YOUNGSTUNNA:
I'm not a woman, but everything written up there is so me... especially no. 3.

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I can go a whole day, the only words I said to anyone are *greetings*

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but when I'm back to normal... I'm a Lotta fun to hang around...


hate crowds and gathering with passion

it means u are a melancholy by temperament,nothing unusual,just mood swings

ikp120:
Yeah, the person OP described is actually a moody person who needs someone to give her some spark.

I am a major introvert but extroverts fear me when I step into the "club". Hehehehehe

i guess u are trying to play with words,and if u are,its really cool.but if u mean what you are saying then thats a fallacy.no real extroverts fear an introvert in any public setting.extroverts are the noise makers,remove them from a party and you have remove the life of d party

felaismyhero:
it means u are a melancholy by temperament,nothing unusual,just mood swings

I just don't like talking...i hate it when people around me talk to much... i wish they can all stop talkin for once and listen to the universe.
Hate arguement too... I may know the right thing about what they are argueing about...but i'll never say a word.. but if you ask me politely in quiet i will tell ya

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If I where to be a man.......I reject introverted wife...haba why did I get married in the first place.....you mean to be stuck with a wife that wants to be alone

why are people of the opinion that introverts are dull or dolls as someone put it, that's not true. anyway, I think the keyword here is understanding, he has to understand that she needs her space, and would literally go crazy without it. so give her space sometimes, and she'll love you more for it

mirrakk:


too emotional as well. they easily do things you never expect they could and you will never notice. so secretive, I hate that part

So, you hate me? Lol....

YOUNGSTUNNA:

I just don't like talking...i hate it when people around me talk to much... i wish they can all stop talkin for once and listen to the universe.
Hate arguement too... I may know the right thing about what they are argueing about...but i'll never say a word.. but if you ask me politely in quiet i will tell ya

Being around a crowd drains me.. Mbok, I can't deal..

Fabulocity:
The last point is so correct. I MUST have my own personal bedroom when I get married. I need MY space and privacy. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm not entitled to those. I love you future husband, but you can't be all up in my business 24/7 just because we're married.


But introverts are not as reclusive as you're portraying them to be. The woman you described in your article is just a very SAD case, definitely has issues.

D MUST also means you would support him with house rent from time to time

The topic would have been "Understanding an Introverted wife" not how to "deal".

Anyways, like someone mentioned, It's all kinda same point put together.

I'm more of a secret introvert. I dont let my introverted nature affect people around me. But I still love, cherish and respect My "Me time and thoughts".

makaOGA:
Wife too comot wahala, wife no comot na wahala

I think you're in the wrong thread. Or is this comment really meant for the topic above?

If you need to do all these things, why get married in the first place?

we need to understand God does everything for a reason imagine no night and day only sun , there will be problem, imagine it only rains and no dry times there ll be problems.. God created everything to be in a balance and cycle so intros and extros are needed to complete the cycle of living a balanced world...

just as sun set earlier at times or later at times

just as rain is much at times and little at times

intris and extros also have to change personality at times...

It means the man is not married his managing. Divorce is imminent. She is in charge. She controls the husband's emotions.

Fabulocity:
The last point is so correct. I MUST have my own personal bedroom when I get married. I need MY space and privacy. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm not entitled to those. I love you future husband, but you can't be all up in my business 24/7 just because we're married.


But introverts are not as reclusive as you're portraying them to be. The woman you described in your article is just a very SAD case, definitely has issues.

marriage and reality:

Fabulocity:



But introverts are not as reclusive as you're portraying them to be. The woman you described in your article is just a very SAD case, definitely has issues.

My thoughts exactly.

I know someone who got married to a lady who we assumed was an introvert, not knowing na undercover psycho she be. A pathologic liar, very manipulative with inexplicable mood swings.

I have already diagnosed her as bipolar with some sort of mental dementia sha, cos a normal person wouldn't do the things she does. The husband sef is done with the marriage.

There are introverts but when someone is too reserved, abeg shine your eye.

makaOGA:
Wife too comot wahala, wife no comot na wahala

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lol

Fabulocity:
The last point is so correct. I MUST have my own personal bedroom when I get married. I need MY space and privacy. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm not entitled to those. I love you future husband, but you can't be all up in my business 24/7 just because we're married.


But introverts are not as reclusive as you're portraying them to be. The woman you described in your article is just a very SAD case, definitely has issues.

so if u and your future husband start life on a one room apartment nko,what happens to your desired space?

YOUNGSTUNNA:
I'm not a woman, but everything written up there is so me... especially no. 3.

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I can go a whole day, the only words I said to anyone are *greetings*

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but when I'm back to normal... I'm a Lotta fun to hang around...


hate crowds and gathering with passion

U must be very smart.... but please marry the talking type, not nagging type o.
You're just like my husband. He hates going out except for business. Occasions are a huge stress to him too.
I always wonder what's going on in his head.... but he's a great husband.

millhouse:
so if u and your future husband start life on a one room apartment nko,what happens to your desired space?

Clearly she's not settling for a one room guy!

Educative

WiredLeggings:
future hubby, take notes.

you cannot change an introverted person. you gotta understand them and accept them as they are.

yea that's true.. We can't all be same

Fabulocity:
The last point is so correct. I MUST have my own personal bedroom when I get married. I need MY space and privacy. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm not entitled to those. I love you future husband, but you can't be all up in my business 24/7 just because we're married.


But introverts are not as reclusive as you're portraying them to be. The woman you described in your article is just a very SAD case, definitely has issues.

your personal bedroom? Sister.. I will give you your space most definitely but the bedroom division is a no no. I can't keep my self for you and love you and not sleep with you by my side everyday. If you need space.. You can sleep in the Palour

YelloweWest:


U must be very smart.... but please marry the talking type, not nagging type o.
You're just like my husband. He hates going out except for business. Occasions are a huge stress to him too.
I always wonder what's going on in his head.... but he's a great husband.

lol, talking type? you sound just like my mom..
(a lot is going through our minds when are quiet... our minds always traveled far)•

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I guess I'm not alone, I've turned down so many occasions, birthday parties, dedications, wedding receptions etc. those I managed to attend I've never witnessed the end... once I spent 30 minutes or 1 hours, i'll start feeling uncomfortable.

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one thing I know about us introvert is... we are very caring, we are good writers, we don't easily give up on something until we find solutions and finally the negative part... our anger is dangerous

Introverts...remain sadists

If u need space.
Bich id get u a space wagon.
G boiz nor dey take eye price g wagon

savagefinder:
your personal bedroom? Sister.. I will give you your space most definitely but the bedroom division is a no no. I can't keep my self for you and love you and not sleep with you by my side everyday. If you need space.. You can sleep in the Palour

Effiezynews:

Being around a crowd drains me.. Mbok, I can't deal..

so a lot of my missing brothers are here? lol... hop up on this introvertic train let's ride brother

well I dont know if I'm an introvert... but I do know I choose people I talk to and those I don't talk to, those I see as friends thinks I'm funny and fun to hang with ,those I don't talk to thinks I'm quiet or I'm a snob ...I love partying when necessary and I love wooing girls when necessary to crown it all I enjoy my quiet time a lot I get many ideas and solutions to problems during those periods.

Nairalandsss:
When two people live under the same roof, they have to first digest the fact that it won’t be easy to to get along with all aspects of the other person. At the same time, you don’t need to change the other person and make a clone of yourself. In fact, even if you try hard, you can’t change anyone on this planet. The only option you have is to live harmoniously with the other person by accepting the differences. An introvert woman and extrovert man can live happily without conflicts. Love can survive only in places where understanding is.Here are some ways to deal with an introverted wife.

Ways to deal with an introverted wife are:


1.She requires solitude: When she requests you to leave her alone, don’t get offended. Being an introverted wife, she just needs solitude. It doesn’t mean that she hates your company. Introverts need solitude to rejuvenate and function well. That’s their psychological and emotional necessity. Don’t get her wrong when she withdraws herself into silence or solitude.

2.Let her be: Just let her be. See whether you can accept her way of living. It is better to let her live in her comfort zone. When she needs your company, she will voluntarily come and give you a hug. Sometimes, you will luckily see the wild side of a romantic introverted woman.

3.Don’t force her into a conversation: If she is silent, don’t force her into a conversation. Introverts participate in interesting conversations but they do it only when they feel like doing it; not when you want it. So, the next time when you suddenly start speaking about an interesting topic, don’t expect her to get excited about it. If she is in the mood, she will continue the talk but if she is in her regular introverted moods, she would simply smile and pretend that she is listening. Either ways, you must just let her be. She will love you more for doing so.

4.Never force her to socialise: Introverts do socialise but only when they feel like. So, how to handle an introvert wife? Well, ensure that you never force her to those evening parties and other social events that you are fond of. But you can always invite her and give her the option of saying yes or no. Your wife doesn’t need to be just like you in every aspect. Respect her individuality and enjoy those social events with your friends. In fact, an introverted woman is a lot better than an extroverted woman.

5.Give her some space: If you can do this, allot a room for her in your house. This is the best way to deal with an introvert. She would love to have some private space all for herself. Don’t be suspicious about it. She has nothing to hide from you. She just enjoys that private silent space. Now, you must have understood how to deal with an introverted wife.

These are the ways to deal with an introverted wife.



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An introvert woman a lot better than an extrovert woman really bro? Then where is the place for choice?

Effiezynews:
Introvert women are very sensual and romantic ..

very correct

Herrmes:
Why are you so pained, did one leave you behind?
Yes, they're special
You think anybody will fall into your grave with you?
You don't need to do anything you don't like and it's funny how you are the one defining what being the superior intellectual being is
I don't really get why you take it upon yourself to bear these burdens
What they're asking for you wouldn't give, yet you're here thinking anybody is looking for your pity or glory, when all you have to do is petty.

You are beginning to sound pained too..The guy passed the message in a harsh tone but it is actually true.

YOUNGSTUNNA:

I guess we can board this plane together baby


those who don't understand thinks i'm anti-socia


crownd seriously freaks me out, and make me feel unease,,,,


but my job demand i address crowd sometimes

I totally understand... most times we can't Dodge them but I try very hard it avoid unnecessary crowd