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When u were pregnant wit ur baby like how much did u spend on scan and drugs and treatment till delivery. Does it consume a lot of money ? N wat will u advise a couple dat d guy is collecting 100k plus and the girl l 30k monthly as salary to start a family. If d girl gets pregnant, will their salary b enough to take care of a baby in lagos wats ur view or do u tink dey should chill till wen dey r more comfortable.

Then answer her. use your initiative

See questn!! With salary above 1.5m per annum and u a saying 2 chill until he gets richer.go and ask dat iya funke(d food vendor)hw she trains up her children.CUT UR CLOTH ACCORDING TO UR SIZE

Unless the woman is not being stingy with her salary, then the money should be enough.

Here is d thing, everything needs planning, d best thing is to save up for whatever that might comes up in future. You're having a baby in next 10months, start saving now..

They can comfortably take care of that, pple who earn less than that are able to take of such. it's all about proper planning(saving).

ozy4christ:
See questn!! With salary above 1.5m per annum and u a saying 2 chill until he gets richer.go and ask dat iya funke(d food vendor)hw she trains up her children.CUT UR CLOTH ACCORDING TO UR SIZE

According to your CLOTH pls.

Your cousin should create his own life path/life style and encrypt it. The standard of life he intends to live now and in the future should be the basis on reaching a conclusion whether or not he's ready to start a family.

From opinions , I understand that it is the woman that determines how a man spends after marriage

Once the woman agrees that they can do with a simple modest wedding, they can send their kids to decent yet affordable schools, they can eat two pot of soup for a week - the home will be rich, peaceful and happy with that salaries

sumtimes we jst wanna b unnecessarily comfortable b4 we take responsibilities..... wud a new born baby require up to 20k monthly for up kip? certainly no...... derz a married man wit a daughter in ma street staying wit a heartless chief who pays him 6k monthly for washing 3cars & sweeping a very big compound wit hiz wife fry maza once awhile (i wept 4 d man) .... d painful part is dat d chief s till deducts 2k frm d monthly salary in d name of hauz rent bkos d man stays in one of d boys quarters behind yet d're managing (8months + nw) talkmore of u guys earning abt 130k.... i feel d couples are jst seeking public attention

Plan very well. And every other thing can follow

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