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Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Safiaa(f): 10:10am On Apr 15, 2017
I know most men will be triggered by the title of this thread, without reading what i have to say. I really couldn't care less lol. This thread is directed to the ladies !!!


Now ladies, i'm not encouraging you to be lazy gold diggers with no ambition. I'm not encouraging you to use a man entirely for his money. Get your education, work hard and make something of yourself. Strive to be successful. HOWEVER....

Don't be lured into what we call 'ride or die'. A lot of men are deluded by their unrealistic dreams and goals, and believe they can sell you that dream. They'll tell you that they want to do this and that, but they never work towards achieving their goals. I call them empty vessels. Its really sad, because I've seen so many women waste their youth on men who sold them a dream, and end up suffering for the rest of their lives. There's a difference between a broke man with a vision, and a broke man with a fantasy. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO. This is not Bonnie and Clyde, this is the real world, and if you can clearly see that this man is destined to be broke, RUNN!

As a woman, you need to use your YOUTH and BEAUTY to attract the best man who is financially stable as possible. This is not gold digging this is being SMART. Think about your children, think about your future. You don't want to be in your 30's wishing that you spent your younger years with another man. Money is very IMPORTANT in a relationship, and you need to be with someone who will compliment your finances.

Stop making excuses for men, who clearly don't have plans. Stop trying to be the ride or die chick, because you will die in poverty. Yes, we know that women can be the breadwinners of the house, But i can assure you that most women want to be taken care of. If you want to struggle with him now, open your eyes and be sure that you will NOT struggle with him FOREVER.

LADIES BE SMART, YOU'RE ONLY YOUNG ONCE! USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE.

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by kushercain: 10:14am On Apr 15, 2017
Any woman who grinds with me from the start can NEVER be compared to someone who appeared when the things where smooth!
Keep on running you hear! May 'had I known...' Not be ur portion

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by ikp120(m): 10:15am On Apr 15, 2017
Na wa for these cheap babes everywhere. Na this type we dey use for rituals. sad sad

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by prettyesther20: 10:17am On Apr 15, 2017
Lol op get ready...



They are coming for u grin

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Smellymouth: 10:17am On Apr 15, 2017
Ok o

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Safiaa(f): 10:19am On Apr 15, 2017
Of course, im not expecting anything less.
Because they obviously fit into that category of what I'm talking about. So it hits them. cheesy
prettyesther20:
Lol op get ready...




They are coming for u grin

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 10:20am On Apr 15, 2017
Say no to broke ladies, Guys be smart!! cheesy

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Safiaa(f): 10:20am On Apr 15, 2017
PLEASE LEARN TO COMPREHEND BEFORE WRITING YOUR OPINIONS ON THIS THREAD. READING IS KEY!

THERES NOTHING WRONG IN FEMALES BEING WITH A GUY THAT IS STRUGGLING. AS LONG AS HE HAS GOT A VISION AND IS WORKING TOWARDS DOING SOMETHING. YOU CAN'T BE SELLING A FAKE DREAM TO SOMEONE, AND EXPECT THEM TO STAY.

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Paulpaulpaul(m): 10:20am On Apr 15, 2017
ikp120:
Na wa for these cheap babes everywhere. Na this type we dey use for rituals. sad sad
Hahahahahahahahahah



Heheheheheherre




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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by ikp120(m): 10:21am On Apr 15, 2017
Safiaa:
Of course, im not expecting anything less.
Because they obviously fit into that category of what I'm talking about. So it's hits them. cheesy

Even your English is "broke" beyond repairs. Hehehehehe grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 10:21am On Apr 15, 2017
Safiaa:
PLEASE LEARN TO COMPREHEND BEFORE WRITING YOUR OPINIONS ON THIS THREAD. READING IS KEY!

We don't need to read or comprehend.


The caption alone is okay.

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Safiaa(f): 10:24am On Apr 15, 2017
It was a typo, don't be dumb pleaseundecided
ikp120:


Even your English is "broke" beyond repairs. Hehehehehe grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by modelsms(m): 10:26am On Apr 15, 2017
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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 10:31am On Apr 15, 2017
Y'all be looking for already made guys, good for you though, remember guys no longer want liabilities too.

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by ifex370(m): 10:33am On Apr 15, 2017
I don't even go after broke girls.. I don't need a leech in my life

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Safiaa(f): 10:34am On Apr 15, 2017
I knew that they'll be guys who refuse to read, but will just jump to conclusion. I also stated that women should be successful in their own fields.

space007:
Y'all be looking for already made guys, good for you though, remember guys no longer want liabilitie crys too.

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Safiaa(f): 10:36am On Apr 15, 2017
I agree too undecided undecided

Lalasticlala..mynd44
Santi69:
Say no to broke ladies, Guys be smart!! cheesy

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 10:49am On Apr 15, 2017
Safiaa:
I knew that they'll be guys who refuse to read, but will just jump to conclusion. I also stated that women should be successful in their own fields.

I never wrote anything on the contrary... I wrote remember guys don't want liabilities too aren't we saying same thing?

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by DozieInc(m): 10:50am On Apr 15, 2017
OP well written, it's your opinion though. hope you write on financial independence for the ladies sometime in the future smiley

To the gentlemen in the house: avoid desperate ladies and those that don't believe in you/ your dreams wink

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by FelixFelicis(m): 10:59am On Apr 15, 2017
Smh, don't marry broke guy don't marry broke guy, you know what? Go back to some 20 years ago and warn your mother undecided angry you're obviously venting on your dad's incapability to provide you the luxury you didn't work for or need.

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by nelson7777: 11:00am On Apr 15, 2017
one of d richest man hv ever met, hs 5 grown kids with just one woman, n they just got married last year, because there was no money since d man was broke as f.
d oldest daughter is 24..
he did his birthday last month n 2face idibia and patoranking came..


my guy a jobless broke ass guy always going to play table tennis evryday cos of no job, and always wit a girl dat makes hair n people were always laughing wat does she see in him,
d guy nw works 4 rano oil, bought n fj cruiser on Saturday n we celebrated his success on sunday
it was held in d same club/ resturant were he always go to play tennis n d whole club was shutdown 4 his sake... on Friday we are going to buy a small toyota matrix 4 d girl friend, its gonna b a surprise...

u shud nt b advising a girl to chase money but love trust me evn though d marriage jst last i yr, she will knw dat she pursued wat she wants n lived...

my friend edith in d university who married a very rich dude has always bin calling crying everyday dat she cannot kiss her husband since they got married cos she dosn't feel attracted to him, it makes her irriteated.. she said her sexual life is just a duty not in anyway passionate, even though d man has a very big thing..
she wants her husband to relocate 4rm their estate to students environment in awka, telling him, she wants to b close to her mother in d village, but she told me is a lie dat she wants to get close to young university guys b4 she dies of unpassionate sex...

a word is enough 4 d wise
d rich also cry

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Smellymouth: 11:05am On Apr 15, 2017
Santi69:
Say no to broke ladies, Guys be smart!! cheesy

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 11:10am On Apr 15, 2017
lipsrsealed

Say no to lazy, unambitious,dumb guys. In fact no be vision we go chop! Say no to jobless broke guys!!! . I can't feed myself and a grown ass undecided

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Safiaa(f): 11:14am On Apr 15, 2017
At the end of the day, a guy who has a vision and who is working hard to be successful will not be offended by what I've said. The lazy, unambitious boys will vent their anger out of frustration. Empty vessels make the loudest noise. Only a matured level headed man will understand where I'm coming from. That's the painful truth.

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by FelixFelicis(m): 11:17am On Apr 15, 2017
Only an immature person will reason with you, you don't even know that vision + work isn't guaranteed success. Oluwa ni shola undecided

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Alphamale2017(m): 11:17am On Apr 15, 2017
the only reason am not going to argue with you is because if this part of your write up.

''. There's a difference between a broke man with a vision, and a broke man with a fantasy. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO. "

you didn't completed rule out dating a broke guy in your write but you did in your post title .

have u seen E-money's throwback pix ??

i bet thousands of woman will still like to marry bishop David oyedepo today and become the 700th wife , sure . because they want to ride in a private jet and live in the best houses .

but I bet you 98th of those woman would have passed up the chance to get married to him over 30years ago when he was driving a bike .

what of mark zuckerburg ? he didn't come from a billionaire family either . but today he is among the top 35 richest people in the world at such a young age .

ladies if you see that ur man has got a dream and makes concrete plans to achieve them and your instincts tells you he will succeed then stick around .

money is important yes. but life is not a one way traffic . at least stay for a while and see if they materialise .
who knows , you may become the celebrated wife of a public figure and a celebrated achiever .
Gracias

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 11:18am On Apr 15, 2017
Na so Mama Kelechi sit with vision, twenty years later ordinary mirror them no get. Abegii undecided

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Venom247: 11:19am On Apr 15, 2017
broke guys full this thread. grin

On a serious note, it's nothing but a waste of time dating a guy who doesn't have the financial ability to take care of you. Every woman deserves the Queen's treatment. Guys, double your hustle and stop looking for girls who will stay with you in your broke state.

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by FelixFelicis(m): 11:20am On Apr 15, 2017
Forget about men, if you're so keened ladies work hard, be a millionaire, wed any guy of your choice, and keep working hard, you won't have to worried about a broke guy/husband. Nothing stops you from making your own bed madam, make your money

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Frolic: 11:20am On Apr 15, 2017
Alphamale2017:
the only reason am not going to argue with you is because if this part of your write up.

''. There's a difference between a broke man with a vision, and a broke man with a fantasy. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO. "

you didn't completed rule out dating a broke guy in your write but you did in your post title .

have u seen E-money's throwback pix ??

i bet thousands of woman will still like to marry bishop David oyedepo today and become the 700th wife , sure . because they want to ride in a private jet and live in the best houses .

but I bet you 98th of those woman would have passed up the chance to get married to him over 30years ago when he was driving a bike .

what of mark zuckerburg ? he didn't come from a billionaire family either . but today he is among the top 35 richest people in the world at such a young age .

ladies if you see that ur man has got a dream and makes concrete plans to achieve them and your instincts tells you he will succeed then stick around .

money is important yes. but life is not a one way traffic . at least stay for a while and see if they materialise .
who knows , you may become the celebrated wife of a public figure and a celebrated achiever .
Gracias

and not everybody hustling with a very bright plan and vision end up being a Mark zuckerbag or what have you. He might even end up being poorer than he's they should note. ..

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by FelixFelicis(m): 11:23am On Apr 15, 2017
Frolic:
and not everybody hustling with a very bright plan and vision end up being a Mark zuckerbag or what have you. He might even end up being poorer than he's they should note. ..
Just what I'm insinuating, work no be money, so many forces are involved in attaching wealth to an individual.

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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Safiaa(f): 11:23am On Apr 15, 2017
Excuses, excuses and more excuses. In some cases yes, But 90% of the time it does. Your definition of success may be different to mine. Successful doesn't necessarily mean ranking in millions. Being comfortable and achieving your goals in life is what it means to me .
FelixFelicis:
Only an immature person will reason with you, you don't even know that vision + work isn't guaranteed success. Oluwa ni shola undecided

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