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My Relationship Need Serious Advice by kenny300(op): 1:20am On Jul 26, 2017
Pls you all should read these and say something
Hi nairalanders I need help or should I say advice, Have been in a relationship with my boyfriend now it been six months, am a 20 year old lady my boyfriend is 21 so u can see we are not too young, my boyfriend is a very kind,loving,caring guy I must say this is the best relationship I have ever been, I love him so much and I know he loves me too. I must say his a very handsome and hard working young man and for me to say handsome he has many ladies flocking around him but he's very loyal to the extent that I must say he doesn't hide anything from me.
But with all these quality and good behavior he DRINKS, I really hate guys that drinks although he doesn't smoke, I know he drinks before we started dating but he said he will quit which he did but after like four months he told me he can't go further that he Misses his drink and for the sake of love I have for him I told him I allowed 1 or 2 bottles now his going to his 10th bottles, whenever he wants to drink he always tell me, he always insists on telling me he tells me the truth but I can't take it again, so guys my point is should I just end the relationship before it too late all I should go with the saying that no man his perfect that his flaws.
I will really appreciate it if you all could say something out of your no time Thanks.
Re: My Relationship Need Serious Advice by Beyhiodie(m): 1:24am On Jul 26, 2017
Hmmmm Quit that relationship, and be serious with your life , your bone will locate you. If you go ahead you may regret it
Re: My Relationship Need Serious Advice by MissRaine69(f): 1:41am On Jul 26, 2017
You can't censor a grown man. I see you wrote you "allow" him a set amount to drink and if he goes over that I am sure you make your feelings known. Don't be a nag no man likes to be nagged. If he is going to give up he will do so with encouragement and support.

So back to drinking does he drink everyday or is it weekends? Do you think he has problems with alcohol?
If not let the man be
It's you who has the issue with the consumption of alcohol for whatever reason. He drank before he met you and he has never given you any reasons to doubt his sincerities. You can't streamline a man to the point he is without identity.
If he is not alcoholic and you object because it's something you frown upon that's you it's you that needs to walk away and someone else who is not bothered by the fact he drinks will date him instead.
But don't return to post a thread about how men are useless and that there are no good men out there.
Re: My Relationship Need Serious Advice by MissCokie(f): 1:46am On Jul 26, 2017
I can't help it but to laugh grin . "I must say" is all i am seeing in your story, therefore you have no problem that demands urgent advice.

Cheers hun.
Re: My Relationship Need Serious Advice by Nobody: 2:09am On Jul 26, 2017
MissCokie:
I can't help it but to laugh grin . "I must say" is all i am seeing in your story, therefore you have no problem that demands urgent advice.

Cheers hun.
grin grin grin. Everything is problem for girls of these days. Somebody won't drink in peace again but wait, did she say 10 bottles? Is the boy osuofia?
Re: My Relationship Need Serious Advice by adewumiopeyemi(m): 3:30am On Jul 26, 2017
At 20 havin boyfriend u better concentrate on ur studies first... undecided kiss
Re: My Relationship Need Serious Advice by Yinabim(f): 4:09am On Jul 26, 2017
adewumiopeyemi:
At 20 havin boyfriend u better concentrate on ur studies first... undecided kiss
Lol...In dis generation 20 is not too young for a relationship , she just needs to be encouraged not to misplace her priority , and for d guy at 21 drinking 10 bottles that one is waa
but really boy 21- girl 20 it is well oo
Re: My Relationship Need Serious Advice by adewumiopeyemi(m): 4:13am On Jul 26, 2017
Op is a lieing jare.. She just cam here o frame up a story..m undecided
Yinabim:
Lol...In dis generation 20 is not too young for a relationship , she just needs to be encouraged not to misplace her priority , and for d guy at 21 drinking 10 bottles that one is waa
but really boy 21- girl 20 it is well oo
Re: My Relationship Need Serious Advice by HeWrites(m): 4:18am On Jul 26, 2017
Ehya... Sorry o embarassed

If you want to get him to stop..here are some tips












1) Give him pvssy


2)Give him more pvssy


3) I repeat again GIVE HIM more Pvssy.


Hin head go straiqht like that... Thank me later.
grin





BiafraBushBoy what's your own view?
Re: My Relationship Need Serious Advice by BiafraBushBoy(m): 5:50am On Jul 26, 2017
HeWrites:
Ehya... Sorry o embarassed

If you want to get him to stop..here are some tips












1) Give him pvssy


2)Give him more pvssy


3) I repeat again GIVE HIM more Pvssy.


Hin head go straiqht like that... Thank me later.
grin





BiafraBushBoy what's your own view?
Your view is my view, Sir, cheesy

No conflict of views wink
Re: My Relationship Need Serious Advice by Nobody: 7:24am On Jul 26, 2017
Your problem is that he drinks, you have lesser problem.
Re: My Relationship Need Serious Advice by Fernandowski(m): 8:00am On Jul 26, 2017
just drinking?? funny


what about dating a guy that smokes weed, womanizes, doesn't spend time with you and is jobless??
Re: My Relationship Need Serious Advice by HeWrites(m): 8:57am On Jul 29, 2017
BiafraBushBoy:
Your view is my view, Sir, cheesy
No conflict of views wink
grin grin

KHORRRET!!
Re: My Relationship Need Serious Advice by dacblogger: 9:12am On Jul 29, 2017
At 21,he takes up to 10bottles...
Can u imagine?
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