Good morning y'all.....a friend of mine has had series of abortion and she is still having one right now.....she claims it is menstrual pain but I know it's not,a lot of things gave me the conviction that it is not and she keeps coming up with excuses.....more like she is trying to fool me,thinking I don't know what's going on.

while she was washing clothes outside, I decided to check the drugs she was using and I browsed about it and there it was!

I really feel like talking to her about it because of the serious pains she is going through and i am scared that the next one might be her womb or even death......Buh another part of me is telling me to mind my business.

and the most annoying part is that the guy she is doing it for is going about telling his friends about it and it is spreading....... please what do I do?

When the devil starts playing ball


At that moment your whole sense hibernates, seems she wants to kill herself


Do what you can as a friend, if she insists on ruining herself, it's on her.

Since she knows what she is doing... Allow the Olosho to kill herself.

You should talk to her. Minding our business got us to this point of high sexual immorality. Sounds like you both are young, she probably doesn't know the long-term effect of her actions or she thinks she is far gone to make a turn.

For you to talk her out of future abortions, you have to care genuinely and she has to know you care. Don't be all judgemental like the average Nigerian, don't use shaming languages. Let her know you're glad you both can talk about this...

Please, make your research and tell her the dangerous effect of abortions. It's also a sin. Since she has already done this one, avoiding future occurrence should be your aim...teach her abstinence, safe sex... Accompany her to a doctor for professional counselling and to be sure there are no debris causing those pains .

She is a strong young girl with a whole lot ahead of her, she is supposed to do things for her well being. That guy doesn't love her. No guy that loves her would have unprotected sex with her, get her pregnant over and over, while she aborts it! Would he be happy if his sister is doing same? No! He is only taking advantage of her naivety.

In future, I see him leaving her to go marry someone he considers has a womb. The next abortion could be death and he would move on...she should use her senses, niggas ain't loyal.

Ladies should work on themselves and date guys with functional brains, not all these slay kings who offer only sex.

Talk to her.Tell her you know what's going on and that she needs to stop it.If she wants to be sexually active,there are contraceptive options for her rather than getting pregnant and contemplating abortion.
I wish I could talk some sense into her head.

You should talk to her, who knows you might be saving a life

Talk to the Asewo to stop killing babes

Give her an alternative solution. Like u LL be there to help her financially and emotionally. When she needs you . Dont just tell her not to abort. If u have a place or someone to help her relocate or talk with her guy pls do.telling her not to abort cos its a sin no be way to talk someone out of abortion atall. Help her find some help and solution

if u like..

Some girls are just plain useless. How much is postinor or other birth control pills ehn. Later she will be running to mfm for fruit of womb. She can die as shes no kuku get sense

julimartins:
good morning y'all.....a friend of mine has had series of abortion and she is still having one right now.....she claims it is menstrual pain but I know it's not,a lot of things gave me the conviction that it is not and she keeps coming up with excuses.....more like she is trying to fool me,thinking I don't know what's going on.

while she was washing clothes outside, I decided to check the drugs she was using and I browsed about it and there it was!

I really feel like talking to her about it because of the serious pains she is going through and i am scared that the next one might be her womb or even death......Buh another part of me is telling me to mind my business.

and the most annoying part is that the guy she is doing it for is going about telling his friends about it and it is spreading....... please what do I do?

What are friends for? Tell her about your concerns without judging her or making her look like a devil. But your friend no dey try o.. Haba!

ednut1:
Some girls are just plain useless. How much is postinor or other birth control pills ehn. Later she will be running to mfm for fruit of womb. She can die as shes no kuku get sense

Easy

PREBuhari2019:
Talk to the Asewo to stop killing babes

hahaha

Nma27:
Easy

no easy me o. Naso a NL friend was gisting me about her friend wey just do her 6th D and C. She try drug e no work. Wat d fuk is dat na. Chai

ednut1:
no easy me o. Naso a NL friend was gisting me about her friend wey just do her 6th D and C. She try drug e no work. Wat d fuk is dat na. Chai

WTF! 6th D&C ke, Her spirit husband wants to ruin her life! Haba

Tell her how dangerous it is. Not only on her health, but against GOD ALMIGHTY. If u fail to tell her now , and peradventure she died from it, I bet u, her blood will b required from ur hand. Take the Rope from ur neck and tell her now.

Nma27:
WTF! 6th D&C ke, Her spirit husband wants to ruin her life! Haba

hmm

She's a murderer. But you can save her soul. Try talking to her

That ur friend is a stuupid and fooolish friend. The abortion has already been done, she's just going through the pains and aftermath of the process. Maybe some debris is still left in her womb and it's causing her pain. No need to talk to her, take her to the hospital for a clean up of the womb and she'll be fine

Ask the HOLY SPIRIT for the Grace to talk to her in such a way her heart will accept THE TRUTH!
May the HOLY SPIRIT empower you to speak according to his method in Jesus Name. Amen.

God save me from that kind girl

The way people have sex these days without protection surprises me, they are not scared of infection let alone pregnancy I tire oh. Condom cheap yet people still de f*uck raw

Lalasticlala come and push this to FP na.
Snake is involved

If you tell them to hold body them no gree
She should continue till when she finish all the children in her womb

there are things where you have to mind your business but not on delicate issues like this,since you love your friend,open up and tell her how you feel and also how she is endangering herself doing aborton for someone whose possibility of marrying her is slim...she might get upset but if she is wise she will see will pay attention and change her ways

You should talk to her , loving your friend means telling her the real truth about the abortion.
How you tell her that truth matters.
You should be sensitive and should continue to use questions as much as possible, but you nonetheless need to impart some hard truths.
When providing information, you should convey three things:
The humanity of her pre-born child,
The inhumane nature of abortion,
and How abortion can hurt her
What kind of friend will you be if she ends up doing a permanent damage on herself?

You know the guy she aborts for is a fvckboy,yet you wanna be "minding your bizz"
what kind of friend are you?

Another example

“Imagine there’s water with poison in it—whoever drinks it will die. Now imagine you are thirsty and, not knowing the water is poisoned, you drink it. Would you have knowingly committed suicide?” She’ll say no. Then continue, “Now imagine that I know there’s poison in the water and you don’t.
I see you grab the glass and I don’t warn you what’s in it. You drink it and die. Have I just been an accomplice to your murder?” She’ll say yes.
Then connect the dots: “In the same way, I know some pretty shocking things about the abortion procedure, and if I don’t share these things, then I’d be guilty of withholding life-saving information. That’s not fair to you.” Some people have an unfounded fear that using graphic pictures could do harm to a woman faced with an unplanned pregnancy.
You don’t lose anything by showing her graphic pictures.
But you potentially lose something by not showing the pictures-A life

Better tell her to abort the baby oo.

ShawttySoFyne:
Another example

“Imagine there’s water with poison in it—whoever drinks it will die. Now imagine you are thirsty and, not knowing the water is poisoned, you drink it. Would you have knowingly committed suicide?” She’ll say no. Then continue, “Now imagine that I know there’s poison in the water and you don’t.
I see you grab the glass and I don’t warn you what’s in it. You drink it and die. Have I just been an accomplice to your murder?” She’ll say yes.
Then connect the dots: “In the same way, I know some pretty shocking things about the abortion procedure, and if I don’t share these things, then I’d be guilty of withholding life-saving information. That’s not fair to you.” Some people have an unfounded fear that using graphic pictures could do harm to a woman faced with an unplanned pregnancy.
You don’t lose anything by showing her graphic pictures.
But you potentially lose something by not showing the pictures-A life

Gr8.

julimartins:
good morning y'all.....a friend of mine has had series of abortion and she is still having one right now.....she claims it is menstrual pain but I know it's not,a lot of things gave me the conviction that it is not and she keeps coming up with excuses.....more like she is trying to fool me,thinking I don't know what's going on.

while she was washing clothes outside, I decided to check the drugs she was using and I browsed about it and there it was!

I really feel like talking to her about it because of the serious pains she is going through and i am scared that the next one might be her womb or even death......Buh another part of me is telling me to mind my business.

and the most annoying part is that the guy she is doing it for is going about telling his friends about it and it is spreading....... please what do I do?

I would have said you should talk to her but the embolden caught my attention. You invaded her privacy by checking up on the drugs she was using while she was outside. By so doing, she might be adamant to listen to you if you put up a conversation about abortions to her, 'cause she didn't seek for your counsel. Now, if you feel the urge to help her out of her predicament you could simple get her a book on contraceptive measures and dangers of abortions in one. Just tell her you read, and learnt a lot from it, she'll read it at her space and time. There're things you don't try talking to people about else "What's your business?" will follow suit...defensive tactics.