na wa o

Hence you said the relationship is still fresh, I guess you should give it a little time, also make sure you talk to him about it, some guys don't actually like doing much calling, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you, some guys could pretend to love you and give you the kind of attention you seek, then suddenly seize when they get what they want. The problem in this your case is that he doesn't reply your chats nor chat you up.

Lastly, follow your mind, most people you see here who dish out advises have little or no experience, they keep saying "leave him, dump his ass, men are plenty out there, bLa bLa bLa", every relationship has it's up and down, don't be deceived.

adetoroamos:
I don't like calling girls, cos d insult still dey my head when am still on str and my girlfriend then be like am disturbing her with call and up till now if my babe no dey facebook or whatsapp, na sorry be that oo.


Op shebi e dey chat you for whatsapp or facebook ?

no even if he comes online he won't chat me up except I do

commyluv:
yea I talk to him yesterday he said it my duty to be calling nawa ooo, bae I want to stop calling him so I will see his reaction will that be OK?

LMAO @ it's your duty to call. That dude isn't that interested in you. The earlier you realise that the better. Men are everywhere like Johda said. Stop calling him and if he doesn't rise to the occasion dump him.

So because he is dating you, the guy no go breath fresh air again. My friend, get busy with something that can improve your life

Marcelo290:
Hence you said the relationship is still fresh, I guess you should give it a little time, also make sure you talk to him about it, some guys don't actually like doing much calling, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you, some guys could pretend to love you and give you the kind of attention you seek, then suddenly seize when they get what they want. The problem in this your case is that he doesn't reply your chats nor chat you up.

Lastly, follow your mind, most people you see here who dish out advises have little or no experience, they keep saying "leave him, dump his ass, men are plenty out there, bLa bLa bLa", every relationship has it's up and down, don't be deceived.

thanks

Simply get a life sis... chances are you're bored 99.9% of the time and youre merely blaming your bf for not doing something about that too. My own take is that If he washes your plate quite clean enough and in his little way showers you with sweet loving time and time again that you know deep within u he cares, You already have more than enough and this sh!t you're bringing up here is what I just called it.

Wetlink:
So because he is dating you, the guy no go breath fresh air again. My friend, get busy with something that can improve your life

lol am working

it sounds like he doesn't really give shit about, though some guys like me are not just the calling type doesn't mean we don't care, itz not every girl dat likes too much calls anyway..
but if u have complained about it and he says its ur duty to call then forget him, no normal guy will say that to someone they claim to care about.

I tink u are just too forward,the relationship is still fresh.Some ladies tinks its easy to develop real love, it takes time before it realy matured in the heart of a man, if the man is sincere with u.So i urge u to relax take ur time,slow down a litle bit let him get a good reason why he should be wit u,as soon as he did.I believe he wil change.But,u have to agree wit me dat its not al men that call every time of d day,its just their nature,bt wit time he can improve.

ask4cyrra:
sorry for u if u take this advice

Why shouldn't she take my advice... I told her the obvious Truth...

If he doesn't call...it means he doesn't think about her and he doesn't care..

commyluv:
no even if he comes online he won't chat me up except I do

sorry ooo! just let him be, and I hope you haven't invest heavily on him?

Marcelo290:
Hence you said the relationship is still fresh, I guess you should give it a little time, also make sure you talk to him about it, some guys don't actually like doing much calling, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you, some guys could pretend to love you and give you the kind of attention you seek, then suddenly seize when they get what they want. The problem in this your case is that he doesn't reply your chats nor chat you up.

Lastly, follow your mind, most people you see here who dish out advises have little or no experience, they keep saying "leave him, dump his ass, men are plenty out there, bLa bLa bLa", every relationship has it's up and down, don't be deceived.

As usual guys will always defend their selves...

Op I gave yhu a sisterly advice... If yhu like listen ...if yhu like take the advice of a player who's obviously defending a fellow player...nah yhu sabi ...I don tell yhu my own

A guy that has yhu in mind will call atleast once or twice ..a day to check up on yhu...just to show he thinks about yhu ..you're not asking for 24hrs calling...but atleast no matter how busy yhu are if yhu claim yhu love some one yhu should be able to call DAT person to hear from her...

If yhu keep calling him and he senses yhu love him too much or yhu can't do without him... That's where yhur problem..as in real problem will start from..

I've been there ..so I should be in d best place to advice yhu..not a baseless no good Casanova...

Egberi fah ooo..

commyluv:
no even if he comes online he won't chat me up except I do

Can yhu imagine ...yhu better find yhur level b4 it's too late..

Benita27:
LMAO @ it's your duty to call. That dude isn't that interested in you. The earlier you realise that the better. Men are everywhere like Johda said. Stop calling him and if he doesn't rise to the occasion dump him.

GBAM!

Jodha:



GBAM!

The relationship just started and he isn't calling, I wonder what he'll do when the spark isn't there anymore.

Jodha:

As usual guys will always defend their selves...

Op I gave yhu a sisterly advice... If yhu like listen ...if yhu like take the advice of a player who's obviously defending a fellow player...nah yhu sabi ...I don tell yhu my own

A guy that has yhu in mind will call atleast once or twice ..a day to check up on yhu...just to show he thinks about yhu ..you're not asking for 24hrs calling...but atleast no matter how busy yhu are if yhu claim yhu love some one yhu should be able to call DAT person to hear from her...

If yhu keep calling him and he senses yhu love him too much or yhu can't do without him... That's where yhur problem..as in real problem will start from..

I've been there ..so I should be in d best place to advice yhu..not a baseless no good Casanova...

Egberi fah ooo..

thanks dear I appreciate

commyluv:
Accountant but now he his on leave still dey same

Understand the nature of his job

commyluv:
Hi guys

Am dating this guy he said he loves me yes I love him too, but the problem here is he doesn't call first if I don't call him in the morning he won't call, afternoon he wont , except in the evening.

But if he see my miss call he will call me back, I don't understand y he behaves that way have talk to him, am now thinking he doesn't love me .

ladies and gentlemen pls help me out what should I do.

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He still calls at evening tymz and wen he sees your missed calls...
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wow... u should apprc that.. Am freaking worse than him..
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i don't even call..

Jodha:

As usual guys will always defend their selves...

Op I gave yhu a sisterly advice... If yhu like listen ...if yhu like take the advice of a player who's obviously defending a fellow player...nah yhu sabi ...I don tell yhu my own

A guy that has yhu in mind will call atleast once or twice ..a day to check up on yhu...just to show he thinks about yhu ..you're not asking for 24hrs calling...but atleast no matter how busy yhu are if yhu claim yhu love some one yhu should be able to call DAT person to hear from her...

If yhu keep calling him and he senses yhu love him too much or yhu can't do without him... That's where yhur problem..as in real problem will start from..

I've been there ..so I should be in d best place to advice yhu..not a baseless no good Casanova...

Egberi fah ooo..

We've all been there. If she like make she listen.

Jodha:
Lol...if yhu like yhurself do not call him...put on yhur armour of pride...and ignore him until he's ready to be a man...

No be by force ..
Men boku ..dem no scarce..


So if he doesn't call...then I guess he's not interested.. Do not waste yhur airtime to call him..

you better repent befor it gets too late

Stop forcing yourself on him sis,use ur brain.

Op since its a fresh relationship give him some time he may change

I am not the guy, so, I don't know why he's doing that. Talk to him and ask him why. However ,for one, I don't enjoy calling as well. Does him text or chat more? If he does then fine. Talk to him, don't ask us to analyze your boyfriend because we are not him and we don't know what's in his mind.

Melonny:
I am not the guy, so, I don't know why he's doing that. Talk to him and ask him why. However ,for one, I don't enjoy calling as well. Does him text or chat more? If he does then fine. Talk to him, don't ask us to analyze your boyfriend because we are not him and we don't know what's in his mind.

he doesn't even chat

someone calls you in the evening and u are saying he doesnt call. u need a jobless pussy obsessed man. i cant call you morning noon and night when i have noting important to say.


babe i guess u are jobless sorry unemployed because if you were an accountant like him you wont have time to stare at your phone waiting for someone to call to tell u he wants to hear your voice.

wetin self?? somebody call's u every evening and you are still complaining whether he still love u.

u have already known the nature of his job which they hardly make unnecessarily call's "except business call's" ..,... ....and he even calls u back whenever he see ur miss call........ stop pressing too hard

we have different people with different character's.

Mehn...if he is nt a w0rker...den
D guy n0 get bar 4 f0ne na
But if he w0rks n d0esnt call...untill u d0...hehehehehe...s0rry k0!
U have enta 1 chance
U cant tell me u luv a girl n u dnt miss hearing her v0ice everyday
Even if na hell0,hw was ur day?.just checkin up 0n u ...kinda calls
Den dat guy na bad ass player him d0n win ur s0ul
My baby gets text msgs everyday...calls at nyt...sumtyms a text 2 wake her n a text 2 usher her int0 dream w0rld....but we must just talk...even if it means bein -500 4 balance

Benita27:
The relationship just started and he isn't calling, I wonder what he'll do when the spark isn't there anymore.

Exactly..yhu just typed my mind..a relationship that just started is supposed to have that initial gra gra love.. He's supposed to flood her text messages and call..along side sweet things..

If he's giving orders now what will he do in future...

Person like that jam me..sis nah one Chance... I'll show yhu if yhu don't give a damn..that I care less either.. That's how its supposed to be..jeez..

donMIG:
Mehn...if he is nt a w0rker...den
D guy n0 get bar 4 f0ne na
But if he w0rks n d0esnt call...untill u d0...hehehehehe...s0rry k0!
U have enta 1 chance
U cant tell me u luv a girl n u dnt miss hearing her v0ice everyday
Even if na hell0,hw was ur day?.just checkin up 0n u ...kinda calls
Den dat guy na bad ass player him d0n win ur s0ul
My baby gets text msgs everyday...calls at nyt...sumtyms a text 2 wake her n a text 2 usher her int0 dream w0rld....but we must just talk...even if it means bein -500 4 balance

Guy chop knuckle abeg...yhu too much...

That's d way to do it

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thanks all

commyluv:
he doesn't even chat

wow! Did you play very hard to get before you agree to date him? I don't see any reasons he wouldn't call or text. You better start thinking like a man, and give him the space he wants for now. Play the woman too. Let him call you not the other way round for now.
If the problem persists, do not hesitate to meeting new friends.