'Fellow nairalanders, would i be minding my business or being a bad friend if i keep quiet about my friend's bf who has been stylishly asking me to 'link him up' with one of my other friends even when he's still in a relationship with her? I mean, i thought it was a joke at first and although he hasnt really come out full-on to declare his interest but each time he sees the girl he'll start misbehaving and saying things like "awfar nw, help me with this babe na" and jokingly i'd reply "abeg ur babe is there oo" and after that he'd stop talking about it.

Now the question is, Should i tell my friend? Or keep quiet?
I honestly dont want to be the reason they break-up and knowing my friend, she would definitely break up with him when she finds out. she has gone through so many bad break ups.. Am i doing the right thing by not tellin her?

He doesn't love her much....

Ask what's wrong with his relationship with your friend and why does he want to double date?

You will only cause a temporary disagreement between then and u will be named an enemy 'after the flood'.

Keep quiet please, it's a two-way thing: no denying the fact he has crush on the other girl and it may wear out with time. That happens even to married me but the feeling doesn't last.

On the other hand, he may take it further and get caught red-handed and your friend's relationship will die a natural death. Whichever way, you remain a good friend.

Marisol911:
'Fellow nairalanders, would i be minding my business or being a bad friend if i keep quiet about my friend's bf who has been stylishly asking me to 'link him up' with one of my other friends even when he's still in a relationship with her? I mean, i thought it was a joke at first and although he hasnt really come out full-on to declare his interest but each time he sees the girl he'll start misbehaving and saying things like "awfar nw, help me with this babe na" and jokingly i'd reply "abeg ur babe is there oo" and after that he'd stop talking about it.

Now the question is, Should i tell my friend? Or keep quiet?
I honestly dont want to be the reason they break-up and knowing my friend, she would definitely break up with him when she finds out. she has gone through so many bad break ups.. Am i doing the right thing by not tellin her?

If You Are A Good Friend, Just Let Her Know About It.

Mind your fkng business if you can't help him

Talk to him as to why he wants to cheat after which don't help him with the lady....
Try as much as possible to avoid talking to him about the babe after that...


If not, dem go use you finish fight o

Paulpaulpaul:
Keep quiet please, it's a two-way thing: no denying the fact he has crush on the other girl and it may wear out with time. That happens even to married me but the feeling doesn't last.

On the other hand, he may take it further and get caught red-handed and your friend's relationship will die a natural death. Whichever way, you remain a good friend.

Wow..good read..thanks

LAFO:
Talk to him as to why he wants to cheat after which don't help him with the lady....
Try as much as possible to avoid talking to him about the babe after that...


If not, dem go use you finish fight o

Abi?

tomdon:
Mind your fkng business if you can't help him

Bros, y u beefing na

emmyw:
If You Are A Good Friend, Just Let Her Know About It.

Its really confusing tho

MartinBond:
Ask what's wrong with his relationship with your friend and why does he want to double date?

okay ,thanks

Marisol911:
'Fellow nairalanders, would i be minding my business or being a bad friend if i keep quiet about my friend's bf who has been stylishly asking me to 'link him up' with one of my other friends even when he's still in a relationship with her? I mean, i thought it was a joke at first and although he hasnt really come out full-on to declare his interest but each time he sees the girl he'll start misbehaving and saying things like "awfar nw, help me with this babe na" and jokingly i'd reply "abeg ur babe is there oo" and after that he'd stop talking about it.

Now the question is, Should i tell my friend? Or keep quiet?
I honestly dont want to be the reason they break-up and knowing my friend, she would definitely break up with him when she finds out. she has gone through so many bad break ups.. Am i doing the right thing by not tellin her?

Threaten him that you gonna report him to his gf if he continues asking you about the other girl, and pls mean it, if he doesn't stop then report him to her...

Just tell her!

Why are alot guys always like that
You have someone who loves you and is dating you,you would still have the guts to look outside.
#smh

Marisol911:

Its really confusing tho

If Am Your Friend And Finds Out Myself, I won't Be Happy With You, So Just Tell Her, Even If It will Cause Fight Between Them, If The Guy Love Her, It Will Make Their Relationship Stronger.

olac21:
Just tell her!

Its not as easy as you think my dear

dick can't stay one place

just talk to him bout him n ur frnd, if he doesn't mk sense.. then get yo frnd away frm d idioot

Marisol911:
'Fellow nairalanders, would i be minding my business or being a bad friend if i keep quiet about my friend's bf who has been stylishly asking me to 'link him up' with one of my other friends even when he's still in a relationship with her? I mean, i thought it was a joke at first and although he hasnt really come out full-on to declare his interest but each time he sees the girl he'll start misbehaving and saying things like "awfar nw, help me with this babe na" and jokingly i'd reply "abeg ur babe is there oo" and after that he'd stop talking about it.

Now the question is, Should i tell my friend? Or keep quiet?
I honestly dont want to be the reason they break-up and knowing my friend, she would definitely break up with him when she finds out. she has gone through so many bad break ups.. Am i doing the right thing by not tellin her?

just don't have a hand in the link up, and still don't tell ur friend, you'll be safe if u follow these rules, just don't ruin anything if u want a good reputation!

You only need to talk to your friend.if his not serious let him free the girl joor.