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Should I Mind My Business? by slayminder(op):
hello everyone, I have a female friend that used to be my very close friend in my hostel and everybody knows that, but lately we had a misunderstanding and each other needs to stay in his or her lane, but for d past few weeks now, she has been misbehaving, I know that. but I think I don't care, she follows guys that smoke Indian hemp she hardly comes home during weekends she stays in a boys house, she started bringing different character that she doesn't do when we are still together, yesterday one of our hostel mate called me and asked me to talk to her that she feels that the girl respect me a lot that she believe if I talk to her she will adjust.

PLEASE SHOULD I MIND MY BUSINESS OR TALK TO HER
Re: Should I Mind My Business? by Nobody: 12:15pm On Jul 13, 2017
Since you call her a friend, you should probably talk to her about her new lifestyle, and I'm almost a hundred percent sure she won't appreciate your concern towards her. At least you'd have done your part as a good friend.
Re: Should I Mind My Business? by Nobody: 12:15pm On Jul 13, 2017
I've always believed no one gets externally influenced; people simply do things they often fantasise about. So, try to mind your own business, right?

Be happy for her. Not everyone is cut out for a straight-laced life; this could be the life of her dreams.
Re: Should I Mind My Business? by whitebeard(m): 12:19pm On Jul 13, 2017
U need to reinfluence her, no seriously u need to do that..!!
Re: Should I Mind My Business? by Damsman10(m): 12:20pm On Jul 13, 2017
slayminder:
hello everyone, I have a female friend that used to be my very close friend in my hostel and everybody knows that, but lately we had a misunderstanding and each other needs to stay in his or her lane, but for d past few weeks now, she has been misbehaving, I know that. but I think I don't care, she follows guys that smoke Indian hemp she hardly comes home during weekends she stays in a boys house, she started bringing different character that she doesn't do when we are still together, yesterday one of our hostel mate called me and asked me to talk to her that she feels that the girl respected me a lot that she believe if I talk to her she will adjust.

PLEASE SHOULD I MIND MY BUSINESS OR TALK TO HER
Gently talking to her once wouldn't harm

She probably won't​ give u nice audience but she'll remember n thank u one day
Re: Should I Mind My Business? by Splinz(m): 1:04pm On Jul 13, 2017
Inanna:
...I'm almost a hundred percent sure she won't appreciate your concern towards her...
Then it's pointless talking to her at all.

Besides, the lives we lived are more of personal conviction than "talks" from others. All the same, there's hope of a new leaf later in the future. And whether that change comes at a price or not is her business.
Re: Should I Mind My Business? by ehinmowo: 2:42pm On Jul 13, 2017
Talk to. If she accepts or not is not your concern. Bt ur conscience will b free
Re: Should I Mind My Business? by KunleSteel: 2:49pm On Jul 13, 2017
Should you mind your your business? Yes!

Now let me read your post...




Oh! I think you should talk to her. You wouldn't want her to walk into a ditch, would you?!
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