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Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by EmagNig(m): 6:54pm On Jun 16
A Nigerian man has reportedly stopped paying his daughter's school fee after she asked him to wash his dishes after meal.

According to a post updated on social media by Dr. Olusesan, the lady is studying in the United Kingdom and during one of his visits, the daughter asked him to wash his plates by himself.

The mother however has been at loggerhead with her husband over his decision.

Dr. Olusesan wrote:

There's danger, daughters have begin to assimilate this toxicity. It started like a joke, when a Nigerian female student in a UK school, ask her father to wash his plates after meals, during visits. The man has stopped paying her fees, and her mother is saying "men are scum."

While supporting the motion that men should not do dishes in the home, Olusesan wrote that men are saddled with bigger responsibilities of providing for the home and they should not be relegated to do such tasks, except when there is the need to support the woman.

Down d road, doing dishes should become a trivial duty, as men pick up more burden to provide for the family. Except where the woman is over-laboured, excusing a man from chores is a courtesy and honour that will never be properly appreciated in poorly consummated relationships." he wrote

https://lailasnews.com/man-stops-paying-daughters-school-fee-after-she-told-him-to-wash-plates/

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by AntiBrutus: 6:57pm On Jun 16
Poor girl,

She read and took the feminism handbook too serious.

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by QueenSekxy(f): 7:00pm On Jun 16
Feminism bashers food don done. grin

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by BabbanBura(m): 7:00pm On Jun 16
EmagNig:
A Nigerian man has reportedly stopped paying his daughter's school fee after she asked him to wash his dishes after meal.

According to a post updated on social media by Dr. Olusesan, the lady is studying in the United Kingdom and during one of his visits, the daughter asked him to wash his plates by himself.

The mother however has been at loggerhead with her husband over his decision.

Dr. Olusesan wrote:



While supporting the motion that men should not do dishes in the home, Olusesan wrote that men are saddled with bigger responsibilities of providing for the home and they should not be relegated to do such tasks, except when there is the need to support the woman.



https://lailasnews.com/man-stops-paying-daughters-school-fee-after-she-told-him-to-wash-plates/

lalasticlala

Ma kinda Dad! Good one from the Popsy!!

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by SageMK: 7:01pm On Jun 16
Trivia things like domestic duty stand as the epitome of respect to the African man. Take that away and you hurt his ego. I thought worst case scenario was to stone her with slippers but this, not paying her school fees is new.

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by donolatunji(m): 7:02pm On Jun 16
Lol oloribu omo .....owo jona
na God safe am say she dey uk and say her papa no be the beating type....dem for indicate for the news say he tear am like 16slap

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by AntiBrutus: 7:02pm On Jun 16
QueenSekxy:
Feminism bashers food don done. grin

Say no more, they are on their way...

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Thegamingorca(m): 7:05pm On Jun 16
AntiBrutus:
Poor girl,

She read and took the feminism handbook too serious.


Lol

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Lamasta(m): 7:06pm On Jun 16
Men have suffered cool

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by QueenSekxy(f): 7:06pm On Jun 16
AntiBrutus:


Say no more, they are on their way...
grin grin

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Oluromantic(m): 7:07pm On Jun 16
While supporting the motion that men should not do dishes in the home, Olusesan wrote that men are saddled with bigger responsibilities of providing for the home and they should not be relegated to do such tasks, except when there is the need to support the woman.

Down d road, doing dishes should become a trivial duty, as men pick up more burden to provide for the family. Except where the woman is over-laboured, excusing a man from chores is a courtesy and honour that will never be properly appreciated in poorly consummated relationships." he wrote

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by AmazonTopaz: 7:07pm On Jun 16
Silly girl.You wan bite the hand wey dey feed you angry
You go tell your daddy make him wash him plate and the man is still responsible for you and paying your school fees. You nor try at all the least you can do for someone taking care of you is to do things that would make such person happy not challenge them.

Dr. Olusesan wrote:



While supporting the motion that men should not do dishes in the home, Olusesan wrote that men are saddled with bigger responsibilities of providing for the home and they should not be relegated to do such task,except when there is the need to support the woman
What does he mean by this? If the woman is also working nkor her husband should not assist her in the home front. While so self centered you want a wife who would be an asset and help you provide yet you cannot help her domestically

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by LordKO(m): 8:27pm On Jun 16
Her inculcators didn't tell her that equality and liberty don't mean absence of altruism and conscientiousness respectively. Poor kid.

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Regiomontanus(m): 8:48pm On Jun 16
This absolutely ravishes me. This why I always advise women to pay no attention to feminists and respect their men as your fellow feminists will be nowhere to be found when your feminism back fires. Think of the women who lost their marriages and relationships because of feminism, did you see their fellow feminists consoling them and trying to fix things up when sh1t hit the fan?

Why can't you respect your man and do the chores as a stay at home wife? What can you give that will measure up to the responsibility of going out to make money and bearing the financial burden alone? You think it's easy to make money and spend it on others because they call themselves wife and children? The act of making money and bearing the financial burden alone demands respect not the rubbish called feminism.

It's way more easier to be a stay at home wife than to be a husband who bears the financial responsibilities alone. It's not easy for men.

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by truthsayer009(m): 8:55pm On Jun 16
No problem. She can always come back to Ago Iwoye University. OSU. cheesy

She will love it back home.

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Magnoliaa(f): 8:56pm On Jun 16
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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by truthsayer009(m): 8:58pm On Jun 16
AntiBrutus:
Poor girl,

She read and took the feminism handbook too serious.

What would you do in this case if you were the father?

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Omoluabi16(m): 9:00pm On Jun 16
It was only just a matter of time.

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:07pm On Jun 16
This has nothing to do with feminism. This is purely a bad attitude displayed by a spoilt child. She must have got spoilt after relocating to live abroad. Feminism does not encourage females to be disobedient to their parents.
AntiBrutus:
Poor girl,

She read and took the feminism handbook too serious.

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:09pm On Jun 16
Are all married women ''stay at home wives''?
Regiomontanus:
This absolutely ravishes me. This why I always advise women to pay no attention to feminists and respect their men as your fellow feminists will be nowhere to be found when your feminism back fires. Think of the women who lost their marriages and relationships because of feminism, did you see their fellow feminists consoling them and trying to fix things up when sh1t hit the fan?

Why can't you respect your man and do the chores as a stay at home wife? What can you give that will measure up to the responsibility of going out to make money and bearing the financial burden alone? You think it's easy to make money and spend it on others because they call themselves wife and children? The act of making money and bearing the financial burden alone demands respect not the rubbish called feminism.

It's way more easier to be a stay at home wife than to be a husband who bears the financial responsibilities alone. It's not easy for men.



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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Ultimatesammie(m): 9:10pm On Jun 16
Regiomontanus:
This absolutely ravishes me. This why I always advise women to pay no attention to feminists and respect their men as your fellow feminists will be nowhere to be found when your feminism back fires. Think of the women who lost their marriages and relationships because of feminism, did you see their fellow feminists consoling them and trying to fix things up when sh1t hit the fan?

Why can't you respect your man and do the chores as a stay at home wife? What can you give that will measure up to the responsibility of going out to make money and bearing the financial burden alone? You think it's easy to make money and spend it on others because they call themselves wife and children? The act of making money and bearing the financial burden alone demands respect not the rubbish called feminism.

It's way more easier to be a stay at home wife than to be a husband who bears the financial responsibilities alone. It's not easy for men.




And what if the woman works also and she also brings income, how exactly is washing plate a difficult thing to do people should start looking at characteristics of great leaders and see how they do things.
This why most people would be average.

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by bamasite2: 9:31pm On Jun 16
Chai grin

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Regiomontanus(m): 9:31pm On Jun 16
Ultimatesammie:

And what if the woman works also and she also brings income, how exactly is washing plate a difficult thing to do people should start looking at characteristics of great leaders and see how they do things.
This why most people would be average.
If the woman works and brings in then it would depend on how much she is bringing in. If she is bringing in much then she is sharing the financial responsibility and the man should share in the chores to balance things. If she is bringing in chicken change, she should free the man and do the dishes while he hustles with every fabric of his being.

However, for stay at home wives, my post still stands.


Cc. LilMissFavvy

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by philips007(m): 9:32pm On Jun 16
Maybe she smoked weed that day

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Legendguru: 9:33pm On Jun 16
hmm
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by luminouz(m): 9:33pm On Jun 16
Nice one kiss

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Offpoint1: 9:33pm On Jun 16
He's a simple sturv... no long talk.
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by GoldChest: 9:33pm On Jun 16
She's stupid

Serves her right

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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by oshe11: 9:35pm On Jun 16
Wow this Post has changed my perception about life
Thanks For Sharing!!!
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Biglittlelois(f): 9:35pm On Jun 16
Awwwwn, if only she misbehaved after she was done with school, poor kid.

#notofeminism

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