₦airaland Forum

AhluSunnah:
So many loopholes in the story. . 14 years old girl will pickup a mortal pestle and 40 year old man will be looking at her abi? he go dey luk till she hit him abi? . . the 14 years old who cannot complain of her ordeals to her parents while very much older ladies complains to their parent.. kontinue.. and living with 2 wives, 1 has gone.. 1 stays and endure sufferness and beatings abi? kontinue..and to all those screaming about the age.. YOUR MOTHERS GOT MARRIED YOUNGER or perhaps look into each countries marriage age for ladies. . .IN ISLAM,GIRLS CAN MARRY AFTER THEIR 1ST MENSURATION(puberty).IN ISLAM, U CAN DIVORCE YOUR HUSBAND DUE TO MALTREATEMENT(as stated in the story)..IN ISLAM,ITS HUSBAND RESPONSIBILITY TO FEED,CLOTH AND SHELTER HIS WIVE(S).. i smell c0oked up st0ry 0r ign0rant muslims action... meanwhile, YOU MUST NOT DIE UNLESS U A MUSLIM or else, hell awaits you.. ma'salam.. pi

wizod:
where is dis one thinking from? His anus or where?

adekhingz:
1. To spend upon her, to feed her. Not to be excessive in this and not to be stingy.

2. To be kind to her. The Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said: “The best among you is the one who is the best towards his wife.”

3. Not to harm her.

4. To be loving to her, examples:

Loving to her with your tongue. Nice words, tell her you love her. Tell her how good she looks.
If your wife asks you to get her something and you can’t get it , say I’ll get it inshaa’Allaah.
That the man beautifies himself with that which is reasonable, (not intimating women).
From being loving to your wife is that you help her with housework. This is from the example of the prophet (sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam)
That he is to be playful with his wife.
Sharing food with her.
To cuddle with her.
Sleep under the same cover.
(I) they would bathe together: On the authority of ‘Aa’ishah (radiyallaahu ‘anhu) who said: “I used to bathe with the Prophet from a single container of water which was placed between us such that our hands collided inside it. He used to race me such that I would say: “Leave some for me, leave some for me!’ She added: `We were in a state of Janaabah (i.e. the state of having slept together).’”[Al-Bukharee and Muslim].

5. That the men must not curse or swear at his wife, or insult her appearance.

6. A man must not boycott her and if he does (for a valid reason) he should do it inside of the home.

7. A man should not expose the secrets of his wife “Verily among the worst people before Allaah on the Day of Judgement is a man who approaches his wife sexually and she responds and then he spreads her secrets.” [Muslim, Ibn Abee Shaybah, Ahmad and others].

8. A man should not hate his wife. Exalt the good and minimise her shortcomings. A man should not be angry at her faults and should look at her good. To look only good in her.

9. That he should make things easy upon her e.g. The chores and what he requires from her.

10. He should have the best manners with his wife. His wife should see the best of his manners. It is said that some men have the best manners out in the market , but when he goes home he is a ferocious lion! Kind to strange women in the markets but not to his wife in the home. The best of you are the best of you to your wives. There is no good in you if you want to help your friends but not your wife, there is no good in you if you are kind to your friends and not your wife. Combine the two , and that is good.

11. That the husband should be a reason for his wife to be saved from the hellfire. He should teach her and order her to forbid the evil and enjoy the good. Forbidding her from that which will lead to hell fire. O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are [appointed]angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allaah in what He commands them but do what they are commanded.

12. That the man should have some type of jealousy for his wife. Jealousy of protecting her from evil, not for her to be exposed to strange men , not for her to speak to strange men etc. but not the abusive jealousy…

http://orbitislam.com/rights-of-a-wife/

AhluSunnah:
my mouth ni

lofty900:
14 years old is already given out for marriage, I can bet she didn't even attend secondary school. No wonder poverty and illiteracy is ravaging the north. Police should free the girl jor

Adeoba10:
God said marry one wife, BUT if you have the capacity (both financially, physical fitness) you can marry 2 or 3. And also if you can live among 2women with justice and not biased, u can marry 2wives,not that after marrying the 2nd wife, u start maltreating the first wife. If you are not financially bouyant to carter for 2women, is not a most for you to go for the 2nd wife. And again, it must be with the consent and awareness of the first wife b4 marrying the 2nd wife. God didn't compulsory 2wives, but ONLY IF...

Baddestman:
islAm said if we cant take care of two,we should marry one,it is not by force,this people are just disgrace to we Muslims

NwaAmaikpe:



Her husband should have married someone younger.

This one already knows evil.

lofty900:
This should serve as a lesson to men who are in the habit of beating their wives, women are not as weak as you think. One day una cup go full

adekhingz:
it's not about the age. it's about ''CONSENT''. IF a girl is not giving her consent to marriage, it's not an islamic marriage. Moreover, the girl in the picture above looks matured. Many of her age already knows what --------is called..... too bad, virginity has lost its value

adekhingz:
it's not about the age. it's about ''CONSENT''. IF a girl is not giving her consent to marriage, it's not an islamic marriage. Moreover, the girl in the picture above looks matured. Many of her age already knows what --------is called..... too bad, virginity has lost its value

Nigeriadondie:
Does islam allow underaged girls to be given out as wife?

Baddestman:
what is the age of underage girls according to both bible,tanakh and quran,verily we don't know but islam said if the girl has started menstration that mean he has become a girl,but that doesn't we should give her in marriage cos she has to have education.

Nigeriadondie:
In as much as age was not specified there is no place in d bible were teenagers were given out in marriage and as such no record of child marriage in d bible. The bible said a man and a woman not girl.
Can u give underage daughter in marriage if u ve one?

swiz123:
THE Niger State Police Command has arrested a 14-year-old wife from Lifari Village in the Mashegu Local Government Area of the state for allegedly killing her 40-year-old husband, It was learnt that the suspect, Aisha Isah, and the late Usman, to whom she got married five months ago, were cousins.
Northern City News gathered that Isah had been complaining of starvation and maltreatment since she started living with Usman, who already had two wives.

One of the two wives was said to have left on account of the failure of Usman to meet up with his responsibilities to his family.
Kill the stupid mofos who rape you and your future in the name of marriage. KILL THEM ALL.
The teenage wife told our correspondent on Tuesday that her late husband failed to provide for her for two days.

“And when I confronted him, he slapped me and out of anger, I hit him on the forehead with a pestle and he collapsed and died,” she explained.
Isah added, “My husband had the habit of not giving us money for food and each time we (the wives) confront him, he would tell us to go to our parents’ home and eat. He never cared about us; he beat us every time we demanded money for food.”


Asked if the other wife was at home at the time of the incident, she stated that the other wife went to the hospital with her baby.

“My mate was not around; it was only me and my late husband that were in the house at the time of the incident. I picked a pestle and hit him, he fell on the ground and I ran to my mother’s house at Kahigu Village in Mashegu council,” Isah said.
Isah said she inadvertently killed her husband out of anger and pleaded for forgiveness.

“I am sorry for what happened, it is the devil’s work and I pray my parents will forgive me; I never knew that he would die, I regretted all my actions,” she stated.
The police spokesman, Bala Elkana, explained that the victim died at Mashegu Hospital where he was taken for treatment.

Elkana described the incident as unfortunate, but added that the suspect would nevertheless be prosecuted as a juvenile offender.

http://www.lailasblog.com/14-year-old-wife-kills-husband-five-months-marriage/

Nigeriadondie:
In as much as age was not specified there is no place in d bible were teenagers were given out in marriage and as such no record of child marriage in d bible. The bible said a man and a woman not girl.
Can u give underage daughter in marriage if u ve one?

swiz123:
THE Niger State Police Command has arrested a 14-year-old wife from Lifari Village in the Mashegu Local Government Area of the state for allegedly killing her 40-year-old husband, It was learnt that the suspect, Aisha Isah, and the late Usman, to whom she got married five months ago, were cousins.
Northern City News gathered that Isah had been complaining of starvation and maltreatment since she started living with Usman, who already had two wives.

One of the two wives was said to have left on account of the failure of Usman to meet up with his responsibilities to his family.

The teenage wife told our correspondent on Tuesday that her late husband failed to provide for her for two days.

“And when I confronted him, he slapped me and out of anger, I hit him on the forehead with a pestle and he collapsed and died,” she explained.
Isah added, “My husband had the habit of not giving us money for food and each time we (the wives) confront him, he would tell us to go to our parents’ home and eat. He never cared about us; he beat us every time we demanded money for food.”


Asked if the other wife was at home at the time of the incident, she stated that the other wife went to the hospital with her baby.

“My mate was not around; it was only me and my late husband that were in the house at the time of the incident. I picked a pestle and hit him, he fell on the ground and I ran to my mother’s house at Kahigu Village in Mashegu council,” Isah said.
Isah said she inadvertently killed her husband out of anger and pleaded for forgiveness.

“I am sorry for what happened, it is the devil’s work and I pray my parents will forgive me; I never knew that he would die, I regretted all my actions,” she stated.
The police spokesman, Bala Elkana, explained that the victim died at Mashegu Hospital where he was taken for treatment.

Elkana described the incident as unfortunate, but added that the suspect would nevertheless be prosecuted as a juvenile offender.

http://www.lailasblog.com/14-year-old-wife-kills-husband-five-months-marriage/

okawanyi:
Something must kill a man,

Mean while, check the name of the persons involved pls

lofty900:
14 years old is already given out for marriage, I can bet she didn't even attend secondary school. No wonder poverty and illiteracy is ravaging the north. Police should free the girl jor

lofty900:
This should serve as a lesson to men who are in the habit of beating their wives, women are not as weak as you think. One day una cup go full

Adeoba10:
God said marry one wife, BUT if you have the capacity (both financially, physical fitness) you can marry 2 or 3. And also if you can live among 2women with justice and not biased, u can marry 2wives,not that after marrying the 2nd wife, u start maltreating the first wife. If you are not financially bouyant to carter for 2women, is not a most for you to go for the 2nd wife. And again, it must be with the consent and awareness of the first wife b4 marrying the 2nd wife. God didn't compulsory 2wives, but ONLY IF...

Baddestman:
likewise in the Quran but the jew and catholic said mary age was 12 years when he married joseph,i just want to know the age of underage girl.