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Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by Blackhawk03(f): 11:23am On Jul 22, 2017
commyluv:
he doesn't even chat

Hope you sha know you're still single. grin cheesy embarassed

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Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by Jodha(f): 11:25am On Jul 22, 2017
chibuike65:
you better repent befor it gets too late


Yhu should rather repent of yhur excesses b4 yhu point accusing fingers at me...

If yhu like dey do big boy no call..one day you'll discover yhu lost someone irreplaceable due to pride..so kwatinue ..
E dey yhur nyansh..

There is nothing there for...me to repent of..

But rather ..yhu..

Yhu need help..

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Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by commyluv(f): 11:27am On Jul 22, 2017
that the reason I don't like dating because I don't need all this wahala to be single is sweet oooo
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by chibuike65: 11:31am On Jul 22, 2017
Jodha:



Yhu should rather repent of yhur excesses b4 yhu point accusing fingers at me...

If yhu like dey do big boy no call..one day you'll discover yhu lost someone irreplaceable due to pride..so kwatinue ..
E dey yhur nyansh..

There is nothing there for...me to repent of..

But rather ..yhu..

Yhu need help..
ooOOH dont forget wetin i won tell you, but dont you think its sexy when the woman do the calling
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by Nobody: 11:34am On Jul 22, 2017
Jodha:


Exactly..yhu just typed my mind..a relationship that just started is supposed to have that initial gra gra love.. He's supposed to flood her text messages and call..along side sweet things..

If he's giving orders now what will he do in future...

Person like that jam me..sis nah one Chance... I'll show yhu if yhu don't give a damn..that I care less either.. That's how its supposed to be..jeez..
OP na amateur. grin If he can't call, then he doesn't deserve my calls. No excuses.
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by fecosequence(m): 11:41am On Jul 22, 2017
I only call my girlfriend in the evening,it doesn't mean I love her less but just that I feel more comfortable in the evenings unless on Sunday.. find out what works for both of you
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by Jodha(f): 11:45am On Jul 22, 2017
chibuike65:
ooOOH dont forget wetin i won tell you, but dont you think its sexy when the woman do the calling



Benita27 biko coman tutor this man on relationship 101 ..he seems backwards like d op.. grin
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by Jodha(f): 11:47am On Jul 22, 2017
Benita27:
OP na amateur. grin If he can't call, then he doesn't deserve my calls. No excuses.


lol confirm girl ..

She'll learn with time... I only pray she doesn't learn it d hard way..
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by donMIG(m): 11:48am On Jul 22, 2017
Jodha:



Guy chop knuckle abeg...yhu too much...

That's d way to do it

..

L0L...u c sum girls r just 2 special u cant just treat dem anyhw na
If dis babe value herself make she leave dat guy find d 1 wh0 will truely luv her
My girl will always tell me
D0NT TELL ME U LUV ME SH0W ME U REALLY D0 LUV ME!!!



My advice 4 dis miss b say....just relegate dis guy 2 friendz0ne b0tt0m divisi0n

D 0nly tym guys dei d0 dis kind tin na wen
U n0 fine
U b side chick
U dull 0r b0rin
U dei ask 4 m0ni 2 musssh
0r wen him d0n get weitin him dei find fr0m u

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Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by Maxi112: 11:48am On Jul 22, 2017
commyluv:
that the reason I don't like dating because I don't need all this wahala to be single is sweet oooo
grin being single is the only excuse you have for yourself.


I don't expect you to say otherwise!
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by Jodha(f): 11:54am On Jul 22, 2017
donMIG:


L0L...u c sum girls r just 2 special u cant just treat dem anyhw na
If dis babe value herself make she leave dat guy find d 1 wh0 will truely luv her
My girl will always tell me
D0NT TELL ME U LUV ME SH0W ME U REALLY D0 LUV ME!!!



My advice 4 dis miss b say....just relegate dis guy 2 friendz0ne b0tt0m divisi0n

D 0nly tym guys dei d0 dis kind tin na wen
U n0 fine
U b side chick
U dull 0r b0rin
U dei ask 4 m0ni 2 musssh
0r wen him d0n get weitin him dei find fr0m u


Exactly... Even side chick gets more attention than she's getting..

Yhur girl is damn wise...if yhu don't show it ..then the love isn't there...yhu gats prove it..

Guy we don try for her..we told her d truth already.. If she likes she take it..her problem.. Not ours ..

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Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by chibuike65: 11:55am On Jul 22, 2017
Jodha:




Benita27 biko coman tutor this man on relationship 101 ..he seems backwards like d op.. grin
truly am a virgin how about you being my teacher
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by Khallyella(f): 11:55am On Jul 22, 2017
commyluv:
Hi guys

Am dating this guy he said he loves me yes I love him too, but the problem here is he doesn't call first if I don't call him in the morning he won't call, afternoon he wont , except in the evening.

But if he see my miss call he will call me back, I don't understand y he behaves that way have talk to him, am now thinking he doesn't love me .

ladies and gentlemen pls help me out what should I do.






Kpele dear, tbh with you
You're not his main chic! You're just there for "THERE" sake and him telling you it's your duty to call first? Lol

Is he a Yahoo boy? Even if he is, he can't possibly be that busy!
The most essential part of a relationship is Communication, if he ain't IN with you, I think you're in a relationship with yourself dear.

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Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by sandrahnaub(f): 11:56am On Jul 22, 2017
U r obviously nt d only 1 he loves...


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Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by Nobody: 11:59am On Jul 22, 2017
Jodha:




Benita.27 biko coman tutor this man on relationship 101 ..he seems backwards like d op.. grin
He's a man, defending his gender. What's there to debate with him?. He obviously wants to be on the receiving end alone.

Leave am, some arguments are not worth it. grin
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by yhermmie(f): 12:09pm On Jul 22, 2017
Jodha:
Lol...if yhu like yhurself do not call him...put on yhur armour of pride...and ignore him until he's ready to be a man...

No be by force ..
Men boku ..dem no scarce..


So if he doesn't call...then I guess he's not interested.. Do not waste yhur airtime to call him..
Gbam!!! No time for iranu
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by BiafraBushBoy(m): 12:54pm On Jul 22, 2017
Benita27:
LMAO @ it's your duty to call. That dude isn't that interested in you. The earlier you realise that the better. Men are everywhere like Johda said. Stop calling him and if he doesn't rise to the occasion dump him.

Wow... The bolded got me thinking. That's actually a good step!!

ASK the johda girl if she has ever been in a relationship at all?

Mtchewww

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Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by BiafraBushBoy(m): 12:56pm On Jul 22, 2017
Jodha:


Exactly... Even side chick gets more attention than she's getting..

Yhur girl is damn wise...if yhu don't show it ..then the love isn't there...yhu gats prove it..

Guy we don try for her..we told her d truth already.. If she likes she take it..her problem.. Not ours ..

Look at you,

No man in your life

No fruitful relationship,

Instead of finding solutions to her problem, you want her to be like you.

Makes me wondering, which guy would even date someone like you.

Ug...ly

Broke

Short

And uncultured..

Nonsense!!

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Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by ayokellany: 1:08pm On Jul 22, 2017
commyluv:
Hi guys

Am dating this guy he said he loves me yes I love him too, but the problem here is he doesn't call first if I don't call him in the morning he won't call, afternoon he wont , except in the evening.

But if he see my miss call he will call me back, I don't understand y he behaves that way have talk to him, am now thinking he doesn't love me .

ladies and gentlemen pls help me out what should I do.

I call some of my girlfriends not the one am dating once or twice daily depending in several factors I do not see why a lover should not call at least twice a day especially a new one.
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by Adeyinka1758(m): 1:17pm On Jul 22, 2017
uyisteven:

**** He still calls at evening tymz and wen he sees your missed calls... . wow... u should apprc that.. Am freaking worse than him.. . i don't even call..
We're in the same shoe bro... But I do chat sha!
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by DBlackCeazer(m): 1:22pm On Jul 22, 2017
Me wey no too like talking, I pray I no meet girl like the op.
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by rman: 1:24pm On Jul 22, 2017
Some guys are not the calling type. If I do not have anything to say, I do not call. Thank God my partner understood this and we are still very close.

I can call once and talk for 30mins to an hour, maybe once in a day or 3 days sometimes.

Like you said, if my partner calls me, I pick or call back when less busy. Although, I have found out early that nearly 95% of phone calls in this clime are unnecessary. As much as I know technology has breached communication gaps, however our parents built lasting relationships even when partners can only communicate through letters that will arrive months later. Now with mobile phones, we actually think we show care by the number of calls.

The most important thing is he calls back.

For some strange reasons, I reply sms almost instantly which I rarely do with calls.

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Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by moneyhungry(m): 1:24pm On Jul 22, 2017
Jodha:
Lol...if yhu like yhurself do not call him...put on yhur armour of pride...and ignore him until he's ready to be a man...

No be by force ..
Men boku ..dem no scarce..


So if he doesn't call...then I guess he's not interested.. Do not waste yhur airtime to call him..
co-sign.
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by Victornezzar: 1:25pm On Jul 22, 2017
Jodha:

As usual guys will always defend their selves...

Op I gave yhu a sisterly advice... If yhu like listen ...if yhu like take the advice of a player who's obviously defending a fellow player...nah yhu sabi ...I don tell yhu my own

A guy that has yhu in mind will call atleast once or twice ..a day to check up on yhu...just to show he thinks about yhu ..you're not asking for 24hrs calling...but atleast no matter how busy yhu are if yhu claim yhu love some one yhu should be able to call DAT person to hear from her...

If yhu keep calling him and he senses yhu love him too much or yhu can't do without him... That's where yhur problem..as in real problem will start from..

I've been there ..so I should be in d best place to advice yhu..not a baseless no good Casanova...

Egberi fah ooo..
Jeez
see ow u wan end pesin relationship sha
So if d guy isn't calling
d gal should go 4 anoda man
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by Nobody: 1:26pm On Jul 22, 2017
Babe...my boyfriend was like that. We broke up 2 months to our 5th year. (yesterday)

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Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by Victornezzar: 1:30pm On Jul 22, 2017
commyluv:
thanks dear I appreciate
don't take dis shitty advice
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by MissRaine69(f): 1:30pm On Jul 22, 2017
You need to chill seriously.
There are no rules or obligations that stipulate he has to call you first. That's just a weird mentality to have.
Are you one of those women who has to talk on the phone to a guy 24/7 even though there is absolutely nothing of relevance to talk about?
Maybe he is not one for meaningless small talk it's not a crime. He does call you just not when you want to be called. I bet you give him a hard time over not calling first which is petty. You have a good man stop being so needy. It's not attractive.

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Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by MissRaine69(f): 1:31pm On Jul 22, 2017
beautyandbrain:
Babe...my boyfriend was like that. We broke up 2 months to our 5th year. (yesterday)
Broke up over him not calling first? That's dumb

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Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by mank1234(m): 1:33pm On Jul 22, 2017
commyluv:
Accountant but now he his on leave still dey same
Nothing to worry. His work made that a routine for him. That now is his habit. He may or may not love you.
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by rosalieene(f): 1:37pm On Jul 22, 2017
he doesn't love you Jhor.

he should be choking you with calls then you"d beg him to reduce the call rate cheesy
Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by IamLEGEND1: 1:38pm On Jul 22, 2017
BiafraBushBoy:


Look at you,

No man in your life

No fruitful relationship,

Instead of finding solutions to her problem, you want her to be like you.

Makes me wondering, which guy would even date someone like you.

Ug...ly

Broke

Short

And uncultured..

Nonsense!!

Re: When A Guy Doesn't Call by rosalieene(f): 1:40pm On Jul 22, 2017
commyluv:
yea I talk to him yesterday he said it my duty to be calling nawa ooo, bae I want to stop calling him so I will see his reaction will that be OK?

he sounded like you forced yourself on him.

Stop calling him, he doesn't love you

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