iyababs:
[It is eaier said than done,especially when u are a first child getting married to another first child/fisrt daughter/ first son .One or both parents might not allow the low key arrangement to see the light of the day,after all plans have been made,they will always remember to hide and call another friend or person that has not being invited.

quote author=tosyne2much post=58463602]I'm also a fan of a low key wedding. I would prefer a court marriage and a [b][/b]wedding reception should follow suite. All these church palava doesn't freak me a bit

dayo2me:
tell me the advantage(s) of court wedding over church wedding, if church wedding don't really freak you.

Robbin7:

You wan share property wey u no hustle abi?/

funmisticqueen:
My white wedding, 300 people, 150 from each side, i will rent a wedding gown or design myself. For the white wedding reception, 2 million should cover it maximum, 2.5 million, for court just me and my bae, like 200k should cover it. For traditional too, also 300 people mostly family and friends, 2 million should cover it. This is my minimum standard, we will both achieve this without any wahala after or soaking garri during honeymoon. I am hustling, you had better be set..

neoapocalypse:


No church wedding , just court and reception at an undisclosed place with a maximum of 30 people in attendance. But knowing my folks there'll probably be 1500 guest at a very lavish party

IamKashyBaby:


If i were to choose, i wud prefer a very modest but solemn wedding ceremony...

Maximum 10 ppol will be invited. NO MORE THAN 10.

Civil wedding wud do. No need of a church wedding since i do not have a religion..

Wedding gown? Maybe.

Wedding Reception: Juz in hotel..So it will be counted..RSVP only.

YelloweWest:

The most truthful and real comment. May God grant it for u.

All those people saying 50 or 100 people, do they think this is America?
By the time u add one father and mother's relative of the bride and groom, you'll have nothing less than 300 guests.

Divay22:
Op to be sincere, I don't know..
But I'll make sure he's not stressed out or worked up over issues of wedding and the bills will be split into two,because I don't have anybody that I'm trying to impress or imitate when it comes to wedding.....

And at the end of the day, Our happiness and home is all that matters the most to me..I'm just more concern about the marriage than the wedding.

Ishilove:
Very quiet and low key with a maximum of 50 people in attendance. 25 from my side, 25 from his.

What informs my choice is not economy but privacy. It is not how lavish a wedding ceremony is that will determine the success of a marriage.

For example, the 1980 wedding of Prince Charles and Princess Diana was the most beautiful and lavish wedding ceremony up to that point in history. It was broadcast to billions worldwide and leaders across the world attended.

Today where are they? Prince Charles is married to someone else while Lady Di is in the grave. And they were separated for years before her death.

Noise. It is not by feferity and noise.

Marriage is serious business and people nowadays get so carried away by the fanfare of wedding ceremonies that they forget this immutable fact.

Toks2008:
But how come none of the ladies mentioned any estimate in monatary value?

That is the vital thing cos even a low key wedding could gulp millions.

Ishilove:

You know that level na

IamKashyBaby:


If i were to choose, i wud prefer a very modest but solemn wedding ceremony...

Maximum 10 ppol will be invited. NO MORE THAN 10.

Civil wedding wud do. No need of a church wedding since i do not have a religion..

Wedding gown? Maybe.

Wedding Reception: Juz in hotel..So it will be counted..RSVP only.

funmisticqueen:
My white wedding, 300 people, 150 from each side, i will rent a wedding gown or design myself. For the white wedding reception, 2 million should cover it maximum, 2.5 million, for court just me and my bae, like 200k should cover it. For traditional too, also 300 people mostly family and friends, 2 million should cover it. This is my minimum standard, we will both achieve this without any wahala after or soaking garri during honeymoon. I am hustling, you had better be set..

Ishilove:

Ehn, it is left for you two to sit and draw up a plan. What ever you come up with will determine the estimate.

It's all about understanding and compromise. You know what you want, you know how much your husband-to-be, and even you can afford. If you can afford to spend millions then nmaka why, go ahead. If not then you know what your budget will be. It's not hard.

Abeg we are the ones complicating issues for ourselves.

tosyne2much:
The advantage of court marriage over church marriage is that it legally binds you by law. Church marriage on the other hand only binds you spiritually

najaka:
Low key ooo

wristbangle:


You have spoken your mind and I like how you came out bluntly unlike those pretending here but unfortunately it would be difficult to meet the financial standard in this economic quagmire of recent, most especially from guys but I like the clause you mentioned that you will "soak garri in honeymoon" you had better key to that after the wedding spending which was stated in ur comment

Tahrah:
Here to read comments.

dayo2me:
and you don't want to be bound spiritually to that lady but you can be bound on the legal ground of law which make it easy to dissolve your marriage on "a just a little misunderstanding" which on the other hand could be resolved spirit-wise , lolz!

VargasVee:
All these 100 people Max, I hope the wedding won't be in Nigeria.


80% of Nigerians are the nosiest people ever, even when not invited, they'll still storm there. Most of them even bring along their ancestors

funmisticqueen:
Thank you, but i said that i will achieve all this WITHOUT soaking garri in the honeymoon and marriage.

funmisticqueen:
My white wedding, 300 people, 150 from each side, i will rent a wedding gown or design myself. For the white wedding reception, 2 million should cover it maximum, 2.5 million, for court just me and my bae, like 200k should cover it. For traditional too, also 300 people mostly family and friends, 2 million should cover it. This is my minimum standard, we will both achieve this without any wahala after or soaking garri during honeymoon. I am hustling, you had better be set..

JeffreyJamez:


NA una worse!!!... especially those of una from Anambra, una dey like show unaselves lol

wristbangle:


Okay m'am, guess I did not get the statement well. It's achievable, it's all about projection. What you see is what you will get.

vingeophysicist:
i guess u are a kid

tosyne2much:
The advantage of court marriage over church marriage is that it legally binds you by law. Church marriage on the other hand only binds you spiritually

Toks2008:


So many misconceptions. ..

Church marriage was never mentioned in the bible likewise was traditional marriage....the only marriage recognized by the bible is marriage according to the laws of the land which is registry so the only wedding that truly binds spiritually is registry wedding....quote me anywhere.

Toks2008:


So many misconceptions. ..

Church marriage was never mentioned in the bible likewise was traditional marriage....the only marriage recognized by the bible is marriage according to the laws of the land which is registry so the only wedding that truly binds spiritually is registry wedding....quote me anywhere.