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Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by dingbang(m): 5:56am On Jul 20, 2017
Is she worth my liking?,
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by Viking007(m): 5:58am On Jul 20, 2017
Qyubee:
Introverted folks like me v ds kind of experience plenty....i didn't waste tym with my wife tho...dropped it like it's hot grin
cheesy
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by stanisbaratheon: 5:59am On Jul 20, 2017
Inanna:
My advise to guys, if you like any girl, no matter how out of your league you think she is, TELL her! If you think she's too hot or too cool for you, please tell her still. You can't just tell, She might like you back. Even if she looks so mean and unapproachable, she might be the nicest person ever if you go talk to her. Even if she doesn't like you in that way, at least you were able to air your feelings to her. A big load off your chest and you won't spend the rest of eternity wondering what could have been. Lol.

Like one foolish guy that I might just have a crush on and I KNOW he likes me back because he's always staring at me . I just don't know why the goat hasn't yet gathered the courage to approach me. I might not look like the nicest person, but it doesn't matter, just a simple hello and he'd discover I'm the nicest person to talk to. He might just be missing a great opportunity...
hmmm.........
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by LePrezident(m): 6:01am On Jul 20, 2017
Inanna:
My advise to guys, if you like any girl, no matter how out of your league you think she is, TELL her! If you think she's too hot or too cool for you, please tell her still. You can't just tell, She might like you back. Even if she looks so mean and unapproachable, she might be the nicest person ever if you go talk to her. Even if she doesn't like you in that way, at least you were able to air your feelings to her. A big load off your chest and you won't spend the rest of eternity wondering what could have been. Lol.

Like one foolish guy that I might just have a crush on and I KNOW he likes me back because he's always staring at me . I just don't know why the goat hasn't yet gathered the courage to approach me. I might not look like the nicest person, but it doesn't matter, just a simple hello and he'd discover I'm the nicest person to talk to. He might just be missing a great opportunity...

Is it me you're referring to? angry
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by drnoel: 6:02am On Jul 20, 2017
Stevengerd:
I Came Home From School, Last Year June To Be Precise, As A Guy I No Fit Stay At Home. So I Decided To Learn Something New So I Enrolled At a Computer Institute In My Area To Add To What I Have On Ground.

There Is This Pretty Damsel, Very Neat At The School, I Didnt Notice Her When I Started, Bt As The Program Was Going We Started Talking. She Told Me About Herself, Her School/ Course [ Imo State Uni, Medical Lab Tech]. We Exchange Numbers, We Started Talking.

So On This Particular Day On A Friday, After The Whole Lectures We Talked For Length. I Was About Telling Her I Have Feeling For Her, When She Me Told Me She'll Going Back To Imo State On Sunday Since The Strike Has Been Called Off, That She Only Came To See Her Aunty... When I Heard All She Said, Kon See As I Dey "Sweat".

Tears Nearly Commot From My Eyes, I Just Manup Life Goes On. Moral: If You Have Feelings For Anyone. Speak Out Don't Let Anything Hold You Down.

The one that got away. Ur description wasn't it. Besides when u get older u will know its not everytime u feel the argue that u act on it
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by Viking007(m): 6:03am On Jul 20, 2017
DanXplore:
very well. My secondary school crush. I was just too timid, gosh!

This girl rejected most of the guys that came to her but for some reasons, i felt some kind of strong vibes oscillating periodically between us. whenever we catch glances, she just smiles...i mean, i could see the glow that resulted from the involuntry expansion of her facial muscles and the dilation of the surrounding blood vessels. Towards graduation, she told me with what appears to me utmost sincerity that she hoped to see me again but the guy typing this post was just to timid and dumb to see through this green light that was greener than the Nigerian flag!

It didnt end after grad. She called me twice and i never returned the call not because i was a snub, but because i was a complete Raj Koothrapali when it comes to this lady. I wished i could cut open my brain at such instances and introduce electric sparks to jump start my cerebullum because the region responsible for speech just freezes without warning. I am a natural introvert, but this lady's aura made me atleast 10 times as much introverted as i already was. aswear she made me worse. As i am typing this, i am also scratching my head in regret. It is 10years now and she is a medical doctor, rounding up nysc this year. It was difficult for the person i see in my mirror to get this lady off his mind. Damn it! love could be a terrible thing
This is just the complete story of any introvert. It's just sad that I'm going through this exact thing at work. sad

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Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by Nobody: 6:08am On Jul 20, 2017
fastgyal:
Not just guys, even I as a lady. Let me be sincere, there are guys I admire and silently wished to be wooed by them.Most times I try to initiate the conversation. its just a pity that when ladies make the move first, they're tagged as being cheap or desperate.

That freaking beautiful picture over there was uploaded on my birthday so I deserve a gift from you for that!
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by Khodorkovsky(m): 6:11am On Jul 20, 2017
I remember when I was still in level 3 of high school , there was this girl also in level 3 of another high school , that time tho (if there was an award for the most shy person , I would surely grab it). I wasn't really interested in girls that time tho , just view them as the opposite sex , so the girl named Melina , I always noticed every time I pass her school , she just started greeting me all of a sudden daily , I was like wow `cute lass like this ` , my shyness was just increasing that sometimes I change routes , so there was this day I was heading to a WWE morning training tour , I saw the girl hanging out alone somewhere in an eatery , she invited me , we talked , from the way she striked a convo with me , I knew she was in love , but my shy brain could not decode the feelings .
She started inviting me for outings , even her karate training , my shyness never made me pass that road again ,usually talk to her through my friend (Marquiz) , I never had a direct contact since that day with her again .
It reached a point marquiz started telling me that the girl loves me that am the one trying to black out , ( I think shyness has a spirit that can demonize someone ) I told marquiz that let her be on her own , that I don't love her , not interested in her ( whereas I love her very well)
Fast toward , I think girl got angry with me and cut of all friendly ties .
When I reached level 6 , I saw this girl at stop and shop grocery store , man , this girl was damn cute , my shyness entered me again but it was useless , girl just snubbed and ignored me as if I was not there , tears nearly came out that day . that was the last time I saw her till I left God`s own country.

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Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by mikejj(m): 6:12am On Jul 20, 2017
na xrious truth bro.d problem is the fear of not accepting is the cause.
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by Viking007(m): 6:13am On Jul 20, 2017
ncoolsome:


we boys for nairaland suppose gather beat u...even if u dey stammer atleast u for talk am anyhow..
cheesy
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by Nobody: 6:21am On Jul 20, 2017
Yormit442:
sure,u were with the lady for just few weeks.My own case is so funny I was unable to express my feeling to a level mate through out my stay in the University 100l -500l
Damn! are you serious? I don't think there's any girl I had feelings for that I've never informed. in fact I hate telling them on phone or social media.. I always do it eyeballs to eyeballs even though I'm an introvert.

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Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by EmekaBlue(m): 6:22am On Jul 20, 2017
wht r u writing undecided but u still have her num..i dnt think its late. #NeverTooLate
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by Pylony(m): 6:25am On Jul 20, 2017
It's indeed full of regrets when you look back memory lane, many ladies one after the other, whom i would have just grip the courage to express the matters of the heart now feels like an experience with falling mates on a battle field, but believe me, my first Love and now ex makes the first moves, which i always respect her for that, just that things fall apart btw us along the way.

It's a fact, and many Introverts will agree with me, that we prefer and have more guts expressing our feelings first through virtual relationship which is now possible with the coming of GSM and Social sites via the Internet etc. Than you coming face to face with a lady, which feels like having a raising B.P (BLOOD PRESSURE) when you lost your speech lolz grin. Now adays, you just get her contact, with time you express your feelings, get to know each other better and the rest is history no wahala jare. angry

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Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by TrumpDonald2: 6:26am On Jul 20, 2017
fastgyal:
Not just guys, even I as a lady. Let me be sincere, there are guys I admire and silently wished to be wooed by them.Most times I try to initiate the conversation. its just a pity that when ladies make the move first, they're tagged as being cheap or desperate.

Yea, I really feel for you ladies on this. I know it definitely hurts.
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by Pylony(m): 6:27am On Jul 20, 2017
YOUNGSTUNNA:

Damn! are you serious? I don't think there's any girl I had feelings for that I've never informed. in fact I hate telling them on phone or social media.. I always do it eyeballs to eyeballs even though I'm an introvert.

Guy introvert got category oo. grin
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by femi4: 6:31am On Jul 20, 2017
We were so close, in fact people already tagged us husband and wife.

But I just didn't know how to open my mouth and express my feelings. The day I eventually did, she told me it was too late that she waited for me for almost a yr but I didn't say anything. She was no longer available, it was a painful experience

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Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by whytepawn1(m): 6:33am On Jul 20, 2017
we've all been there.
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by EmekaBlue(m): 6:34am On Jul 20, 2017
Inanna:
lol I'm not dying in silence, it's never that serious and there are many fish in the pond. #FlipsHair
I'm not showing any kind of light, it's who I am. Let him come and talk to me first, just friendly chit chat first and then I'll know what to do from there.
Reading this u wrote,makes me feel like i should start talking to all the girls around me... I dnt know if one, is waiting for me like u r waiting fr him.
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by ugofab: 6:36am On Jul 20, 2017
if you love somebody walk up to her and tell am you love am oooo
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by femi4: 6:36am On Jul 20, 2017
Inanna:
My advise to guys, if you like any girl, no matter how out of your league you think she is, TELL her! If you think she's too hot or too cool for you, please tell her still. You can't just tell, She might like you back. Even if she looks so mean and unapproachable, she might be the nicest person ever if you go talk to her. Even if she doesn't like you in that way, at least you were able to air your feelings to her. A big load off your chest and you won't spend the rest of eternity wondering what could have been. Lol.

Like one foolish guy that I might just have a crush on and I KNOW he likes me back because he's always staring at me . I just don't know why the goat hasn't yet gathered the courage to approach me. I might not look like the nicest person, but it doesn't matter, just a simple hello and he'd discover I'm the nicest person to talk to. He might just be missing a great opportunity...
Most time guys assumed a lot. "She's too sophisticated to be single. I don't think she's available"

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Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by Martinez19(m): 6:37am On Jul 20, 2017
Inanna:
My advise to guys, if you like any girl, no matter how out of your league you think she is, TELL her! If you think she's too hot or too cool for you, please tell her still. You can't just tell, She might like you back. Even if she looks so mean and unapproachable, she might be the nicest person ever if you go talk to her. Even if she doesn't like you in that way, at least you were able to air your feelings to her. A big load off your chest and you won't spend the rest of eternity wondering what could have been. Lol.

Like one foolish guy that I might just have a crush on and I KNOW he likes me back because he's always staring at me . I just don't know why the goat hasn't yet gathered the courage to approach me. I might not look like the nicest person, but it doesn't matter, just a simple hello and he'd discover I'm the nicest person to talk to. He might just be missing a great opportunity...
the guy na goat?

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Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by Nobody: 6:44am On Jul 20, 2017
Viking007:
This is just the complete story of any introvert. It's just sad that I'm going through this exact thing at work. sad

It is just too sad. Bros, try and make a move else you'll come back to nairaland and vent something similar to what i am venting. grin

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Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by Nobody: 6:46am On Jul 20, 2017
Lillpo:
wow, you're such a good writer.... Though ur story is quite unique but ur writing captivated me... kudos

oh thanks!

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Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by Angy55(f): 6:46am On Jul 20, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked
Fortunately I speak body language with girls..
Trust my preek to always say his feelings. If I like you, it stands like Mount Kilimanjaro instantly.
That way you know it is straight to business...no long thing. Just open your leg and I plug and play.
Who feelings don epp?


Afterall the Kalabaris have a proverb that says. 'Na on top bed "I love you, I love you" dey end.'
So pathetic. The girl when break your heart no try at all.

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Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by Nobody: 6:48am On Jul 20, 2017
Effiezynews:


Mumu, call her... 100kg of brain fall on you..

mehn, its been long. i cant call her again na. i had my chance since but i blew it.

seriously, I never disagree with anyone that calls me mumu. I actually am one grin grin
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by Nobody: 6:49am On Jul 20, 2017
OLUJOSHINS:


Lmao

The koothrapali effect.
I tell u. It seriously killed me

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Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by imstillnovice: 6:49am On Jul 20, 2017
ruggedtimi:
I only regretted not asking for her control undecided
Her control number ? What if she's not available for pickup ? pun intended
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by Nobody: 6:52am On Jul 20, 2017
dairykidd:

10 yrs later.. Stop regretting and just initiate the first move,she most definitely has a guy but all the same do it for closure sake. Even if it means traveling long distances... But u self cheesy

Trust me, it would be very awkward should i initiate a move now. I lost my chance when i had it but nevertheless, the lesson was learnt

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Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by sinistermind(m): 6:53am On Jul 20, 2017
fastgyal:
Not just guys, even I as a lady. Let me be sincere, there are guys I admire and silently wished to be wooed by them.Most times I try to initiate the conversation. its just a pity that when ladies make the move first, they're tagged as being cheap or desperate.

I won't mind wooing you right now
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by Chukabiz1961(m): 6:54am On Jul 20, 2017
Addicted2Women:

No, I don't regret not expressing my feelings or decisions i make when it comes to women, sometimes it turns out to be tragedy/misfortune avarted

Last time i checked there are millions of other good and hard working girls left i can choose from

I only regret business or investment decisions

There are millions of good girls to choose from but there are no businesses or in vestments to choose from when you miss one
I will comment on this wise one after many days of break because of some kids that don't want someone to quote them on social media. You are 100% on point.
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by yahmohy27: 6:59am On Jul 20, 2017
pocohantas:

I like you too, what next? cheesy


Naso una dey take marry fine girl with zero home training. Look beyond the physical embarassed
Oshe !
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by YelloweWest: 7:00am On Jul 20, 2017
Addicted2Women:

No, I don't regret not expressing my feelings or decisions i make when it comes to women, sometimes it turns out to be tragedy/misfortune avarted

Last time i checked there are millions of other good and hard working girls left i can choose from

I only regret business or investment decisions

There are millions of good girls to choose from but there are no businesses or in vestments to choose from when you miss one
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