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Lionessza:
This is something that young girls are taught from a young age in some societies . Many times young women will act out what they see in their societies same as guys. Now this responsibility of grooming these kids especially the girls lies with parents especially the mother. They should be taught independence not looking at men as meal tickets or as a way to get rich without working. When that mindset is instilled from a young age that she can take care of herself, she can buy herself the nicest car and live in the best neighborhood all on her own. The moment she leaves home for varsity, those dreams and ambitions are in her head and nothing can shake them. These are the type of girls who will have pride and fight for the best results at school instead of chasing after the rich campus boys and will finish their degrees in time and pursue their careers to have that car and that nice apartment.

My point ; planting the seed of independence from a young age helps a lot.

Thank you very much

Asorockqueen:
Thank you very much

Pleasure hun.

Asorockqueen:
Excuse me sister hope you are not referring to me, I just said the plain truth, I even thought you could understand it better

Don't you know that the truth hurts some people on cyberspace?.

Benita27:
Don't you know that the truth hurts some people on cyberspace?.

Hmmm, You are right, It's obvious

Asorockqueen:
Hmmm, You are right, It's obvious

It's only a lady who isn't career oriented that'd fault what you said. Lionessza said it all.

Benita27:
It's only a lady who isn't career oriented that'd fault what you said. Lionessza said it all.

Yeah she said nothing but the truth, Only d wise ones would learn

At least broke guys could have some moments of respite.


phew.

Fadiga24:
At least broke guys could have some moments of respite.


phew.

A lady doesn't have the rights to call a guy broke if she herself has nothing doing

Asorockqueen:
A lady doesn't have the rights to call a guy broke if she herself has nothing doing

Good lawd, where did they get you from?

Fadiga24:
Lawd where did they get you from?

The same place you were gotten from, Would soon deactivate, I just wanted to pass a message to some ladies, Am happy for the one that understood it

Asorockqueen:
The same place you were gotten from, Would soon deactivate, I just wanted to pass a message to some ladies, Am happy for the one that understood it

No p, rock on

Asorockqueen:
Excuse me sister hope you are not referring to me, I just said the plain truth, I even thought you could understand it better

Sister mine, I do understand you. This ain't new, we do this shii everyday. Just kip it real and make sure you practice wah you preach.

Blackhawk03:
Sister mine, I do understand you. This ain't new, we do this shii everyday. Just kip it real and make sure you practice wah you preach.

If am not practicing it, will I post it??

Asorockqueen:
If am not practicing it, will I post it??

I wouldn't know. Some will do anything for attention.

Precial419:
Am nt against being a career woman bt while doing, kip it on a low key if u ever want to get married in nigeria. Nigeria men n insecurities, if u r independent u r a slayqueen if u r dependent, u r a slayqueen. Wonder wat dey want

I can't speak for every man but I love independent women.. Unfortunately most become cocky and unnecessarily proud.... Independent women are smart ... You dont expect me to marry a bossy lady as a wife.... One has to be submissive in the house and that wouldn't be me....



Now you see why most men never settle for independent women .. Slay queens are good for show off only in a relationship .. Not for marriage... Ironically, Nigeria slay queens are different from the world's definition. Nigeria Slay Queen are usually dumb and concerned only about their bodies and pictures

Blackhawk03:
I wouldn't know. Some will do anything for attention.

Yeah I do see them, Planning to deactivate, will just be a reader

Asorockqueen:
Yeah I do see them, Planning to deactivate, will just be a reader

Nahhhh, you mustn't deactivate. Lerruz cus trouble and chop bans together.

Asorockqueen:
A lady doesn't have the rights to call a guy broke if she herself has nothing doing

God bless u for dis statement..

boiz2men:
I can't speak for every man but I love independent women.. Unfortunately most become cocky and unnecessarily proud.... Independent women are smart ... You dont expect me to marry a bossy lady as a wife.... One has to be submissive in the house and that wouldn't be me....



Now you see why most men never settle for independent women .. Slay queens are good for show off only in a relationship .. Not for marriage... Ironically, Nigeria slay queens are different from the world's definition. Nigeria Slay Queen are usually dumb and concerned only about their bodies and pictures

Marrying a slay queen is like walkin on a coal mine, get ready to b blown to pieces only dat it wld nt b once. If u meet a gud woman treat her well.

Blackhawk03:
Nahhhh, you mustn't deactivate. Lerruz cus trouble and chop bans together.

Hahahaha, Not at all oo

Precial419:
Marrying a slay queen is like walkin on a coal mine, get ready to b blown to pieces only dat it wld nt b once. If u meet a gud woman treat her well.

You are right.


Speaking of a good woman and treating her right..
Here's a short story

My colleague got his job through his gf...



Here's the gist.. Dude applied for a job. He was wanted for an interview but his number didn't go through.. Fortunately for him, they called one of his referee which happened to b his gf... The gf tried reaching him to no avail.. She then went for the interview cos that day was the interview date... She pleaded that her bf couldn't be reached.. That she could stand in for him... Luckily, she was able to convince them and he was taken..




These women are hard to find..... Life is so unfair..
The people who need these good women don't find them.


The bitter part to that story is that they are no longer together... I almost slapped him for breaking up with her..

Such a good Lady

boiz2men:
You are right.


Speaking of a good woman and treating her right..
Here's a short story

My colleague got his job through his gf...



Here's the gist.. Dude applied for a job. He was wanted for an interview but his number didn't go through.. Fortunately for him, they called one of his referee which happened to b his gf... The gf tried reaching him to no avail.. She then went for the interview cos that day was the interview date... She pleaded that her bf couldn't be reached.. That she could stand in for him... Luckily, she was able to convince them and he was taken..




These women are hard to find..... Life is so unfair..
The people who need these good women don't find them.


The bitter part to that story is that they are no longer together... I almost slapped him for breaking up with her..

Such a good Lady

Dat is y nt jux girls bt also boys dnt commit deir all 2 re/ship dese days.

Elcuba:
Lady Gaga said that?
After banging and sucking dicks to get to the top.
Interesting!

Savage!

shinarlaura:
You're very correct.

To me my career is my first husband

Wow pretty.

Fadiga24:
At least broke guys could have some moments of respite.


phew.

this is change