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gypsey:
if you live in America don't wish for this kinda woman, she will blow your brains out one day with a 9 mili.

Lalas247:
But how can a lady prevent that ? Explain The bolded tho

Martin0:
metweeech

itsJude:
make i hear word

Lalas247:
Both of u are as bad as each other .. how's the fam?

thesuave10:
Lol.. . Relax sweetie. Your proving my point about your intelligence. The guy is wrong no doubt to cheat. Here's something about emotional intelligence, actions and reactions are bad. Most times reactions are way more foolish stupid and deadly. A socially and emotionally intelligent person knows when to react, how to react, where to react, what to react to and if to react. So calm down and be rational. I saw post today that said men are more rational women and it's the truth. Women tend to act out of emotions just like you and that lady. Learn to calm down and think things through Be wise

Benita27:
Prove me otherwise.

Lalas247:
But how can a lady prevent that ? Explain
The bolded tho

Lalas247:
Mtcheew . " throws chewing gum at him "

Lalas247:
Mtcheew . " throws chewing gum at him "

thesuave10:
So here's the deal. To be honest with you, there's no 100% way to stop a man from cheating. Before I tell you ways that can help you out, let me tell you why men cheat. Men cheat because it's in our DNA. how? Ever heard the saying "man is insatiable " when it comes to men more often than not sex is included. In a man's mind he loves his gf/wife, in his mind if he builds an empire, he's gonna pick her to rule the world with him. Obj Donald Trump Putin, danjuma etc. Do you think all these men didn't cheat? They all do even Jay Z + tu face but the woman they truly love will always be by their side. To men having sex with another woman is like having sex with a prostitute.

However if you wish to prevent him from cheating, here are some tips and it's not a 100% guarantee.
1 be respectful and obedient
2 be resourceful
3 don't act cheap and don't act too tough to get. Maintain a balance
The above came first because it has to do with the mind. And if you control the mind you can control the body
4 be amazing in the bedroom. Your sex game should be great.
5 stay fit and sexy. Like you must stay fit and sexy
6 try not to nag too much
7 find a man that is not selfish and cares about the feelings of others because cheating is more of a selfish act of them. Men want the sex but don't really care that much about how the wife would feel
8 if it helps your mind see cheating by a man as just sex and nothing more. The reason why most women get angry when men cheat and feel that he has found someone else is because when women cheat, they've usually found someone better unlike men.
9 again stay sexy and fit. It helps
10 don't act too jealous when you see him With other women. Take note I didn't say you should show 0 signs of jealousy because if you do that he will feel like you've lost interest in him which will make him cheat. A man wants to know his woman is still interested and yes we know when you're a LITTLE jealous and men appreciate it.
If I think of more I'll let you know. This for now

ibkayee:
Not this 'Men are more rational..women tend to act out of emotions' tripe again, I guess that's why statistically men commit more violent crimes lmao

@op
Not the best way to react but mehnn I really don't know what the dynamics of their relationship were like and what she's been through

ibkayee:
Not this 'Men are more rational..women tend to act out of emotions' tripe again, I guess that's why statisticslly men commit more violent crimes lmao

@op
Not the best way to react but mehnn I really don't know what the dynamics of their relationship were like and what she's been through

itsJude:
ur thread abt ur ex and how u kept going back

lefulefu:
like the treatment wey tiger woods wife give am when she catch am cheating

Martin0:
See babe it just their choice
Every guy wants to have sex with other women.
And when the opportunity arises, he takes it.
Chai if only u understand me





If I got enough (or better) sex at home, I
wouldn’t need to cheat.
Precise sex is not everything ooo but where it most valued is in marriage,trust me..

Lalas247:
Ok that being said .. what if the lady ticks all those boxes you have listed
And he still cheats ?? Nothing we can do so its fair to say her smashing the window is justified ..
At the end of the day LOVE does not hurt well not meant to anyway .. so how can u love and cheat in the same breath

I don't believe it is in your DNA but society has made it acceptable for men to think it's ok and we ladies should put up and deal with it ...
there are some guys out there who stick to one VJ how do they manage? ! And their Mrs don't even do half of the things listed up there

I just think men in general are confused .. it's easy to say hey " I do not want to be with you again " if she now decides to go back then her biz

Martin0:

teesmarth:
Smh

Lalas247:
But it's the married ones who cheat the most

Martin0:
eh really did statistics ever showed that

Married or no married cheat is cheat...

For me I don't value cheating basically I don't do that sha,but if it happen's to my wife jeezzz I can forgive her uncountable times...


When it comes to cheating it the man or woman it their choice but I believ ladies cheat to revenge but men jeessszzz every hole that gives opportunity is ''kpnashable''

Lalas247:
Ok that being said .. what if the lady ticks all those boxes you have listed
And he still cheats ?? Nothing we can do so its fair to say her smashing the window is justified ..
At the end of the day LOVE does not hurt well not meant to anyway .. so how can u love and cheat in the same breath

I don't believe it is in your DNA but society has made it acceptable for men to think it's ok and we ladies should put up and deal with it ...
there are some guys out there who stick to one VJ how do they manage? ! And their Mrs don't even do half of the things listed up there

I just think men in general are confused .. it's easy to say hey " I do not want to be with you again " if she now decides to go back then her biz

Piiko:
Nothing gives her the right to wreck his ride, if the guy is wise he should flee before she brutalizes him after marriage

thesuave10:
Like it's the truth. Men are more rational and women are more emotional. Women can get emotional over anything real quick and that's the reason behind lack of rationality. You don't agree because you're probably more rational than most people /women and that's why you can't agree with it. You're seeing things from your perspective. Now to help you understand better go out this week, at work or while hanging with your friends observe the males and females you encounter then come back here and tell me about it. That stuff is a scientific theory. There will always be women who defy these theories but they are considered as error in graphs in science

Lalas247:
Comot for here joor na ur input be that

Have u cheated before

ibkayee:
You are telling me to take anecdotal observations as evidence over actual statistics. I thought you said you guys were rational?

dingbang:
Her video is all over the internet. No one will marry her again


Glory be to God..

Lalas247:
Wow that's new u will forgive her
Never heard that from a Nigerian guy ever

Benita27:
All these guys bashing her. Do you know if she has invested much into the relationship to get cheated on as reward?. Clearly, a lady who has much to lose does this. I'd do same if have got much to lose, while I walk away if there's nothing to lose.