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IamLovely:
break up with her she is cheating and doesn't what you to know

beetown:
Please if it's cheating, she isn't that type of girl...it's her attitude that I can't deal with

EmekaBlue:
Are u fvcking her well? if not...Thats d main problem for her crazy attitudes

NeeKlaus:
You are dating an insecure little Bitçh!

From the way she behaves, it's obvious she's a spoilt Daddy's girl. She's used to people intervening for her in whatever she does. Can't handle matters on her own because she wasn't brought up to do that.

End that relationship before you die of High Blood Pressure. I hate drama.

IamLovely:
oga you wanna trust we ladies right

Keep the relationship then, until she poo on your face..




She is changing cos she doesn't want you any more and someone better is already around.


Or is that how her attitude was before now

beetown:
I've always noticed that she never takes anything I say,she feels I can't correct her,if I say anything she wouldn't take it but if any of my friends says the same thing,she'll concur at once

NeeKlaus:
You are dating an insecure little Bitçh!

From the way she behaves, it's obvious she's a spoilt Daddy's girl. She's used to people intervening for her in whatever she does. Can't handle matters on her own because she wasn't brought up to do that.

End that relationship before you die of High Blood Pressure. I hate drama.

IamLovely:
na wa oh..


Seems she is only dating you with pity..

beetown:
Seems you're right about the insecurity, that could be the reason she always checked my WhatsApp... When I do what she likes she'll compare me to either her father of elder brother

Her FATHER or ELDER BROTHER. That supreme male figure in her life. She was totally pampered as a child and she still hasn't grown out of it.


Believe me Bro, many things can kill a man but this shouldn't be yours.

beetown:
God forbid... I'm the most eligible bachelor I know, even though I'm not rich I can actually take care of myself..she doesn't ask me for anything but I still do what I can for her

beetown:
Please if it's cheating, she isn't that type of girl...it's her attitude that I can't deal with

NeeKlaus:
Her FATHER or ELDER BROTHER. That supreme male figure in her life. She was totally pampered as a child and she still hasn't grown out of it.


Believe me Bro, many things can kill a man but this shouldn't be yours.

IamLovely:
lolz


sir, do what is in your heart.

But first Give her space for now till she come calling..

Empressabbie:
She's just being insecure and there's nothing u can do about it, it's either u accept her or break it up with her. By d way, how old is she?

beetown:
Hello Guys.

This will be the first time I'll be asking for relationship advice on here since I've been on Nairaland

I've been dating this girl for some months now,I really love her a lot but she has some issues

Lemme explain, when we started dating she was the perfect girl until after about a month, I noticed any time she was with my phone she would go through my WhatsApp. Any time I confront her about it she'll accuse of me of cheating and hiding things from her and because of the that we had a big fight, I tried calling her to apologize but she avoided my calls,it was not until she got into a fight with one of her friends because she was checking his WhatsApp that she apologized and we settled.
Now to the latest,I observed that she loved reporting every little issue we have to my friends,which I don't like (I like my privacy) she actually reported our relationship to a friend of mine who I'm not in talking terms with, in the course of the guy trying to intervene, he insulted me so much, he called me a liar so many times and I couldn't do anything cos my girlfriend was the one who involved him. After the chat I got in touch with my girlfriend and told her politely that I didn't like the way she carried our relationship issues to my friends, that my friends' girlfriends never reported their issues to me they way she did to them and she exploded, she called names,she started crying saying I should give her space because I'm making her regret getting into the relationship. Now she hasn't answered my calls since then.
She doesn't respect me at all,she makes me feel as if I'm maltreating her, she doesnt take anything i say and does anything she sees fit. please should I continue with the relationship or not.

PS: she's the only daughter of her family, could it be the reason she acts like this?

beetown:
She's 22