, they have to first digest the fact that it won’t be easy to to get along with all aspects of the other person. At the same time, you don’t need to change the other person and make a clone of yourself. In fact, even if you try hard, you can’t change anyone on this planet. The only option you have is to live harmoniously with the other person by accepting the differences. An introvert woman and extrovert man can live happily without conflicts. Love can survive only in places where understanding is.Here are some ways to deal with an introverted wife.

Ways to deal with an introverted wife are:


1.She requires solitude: When she requests you to leave her alone, don’t get offended. Being an introverted wife, she just needs solitude. It doesn’t mean that she hates your company. Introverts need solitude to rejuvenate and function well. That’s their psychological and emotional necessity. Don’t get her wrong when she withdraws herself into silence or solitude.

2.Let her be: Just let her be. See whether you can accept her way of living. It is better to let her live in her comfort zone. When she needs your company, she will voluntarily come and give you a hug. Sometimes, you will luckily see the wild side of a romantic introverted woman.

3.Don’t force her into a conversation: If she is silent, don’t force her into a conversation. Introverts participate in interesting conversations but they do it only when they feel like doing it; not when you want it. So, the next time when you suddenly start speaking about an interesting topic, don’t expect her to get excited about it. If she is in the mood, she will continue the talk but if she is in her regular introverted moods, she would simply smile and pretend that she is listening. Either ways, you must just let her be. She will love you more for doing so.

4.Never force her to socialise: Introverts do socialise but only when they feel like. So, how to handle an introvert wife? Well, ensure that you never force her to those evening parties and other social events that you are fond of. But you can always invite her and give her the option of saying yes or no. Your wife doesn’t need to be just like you in every aspect. Respect her individuality and enjoy those social events with your friends. In fact, an introverted woman is a lot better than an extroverted woman.

5.Give her some space: If you can do this, allot a room for her in your house. This is the best way to deal with an introvert. She would love to have some private space all for herself. Don’t be suspicious about it. She has nothing to hide from you. She just enjoys that private silent space. Now, you must have understood how to deal with an introverted wife.

These are the ways to deal with an introverted wife.



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really?

I doubt all

How did you even end up with such a person??

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Nice write up

Ok

WAYS TO SAFEGUARD OUR RELATIONSHIP FROM EXTERNAL FACTOR


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A-NY0DZb5BQ

We need to bend her cray fish..

All this advice na wash to naija guys

OK

Why try to change someone?

Fabulocity:

this would soon be ur case via ur signature.

space space space

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Nice one

Just get a side chic

Don't need a bitch that will stress me out.

Who get time for all these ones when I get billions on my mind, she coming with that bull shit I just push it to the side.

Op

Fabulocity:
The last point is so correct. I MUST have my own personal bedroom when I get married. I need MY space and privacy. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm not entitled to those. I love you future husband, but you can't be all up in my business 24/7 just because we're married.

sorry ma, the only man that wudda granted your request is buhari. He sleeps in a different country from his wife. I bet you wuda loved him.

Introvert for this naija?... If a tear u slap once... She go turn parrot...









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Yes... Emini mo so be.!

future hubby, take notes.

you cannot change an introverted person. you gotta understand them and accept them as they are.

Op u tried, but every thing u said seems to be only one point - Give her space / don't force her. Do I have a witness.

I'm not a woman, but everything written up there is so me... especially no. 3.

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I can go a whole day, the only words I said to anyone are *greetings*

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but when I'm back to normal... I'm a Lotta fun to hang around...


hate crowds and gathering with passion

Makydebbie . Hope you won't be hiding inside the closet to write your nairaland articles when we move into our mansion right next to the White House?

The future tense of that marriage will be a divorce

Fabulocity:
The last point is so correct. I MUST have my own personal bedroom when I get married. I need MY space and privacy. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm not entitled to those. I love you future husband, but you can't be all up in my business 24/7 just because we're married.


But introverts are not as reclusive as you're portraying them to be. The woman you described in your article is just a very SAD case, definitely has issues.

Lol.... Don't try this at home
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I'm still trying to figure out how giving space works in relationships. Give me space, and I'll buy a new land.

All the points interlinked and can be summarised into UNDERSTAND HER AND LET HER BE AT TIMES SHE WANTS TO JUST BE.......

introverts rock, I'm one.