₦airaland Forum

ProudtobeaMUMUM:
Thank God you have shown the whole world that you are a depressed fellow, insulting a girl that is earnestly looking for something, did she invite you to her thread, you people just love venting your frustrations on someone

I don't reply mumu people, they makes me sick.


go jerk off with your spare life if only you have any and stop littering my mention with your never end qouting.

Jacksparr0w1207:
Its GRAMMAR

who know's it might be to u

Maxi112:
I don't reply mumu people, they MAKES me sick.


go jerk off with your spare life if only you have any and stop littering my mention with your never end qouting.

See what you are typing, common English you no sabi, ewww

INYOMA:
If u digested my post well, you'd see where i wrote that my job takes most of my time. I hardly go out. Not like i dont get men accosting me now and then but i've not met that one man who is what i want. Not a perfect somebody ooh but i know what i want wen i see it.
I don't feel cheap desperate or whatever toxic adjective anyone wanna use. I am glad i made this move and i will sure be careful and wear my detective hat. Hoping i get a boo here biko. All u arguers and negative vibers pls allow him come forth naa.

But honestly I won't hide another thought I have in mind,I know that even the most ever busy lady on earth will get a suitor and men flocking around them for marriage but I wonder why your's is different,this is my first time to see a nigerian lady searching for men online even when she's base in nigeria,hmmmm there is something behind this ur idea about searching for men online,maybe you have a bad character or probably there most be something u wanna hide that made you come online..

I keep wondering anytime I look at this your post..

You might be lying I ve the feeling,coz there is no truth in what you are saying..

I imagine if a lady can be so busy that not even a man she will love amongs all men she have seen or not even 1 man will be serious with her,something is definitely hiding somewhere u not telling Nairalander's

massive1019:
my brother don't reaason in that line. Most guys nowadays are just wooing to chop and clean mouth.
They don't really want any serious relationship, once the relationship is getting serious they will run.

Brother see this ooo
Don't u think this lady might not be truthful

MissRaine69:
Why do you feel sorry for her?
God helps those that help themselves , seek and ye shall find etc
Don't bash her for being proactive , it's fine to disagree with her but do so with good reason

Hmmmm missRain hmmm I know what u are upto,but we won't ague..

But wait oooo can a lady be so busy that not even 1 I mean even one man she will not love even when plenty are flocking around her

How are we sure she is not upto something like maybe there is something bad about her and probably the men she physically see might not be intrested about her hence she resort to online as probaby a mean's for her to hide every character and you know when a lady hide her bad part it sure gonna be difficult for men to discover it...

Martin0:
But honestly I won't hide another thought I have in mind,I know that even the most ever busy lady on earth will get a suitor and men flocking around them for marriage but I wonder why your's is different,this is my first time to see a nigerian lady searching for men online even when she's base in nigeria,hmmmm there is something behind this ur idea about searching for men online,maybe you have a bad character or probably there most be something u wanna hide that made you come online..

I keep wondering anytime I look at this your post..

You might be lying I ve the feeling,coz there is no truth in what you are saying..

I imagine if a lady can be so busy that not even a man she will love amongs all men she have seen or not even 1 man will be serious with her,something is definitely hiding somewhere u not telling Nairalander's

lol...the thing is, she might have but may not be satisfy with them. Soooo she wants variety of guys to apply so that she can pick the best.

massive1019:
lol...the thing is, she might have but may not be satisfy with them. Soooo she wants variety of guys to apply so that she can pick the best.

aaaaaa na wa oooo nor get weitin I nor go see for life ooo eh chaiiiieeeee

Martin0:
Hmmmm missRain hmmm I know what u are upto,but we won't ague..

But wait oooo can a lady be so busy that not even 1 I mean even one man she will not love even when plenty are flocking around her

How are we sure she is not upto something like maybe there is something bad about her and probably the men she physically see might not be intrested about her hence she resort to online as probaby a mean's for her to hide every character and you know when a lady hide her bad part it sure gonna be difficult for men to discover it...

So if I use your logic and argument.
So the men who post here looking for a wife have something to hide?
I have seen many many posts from men looking to settle down.
So what's wrong with those men?
Why can't they find a women that they have to look on NL?
Over to you

Martin0:
But honestly I won't hide another thought I have in mind,I know that even the most ever busy lady on earth will get a suitor and men flocking around them for marriage but I wonder why your's is different,this is my first time to see a nigerian lady searching for men online even when she's base in nigeria,hmmmm there is something behind this ur idea about searching for men online,maybe you have a bad character or probably there most be something u wanna hide that made you come online..

I keep wondering anytime I look at this your post..

You might be lying I ve the feeling,coz there is no truth in what you are saying..

I imagine if a lady can be so busy that not even a man she will love amongs all men she have seen or not even 1 man will be serious with her,something is definitely hiding somewhere u not telling Nairalander's

So all those ladies on dating websites are doing what exactly? Nigerian ladies looking for men
Open your eyes times have changed

MissRaine69:
So if I use your logic and argument.
So the men who post here looking for a wife have something to hide?
I have seen many many posts from men looking to settle down.
So what's wrong with those men?
Why can't they find a women that they have to look on NL?
Over to you

So u believ they are seriously looking for wife,na wa ooo how about those girls or ladies they have dated and now the come to Nairaland well no sensible man will resort to searching for ladies online I believ that a new trick for them to get desperate ladies and then taste soup and go..

MissRaine69:
So if I use your logic and argument.
So the men who post here looking for a wife have something to hide?
I have seen many many posts from men looking to settle down.
So what's wrong with those men?
Why can't they find a women that they have to look on NL?
Over to you

If anybody woman or man,u don't need to announce it,all u just do it watch and observe those who will email you probably talk to something related to marriage ,dating anything else,
Just as u are now,I know men are flocking around u emailing you it also a medium for u to choose or see who's serious..

MissRaine69:
So if I use your logic and argument.
So the men who post here looking for a wife have something to hide?
I have seen many many posts from men looking to settle down.
So what's wrong with those men?
Why can't they find a women that they have to look on NL?
Over to you

As for the men u don't need to announce anything,even when a man knows the population of women have submerge men, na wa ooo is he a king or what

Just relax on Nairaland watchout for a ladies and see who's ready to settle down ah na wa oo!!!

Martin0:
So u believ they are seriously looking for wife,na wa ooo how about those girls or ladies they have dated and now the come to Nairaland well no sensible man will resort to searching for ladies online I believ that a new trick for them to get desperate ladies and then taste soup and go..

Come on
People I know have gotten married after meeting online. The virtual world is another medium to meet.
Intentions might not be genuine but you meet the same disingenuous people in real life.

How about we agree to disagree on this one.

MissRaine69:
So all those ladies on dating websites are doing what exactly? Nigerian ladies looking for men
Open your eyes times have changed

They are actually looking for men who will not know anything about them,so why then do they resort to dating site,let them go to marriages,clubs and all..

When u go to America there are club for single men and ladies these clube are made specially for such purpose...

Don't u see the kind of ladies on website,from 40upwards what might have happend all those year's
Abegeeee hence they are gullible

MissRaine69:
Come on
People I know have gotten married after meeting online. The virtual world is another medium to meet.
Intentions might not be genuine but you meet the same disingenuous people in real life.

How about we agree to disagree on this one.

Hmmm if I agree just know it was to please u...

MissRaine69:
Come on
People I know have gotten married after meeting online. The virtual world is another medium to meet.
Intentions might not be genuine but you meet the same disingenuous people in real life.

How about we agree to disagree on this one.

ok I agree madam

Martin0:
They are actually looking for men who will not know anything about them,so why then do they resort to dating site,let them go to marriages,clubs and all..

When u go to America there are club for single men and ladies these clube are made specially for such purpose...

Don't u see the kind of ladies on website,from 40upwards what might have happend all those year's
Abegeeee hence they are gullible

Your argument has no impartiality. Women regardless of nationality now use dating sites but from the above statement you are saying because she is Nigerian her approach is wrong? If she was from Gabon for example her actions would be excused? So according to your argument and logic Nigerian women do not ( should not) do such things? The ones that do are either old, hiding something or it's not appropriate behaviour? My friend welcome to the 21st century there is no such thing anymore. It's your mindset that needs to catch up. The virtual world is used to meet people, not only for business but for relationships too.
In the US as you argued couples meet online as well they might not be honest about it but it does happen.
This is what's wrong with this country this steadfast belief that things have to be done a certain way in order to be validated. Metamorphosis occurs mindsets and perceptions have to do the same.

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Martin0:
Hmmm if I agree just know it was to please u...

You have your way of thinking regarding this and I have my way of looking at this it's not about agreeing just to please me. We have reached an impasse.

MissRaine69:
Your argument has no impartiality. Women regardless of nationality now use dating sites but from the above statement you are saying because she is Nigerian her approach is wrong? If she was from Gabon for example her actions would be excused? So according to your argument and logic Nigerian women do not ( should not) do such things? The ones that do are either old, hiding something or it's not appropriate behaviour? My friend welcome to the 21st century there is no such thing anymore. It's your mindset that needs to catch up. The virtual world is used to meet people, not only for business but for relationships too.
In the US as you argued couples meet online as well they might not be honest about it but it does happen.
This is what's wrong with this country this steadfast belief that things have to be done a certain way in order to be validated. Metamorphosis occurs mindsets and perceptions have to do the same.

Oh really u talked sence..
I agree am glade u understand my point..

Well we will pray for her to get a man

MissRaine69:
You have your way of thinking regarding this and I have my way of looking at this it's not about agreeing just to please me. We have reached an impasse.

Hmmmm ''impasse''

Honestly you have spoken well,I was just trying to see if u gonna spill more about it
I appreciate what u ve said,if ladies can speak/talk/Reason like you then the world would be a more civilize humanly..

MissRaine69:
Your argument has no impartiality. Women regardless of nationality now use dating sites but from the above statement you are saying because she is Nigerian her approach is wrong? If she was from Gabon for example her actions would be excused? So according to your argument and logic Nigerian women do not ( should not) do such things? The ones that do are either old, hiding something or it's not appropriate behaviour? My friend welcome to the 21st century there is no such thing anymore. It's your mindset that needs to catch up. The virtual world is used to meet people, not only for business but for relationships too.
In the US as you argued couples meet online as well they might not be honest about it but it does happen.
This is what's wrong with this country this steadfast belief that things have to be done a certain way in order to be validated. Metamorphosis occurs mindsets and perceptions have to do the same.

Lol. This one threw away the much coveted attention by many from rain 80. He should try his luck next time. Martin0, come dash me the soap wey you use at the beginning o.

Bester44:
Lol. This one threw away the much coveted attention by many from rain 80. He should try his luck next time. Martin0, come dash me the soap wey you use at the beginning o.

Hian na wa ooo,if I was seeking such hmmm don't u think
Modeling will do that for me...

Martin0:
Hian na wa ooo,if I was seeking such hmmm don't u think
Modeling will do that for me...

Shey you are a model ni? Me too wan model o, i fine.

Bester44:
Shey you are a model ni? Me too wan model o, i fine.

I was just thinking probably the attention you claim I need will get it done by modeling

Maxi112:
You fail to understand that; "a failed union of one individual shouldn't be the yardstick judging a whole tribe!"


embrace peace, tribalism, bigotry will do you no good!

guy I agree am wrong here but am not a tribalist am a free peson even if I dont wished to marry ibo if God say yes den I will marry her

INYOMA:
After lots of "should i or should i not post?"
I have finally picked up the courage to post this! and not because i am desperate (for the Bleep boys and we must have sex fellows) or under any form of pressure (to marry asap not like i mind anyways cause i am actually ready) but because i know for myself i am not getting any younger and i really do need a male figure to share the beauty of affection, love and build a beautiful family and future with.

I am in my late twenties, work and live on the mainland part of Lagos, From Abia state, fair complexioned, petite and Gemini. I am half introvert and an extrovert. My job takes most of my time causing me to head home most often after every work day. Weekends i chill indoors and whenever i can afford the time, i hangout with friends.

I wish to meet an honest dark tall clean and well bred gentleman who is soft spoken and some what comfortable to start a family. From any part of the country/ world (You have to be willing to meet asap. I dont ghost chat) preferably the igbo region though. Be a romantic at heart and have a good sense of humour cos i can be very playful. I want a friend in you!!.

I will also like to meet some intellectual decent and success driven matured females as friends.
Please reach me on 08135166211.

I am hopeful i will meet well meaning Nigerians or foreigners as the case maybe cause love knows no colour in the hope to make something beautiful.

Thank you for your time. Admins kindly help post this as you'd be doing my lonely self a huge favour to meet a future partner on this addictive forum. Please no cussing, i'm just making a positive move as i hardly go out to meet people.

You can find a great man who fits your description on LostRib.com. There are many working guys there looking for serious relationships. Check it out http://lostrib.com/?afmc=36v

ITbomb:
Yeah must be late twenties.

That's why slaying stops and reality steps in

jaksmillioniar:
guy I agree am wrong here but am not a tribalist am a free peson even if I dont wished to marry ibo if God say yes den I will marry her

All right then, why do you hate their girls?

op good luck wit ur search

Atleast am happy for op,it above 500views atleast she most have see atleast on man amongs all