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Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 9:57am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: Walk away, after she said no sex to you. She gave it up for someone else, meaning she didn't love you enough. Now she has run out of option she fell back to you. This is what I tell guys if a girl loves you she will do almost everything to see you happy. Girls let their guards down for the ones they truly love. 12 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by AmakaJoycee(f): 9:58am On Jul 22, 2017 |
The stillbirth might be her reason for not involving in pre marital sex again,if u truly love her i see no reason for not going ahead to marry her!no one is perfect,good luck |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 9:58am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Op First:She had a stillbirth,be certain to confirm her health status b4 marriage,b4 u give ursef problem leta Secondly:I think she was lying,just pulling ur legs to see what u will do Thirdly:If it is true,sit down n tell her u are disappointed n angry,y did she refuse u sex but gave it to another,were u here backup choice Finally: Marry her,from wat am reading u are also at fault,wife materials are hard to find nowadays,but if I were u,kip dating her 4 d next 1-2yrs,pull d devil out of her n find out hu she really is 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by kennyflakky: 9:58am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Bro if you still love her, take her to the altar. We all have our past,and to move on we have to do away with it. From your write up,you guys are destined to marry one another. Forget about the sex issue. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by almarthins(m): 9:59am On Jul 22, 2017 |
This one na draw draw match na. Abeg marry am because she told u, what if u come discover after marrying her nko? U go jump fenses |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by DMerciful(m): 9:59am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Virgin ko...dont you know if a woman does not have sex for a long time ,sex after that seems she's a virgin due to tightness Mrkumareze: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Jelal0007(m): 9:59am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Sterope:What's wrong with this childish n!twit throwing tantrums upandan here? Grow up joor. If any1 is a hypocrite here,its u n d b!tch he described in his post. B!tches who form holy but are freaks in bed with other men....!!! 7 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Brugo(m): 10:00am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Sex with her neighbor, sex with another man... na wa. Both of you love cheating. You fit each other. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by kadupee(m): 10:00am On Jul 22, 2017 |
No concern me o 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by 1daboi: 10:01am On Jul 22, 2017 |
I might be wrong but I think she didn't find you so attractive as to sleep with you then. Be sure she loves you and finds you attractive(sexually) before committing yourself to Marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by pattybf(f): 10:02am On Jul 22, 2017 |
U r not in d position to judge her! Personally, I think u r not even a husband material, judging from ur several sex escapeds! |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Jelal0007(m): 10:02am On Jul 22, 2017 |
teresafaith:The m0r0n here is U,stup!d. Why was she was she forming holier than thou when she was bang!ng some other dude,even got pregnant 4 him too. Can't ur brain interpret this simple issue? Both of them aren't straight in this matter. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by ritababe(f): 10:02am On Jul 22, 2017 |
cococandy: oh well from Adam she denied him of sex claiming Virgin Mary and now she just explode. honestly if am in his shoe I wont take it lightly, we broke up many times because u don't want sex and me on the other hand think u are a Virgin that's why u don't want sex not knowing you've been doing it from my back, so why claim holy all this while? now that she heard marriage she has started confessing. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by chronique(m): 10:02am On Jul 22, 2017 |
I think I understand where you're coming from... You guys were always having issues cos of her refusal to have sex with you, but she was getting the sex somewhere else. I personally wouldn't marry such a person cos I don't like people having double standards and making it difficult to trust them. If we're going to be having sex, let's have it together. Not me having sex outside, you also having sex outside but trying to claim celibate to me... It's a total turn off. Whatever it is, follow your heart. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by hisMrs(f): 10:02am On Jul 22, 2017 |
I can only view this matter from one point. from d beginning when d girl said she doesn't want sex, she was probably still a virgin, naive and scared that's why she denied u sex from genesis. Now, fast forward to when u guys started dating till d point of proposal. it could b that a sharp guy was able to sweet talk her to loose her virginity and along d line while enjoying herself she got pregnant and had a still birth, I believe she denied u sex at dis point because she doesn't wanna make d same mistake over again. I see no reason why this matter should b a topic for discussion on NL and also see no reason as to why u cannot marry her. the fact that u both have started sharing secrets shows u are both bonding well and its a good sign. ......my opinion tho 3 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Actuarydeji(m): 10:02am On Jul 22, 2017 |
You're a goat! You have done same to another person future wife, you can't eat your cake and have it naw. Yeyenatu set of peoples. ... must comes with clean hands.... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by DMerciful(m): 10:03am On Jul 22, 2017 |
You chose not to understand the Op. His worry is she prefers other guys to him sexually. she is with him now as a matter of convenience and not love. Op, use ur head and elongate the relationship to observe more before proposing marriage. rosalieene: 4 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by henrybirthright(m): 10:03am On Jul 22, 2017 |
All things being equal... d gal seems to have a good heart. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Rukky55(f): 10:03am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg:is because she don't want any unwanted pregnancy n she is keeping herself becos she av learnt from her former mistake. 4 a gal to tell u something so deep abt herself guy marry her cos the devil u know is beta dan d angel u don't know. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Jelal0007(m): 10:03am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg:Don't mind the n!twit,she can't understand ur predicament. Her brain isn't programmed 2 understand such issues. 6 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Iseoluwani: 10:03am On Jul 22, 2017 |
madridguy: Did you study psychology or you read novel n books about marriages You are too good |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by StarPlayer: 10:04am On Jul 22, 2017 |
cococandy:Oh puleeeeas!! His body dynamics is different from hers. She has given birth before damn. For me it's definitely a no no. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by RSVP: 10:04am On Jul 22, 2017 |
I think she's wild but very secretive. Be ready to go on sex starve if you marry her. Who am I to tell you whom to marry? I believe everyone has der "dark side" and that doesn't justify der being. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Svelte98(f): 10:05am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: OP, do you even realise that the same sex you insisted on having was what got your girlfriend pregnant, the pregnancy you both aborted. Talk of double standards. You want to have sex, but you don't want to accept the responsibility that comes with it. You'll probably say you weren't in a position to take care of a baby then, its simple; if you weren't/aren't in a comfortable position, then either you don't have sex or you wait till you're comfortable enough to take care of a baby if the sex results to that. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by stjsd(m): 10:05am On Jul 22, 2017 |
. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by madridguy(m): 10:06am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Thanks for the compliment. Iseoluwani: |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by ritababe(f): 10:06am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Sterope: how? so you mean she can have sex with other guys and deny her own boyfriend sex, now when he propose she confess everything meaning she didn't love him initially before. 3 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by DMerciful(m): 10:07am On Jul 22, 2017 |
This is the best advice here Op in my own opinion. It is what it is! Frankyboy1: 5 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nosikebit(m): 10:07am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Op i am very sure it still hurts u dat this girl shared the honey pot to other guys even after all ur attempts and failed .. u two are playing a very dangerous game ... The girls might hv told u this secret just to intentionally hurt u because u slept with her neighbour ...my friend sorry if i sound pessimistic but as a man i can categorically tell you that there is an 80% chance u will throw this girl out of ur life after getting the honey pot. You are not sure about what you want yet if not you wouldnt even open this thread .. i know ur heart is telling u the truth follow it . My advice : have a sexual relationship with her before any decision.. i dont mean just sex o .. just court her properly but sex must be involved 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Jelal0007(m): 10:07am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Inanna:Sharrap there. Deserve kor desire ni. They're both manipulators,if u can't be objective with ur reasoning....STFU 6 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by lindseykibler(m): 10:07am On Jul 22, 2017 |
This is my advice to u. For the fact she opened up to and told u d truth u should be able to marry her cos I believe thats the hardest secret she could ever keep from u and yet she decided to open up to u now. Man use ur brain cos from the write up I belive she's a good girl. 98% of the girls in the world that did the same thing she did can never and I mean it never tell u d truth. I dont even know why u brought this issue here. U don't av to listen to all d stupid advice u get from people here cos I'm 100% sure some of them are married and are going to get married to a LovePeddler. Get brain nd accept her cos she's the type that can make a better home for u. Such ladies are hard to get this days. Only 2% of the girls in the world can tell there man the truth. Man I tell u she's a good wife material, for her to be able to let her biggest secret known to u. Try to protect her secrets and stop messing around like a coward before u lose her. She even gave u reason for doing it and u are here messing around Iike a teenage boy. If u loved her as u claimed u wouldn't av brought this stupid post ere. Be reasonable man nd keep her secrets safe with u. 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by divineRx(f): 10:09am On Jul 22, 2017 |
hmmm na wa |
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