sunshineG:
don't you see my earlier comment on the thread
I wrote that I have never been wooed before by a girl
it was a trap for pity from some girls
Now you have spoil market, with your comment

Benita27:
No sane girl should ever try that. If they eventually date it's out of pity or the guy probably wants to use the opportunity and get fùcks given for free. In most cases, there's a serious date and you won't be taken seriously.

Second of all, girls in such relationships usually have doubts if the guys even have an atom of love for them when feelings are not overtly reciprocated. It's best to be on the safer side.

sunshineG:
what have I done to deserve this

You are just rubbing it in now
All the hope I had at the beginning of the night is now lost

Honestly, I may not take a girl that ask me out serious, except she is very special
Maybe very intelligent
But I get your point

Now get out of here and stop spoiling market biko

daewoorazer:


Optional

'He that will gift out a cloth, his wardrobe should be at first screened.'

How many you don woo ?

Let's start from there

Don't tell us what u can't practise

Cool idea though, works antagonistically against our bleeped up culture

Caringguy:
I only know how to Toast bread,


Never knew that a Nigeria guy can be Toasted

sunshineG:
Inna ehn.
In all my life, no girl has ever ask me out

femi4:
Only rich girl should toast me...I don't date broke girls

LordOfSamosa:
It's like the Op is looking for a guy to toast.






Coman toast me

vuc1:
Misused that opportunity in my school days (2nd year) if it is now eh the rest will be history. Any girl that does that deserves some respect especially if she has something upstairs.

optional1:



hello boo, how you doing today?
Serious dearest whenever i see you viewing a thread my heart beat fast and wheneven you comment or quote me my heart fly for joy, it will come out and dance dab..

I wish i can be seeing your every day of my remaining life of earth..

I am in roff with you i can shut down nairaland for a year cos of you..

Please think about it, my heart can't stop pumping fast as i am typing this, please give me chance, lemme be your neck that carries your head.

Please boo, i am seriously in roff with you ..

Waiting for your reply boo..

Benita27:
Don't woo guys. You'll be used like a piece of tissue and dumped afterwards 'cause most of them are opportunist when it comes to this.

Don't say I didn't warn you!. Woo them at your peril. Men are wired to hunt, not to be hunted.

optional1:



lolzz
piece of tissue lolz...



Well from my experience i gain a respect..
Is better you let him know than sit and watch him go after someone else..

Is not easy cos our culture forbide's it but is worth trying.. You must be courageous to take that bold step..

Benita27:
Don't deceive yourself with what you read as comments from guys concerning this. You'll gain no respect beside the fact that you'll get used.

Benita27:
Don't deceive yourself with what you read as comments from guys concerning this. You'll gain no respect beside the fact that you'll get used.

Benita27:
No sane girl should ever try that. If they eventually date it's out of pity or the guy probably wants to use the opportunity and get fùcks given for free. In most cases, there's a serious date and you won't be taken seriously.

Second of all, girls in such relationships usually have doubts if the guys even have an atom of love for them when feelings are not overtly reciprocated. It's best to be on the safer side.

sunshineG:

I don't know how to feel, I am speechless
As I write this my heart is bleeding, but not for blood, my heart is bleeding, but I am not hurt
I don't feel pain all I feel is joy and happiness

I cannot figure out what is happening to me. I am shocked to the extent that I can't feel my balls. Yeap I had to check my dick

I hope I am not writing gibberish, cause my brain has lost its functions, my heart has taken over
Everything I type here is straight from the heart


I want to see you response

torqque7:


Start meeting grown up men who are mature and stop hanging with little boys,when you eventually change your class of men then this your opinion will change. A grown man knows it takes guts for a woman to tell him she wants him and he will respect that and her...I can't say the same for little boys

pryme:
Op, this can't happen in Nigeria.

We stand a better chance getting hit by a space ship, than this happening.

Benita27:
Don't deceive yourself with what you read as comments from guys concerning this. You'll gain no respect beside the fact that you'll get used.

optional1:



no lady should toast you cos you are mine already..

Coming to pay your groom prize before the year runs out boo

optional1:




oh my baby boo


even if your heart bleed i am here for you (just call my name and i will be there in
MJ's voice), i will stop the bleeding, even if it bleed of blood and water i will surely stop it with the power of my undying roff for you..

I am overwhelmed that you had to take your precious time to type this for me..


You ain't typing gibberish you are typing sweet loving words that will make an 8month pregnant woman to give birth cos your words are real and the pairs into the soul of the one who needs it..


As for your ball they are still there cos i will surely play rough play with it...
I can imagine playing with your balls my sweet lovely potato boo..


Waiting for you so dat we can fight the world together and achieve same goals and desires..

femi4:
Haaaa....how did you locate my comment, I intentionally made my comment on the second page

optional1:





lolz
to your question of how many i have wooed but sorry i can't say how many..



But is was good i opened up to him... I felt relief and relaxed after opening up...

Even though the result wasn't positive enough but it let a mark in his heart that a lady walked up to him to tell him all her feelings for him.... I didn't die after that. It takes a great courage to do that...



Why sit and wait for him to make the first move when you are there dying in pain thinking about him..

Is better she say it than try to kill it cos she is hurting herself the more...

Is better to tell a person how much you love him/her than dying with the feelings..

optional1:






i have toast him ever though it looks weird at least i poured out my feelings and i was free insteat of waiting while he looks else where...

sunshineG:
I give up You are good I suggest you write a book

optional1:



deceive myself with comments here?

Hell no, i did experience it, i went through it, i passed through it..


It was so good and relieving that i had to let it out.. Cos the feelings alone can kill if you ain't strong enough...

Even though it didn't result to a positive thing... He respected me up till now, we are best of friends, he changed my boyish attitude to a girlish one..
Back in school friends even thought we are dating after my approach failed cos we be came best of friend who advice each other and always there for each other...



Speaking out is worth it.. No matter what the society may think of the approach..

Is better you speak and get rejection than sit with your pride and get sick each time you see him with another girl..

daewoorazer:




@ d boldened only doubts the authencity of ur claim d more. Why can't you? You scared of multitude knowing or the criticism from same?

And yes, summarily u are right. It's better to dispose of ur ego and tell d person instead of torturing urself hoarding such feelings

Nma27:
Toasted my first love back in sec sch, can still remember d heart beating, d stuttering and the slight shaking... Lolz. Some people are better off as platonic frds, introduce romance into d friendship and watch it crumble...