vizkiz:
Marriage is a beautiful thing. Just that people are scared they might not get that dream husband/wife/family they've always wanted.

Of Cuz anyone in his/her right mind will feel nervous about getting married! It is a union only separated by death (or signed paper as the case may be).

The only thing that makes the nervous is having to listen to my wife scream in the labor room. Bleep no! I can't stand that. Though I don't know her yet but I know I am go'n love her too much to be able to hear her scream in pains.

Rorachy:
I feel nervous thinking of spending the rest of my life with one person but the thought of children is consoling.

joyberry:
That my major problem, Am commitment phobic The thought of being in a lifelong relationship scared the hell out of me . Just decided to stay put off relationships, till I can work on my commitment issues. Cos I rarely stay long in relationships sef

Rorachy:
I can't even imagine a cheating husband or a husband that battery his wife.

``battery his wife `` i no understand ,na robot the man wan marry

vizkiz:
Marriage is a beautiful thing. Just that people are scared they might not get that dream husband/wife/family they've always wanted.

Of Cuz anyone in his/her right mind will feel nervous about getting married! It is a union only separated by death (or signed paper as the case may be).

The only thing that makes the nervous is having to listen to my wife scream in the labor room. Bleep no! I can't stand that. Though I don't know her yet but I know I am go'n love her too much to be able to hear her scream in pains.

joyberry:
That my major problem, Am commitment phobic The thought of being in a lifelong relationship scared the hell out of me . Just decided to stay put off relationships, till I can work on my commitment issues. Cos I rarely stay long in relationships sef

Toyindiva:
Yesso, I will feel so nervous I hope the Mr right will come very soon�����

Brokeguyy:
Very nervous bro
I have decided that i must clock 30 before i get married
And I'm 20 .

joyberry:
That my major problem, Am commitment phobic The thought of being in a lifelong relationship scared the hell out of me . Just decided to stay put off relationships, till I can work on my commitment issues. Cos I rarely stay long in relationships sef

helphelp:
Direct your topic to single guys... Or in the body just ask those married how they felt when the thought comes before they got married.

As for me before marriage, always had this future thoughts of uncertainties...

But as I don put my legs inside water, I no dey fear cold again...

Not after my two beautiful kids

Sarang:
I'm in my early 20s too Op.
When I was in my teenage years, I always believed I'd marry late, like a curse or something haha, I just feel or fear it so I was scared of marriage. But when I travelled away from home and became lonely and started talking future with boo, things changed my brother. My curse turned to blessing lol.. Abeg marriage where u dey I dey come ni!!

stukinherdr1222:



``battery his wife `` i no understand ,na robot the man wan marry

Cossie0000001:

unfortunately, I just got rejected tonight on the ground of religion.

bethyz:
It's because you havnt fallen in love. When you find that one person that complete you you will be over whelmed. Anyway am trying married in three weeks . The anxiety kill and fiance getting me upset . Can wait for it to end

Spatta:


You are in your twenties and instead of thinking of how to succeed academically you are fantasizing about marriage
I wont say it is a bad thing?
It is not too early to think of a good future but climb the ladder from the first step

Now, about your fears, this is the solution to the fears
Accept Christ into your heart and God helps you get a good definition of a partner
If you are a Christian, truly born again, You will have a discernment not to marry a lady who have no God as guide in life
The only reasons people have marital issues is because Jesus is not at the central of their union
True Christian may have challenges in marriage but they have the word of God as a guide in solving thier issues

If you marry a woman or man who does not know Jesus and have no passion to obey the Bible
You have married a disaster
Trust me, they are many out there

Ipisi:


Lekweya

Xaos:
No. Okay... Yes. But only when I think of the Night.
I mean I get nervous knowing everyone knows I'll be banging my wife from task till dawn.

joyberry:
That my major problem, Am commitment phobic The thought of being in a lifelong relationship scared the hell out of me . Just decided to stay put off relationships, till I can work on my commitment issues. Cos I rarely stay long in relationships sef

Sylverly:
The thought is so consuming. I can't even imagine how it will be if she is a nagging type..

kennygee:


With the divorce rate these days. Yes I do.

With the kind of comments from men on NL, yes I do.

I saw a post where NL men were insinuating that Nigerian women don't deserve to be cared for and pampered, it made me feel sorry for women who would thank God that they had found "husbands" in these type of men.

Then, how many men really know God. Most men just go to church and some claim to be workers but don't live like Christians should. A man that can't lead you spiritually, what is the goal of your marriage?

Rorachy:
I feel nervous thinking of spending the rest of my life with one person but the thought of children is consoling.

chronique:
My only worry is the rate at which people cheat on their partners these days. The stories we read on Nairaland daily, ain't encouraging. It has somehow, stuck in my head.

kennygee:


With the divorce rate these days. Yes I do.

With the kind of comments from men on NL, yes I do.

I saw a post where NL men were insinuating that Nigerian women don't deserve to be cared for and pampered, it made me feel sorry for women who would thank God that they had found "husbands" in these type of men.

Then, how many men really know God. Most men just go to church and some claim to be workers but don't live like Christians should. A man that can't lead you spiritually, what is the goal of your marriage?

generationz:


So right especially at the last part
That scares me the most. How many men even ask for God's guidance in choosing a spouse, compared to the ladies

My greatest desire is a man who loves God, even more than he loves me. Yes because the love of God is the fear of God, and with the fear of a lot of nonsense we see in today's marriages will be taking care off, you don't have to be chief snoper there'll be peace.

You finally took down your mask?

Sylverly:
yes, I get your point.. But still, most of the crashed marriages ones had its beautiful time.. My wish is : may it always be as it was, and may I never get tired of loving my partner, bcoz, I easily get saturated with things/situations.