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Re: It Is Not A Must To Have A Girlfriend/boyfriend by tomdon(m): 3:58am On Aug 09, 2017
Kimcutie:
Have ever seen a guy that will tell you he doesn’t have a girlfriend, at least from the age of 17 upwards, well there are numerous of them that have one or two.

Let me use myself as an example, first of all, am 17 year old, two girls ask me in two different occasions if I had a girlfriend, my answer was NO and they asked why, I told them because am not ready for a relationship or maybe stress in a relationship, the girls asking this question are 17 year old, on my case, I want to make it big, get a fat bank account, pursue a good education and career and also get a good job, having a girlfriend at an early age will drown my dreams, although you can have the ones that will support you but what if you meet the ones that can’t do without money.

Every girl or lady out there must have her dreams, achievements, you shouldn’t rely on a boy for your basic needs, like credits, hair making, make up and the rest of the girly things, these are things you are supposed to buy with your OWN money and not someone else, when you are growing into a selfmade woman and the person you love is achieving his dreams, you will feel like a boss, thoughts like “I can’t rely on this guy for my basic needs”.

If you are boy and you’re trying to toast a girl, you will see them at a certain point asking for airtime, the airtime they won’t use and call you, am beginning to wonder if this airtime freaks can’t do without asking for airtime, does their life depend on it.
Guys any girl asking for airtime just know the girl loves money not you and don’t think giving her airtime will make her like you, if you are giving her airtime, do not give because she ask you to, give because you feel like giving and because you won’t regret it in the future, as for me, I have given airtime to some girls not because they asked, because I feel like doing a good thing that day, a good thing I won’t regret no matter how they behave later.

The point am trying to make here is that is better to live your life without a girlfriend/boyfriend until you have met your goals.
Better start giving them airtime now because na you go loose, better grab your share now
If you don't give them airtime, some other boys will give them airtime and fvck them because those girls won't wait for you oo, I'm pulling your ears now!
Be rest assured that those same girls are you and your peers' future wives because I don't think girls will be manufactured and dropped to earth by the time you're ready
Re: It Is Not A Must To Have A Girlfriend/boyfriend by ZeroShenanigan(m): 6:55am On Aug 09, 2017
Human being are social animals, we sometimes use these relationship as an abode, when we are terrified about the world. We also need someone to confide in, when we feel betrayed by families and the society at large. Companionship also serve as immune booster, loneliness is more or less like a sickness. Opposite sex naturally looks more attractive to every human, we find it difficult to say no to admiration and attraction we get from opposite sex. However we tends to be rational about the predominant characteristic by choosing a special person in to our life.
Re: It Is Not A Must To Have A Girlfriend/boyfriend by Kimcutie(op): 7:14am On Aug 09, 2017
tomdon:
Better start giving them airtime now because na you go loose, better grab your share now
If you don't give them airtime, some other boys will give them airtime and fvck them because those girls won't wait for you oo, I'm pulling your ears now!
Be rest assured that those same girls are you and your peers' future wives because I don't think girls will be manufactured and dropped to earth by the time you're ready
So airtime is a gateway?
Re: It Is Not A Must To Have A Girlfriend/boyfriend by newslifeop: 7:35am On Aug 09, 2017
Yes
Re: It Is Not A Must To Have A Girlfriend/boyfriend by Kingbusssy(m): 7:42am On Aug 09, 2017
Kondomatic:
A girlfriend is not a necessity really, having a girlfriend or boyfriend rarely add value to your life.
Re: It Is Not A Must To Have A Girlfriend/boyfriend by ednited(f): 7:47am On Aug 09, 2017
@Kimcutie

I totally agree. I have same thought as you. Being a women especially is different. Everyone think that a girl have no boyfriend only it's cuz she haven't had the chance for that. Not that she is not willing for relationship

Sometimes they make you look like a fool for that. Which is sooo wrong

What's hard to get is worse it

having a boyfriend is easy
going for dreams and making money is hard
Re: It Is Not A Must To Have A Girlfriend/boyfriend by Kimcutie(op): 7:52am On Aug 09, 2017
ednited:
@Kimcutie

I totally agree. I have same thought as you. Being a women especially is different. Everyone think that a girl have no boyfriend only it's cuz she haven't had the chance for that. Not that she is not willing for relationship

Sometimes they make you look like a fool for that. Which is sooo wrong

What's hard to get is worse it

having a boyfriend is easy
going for dreams and making money is hard
Is that you on your profile pic, well it's nice
Re: It Is Not A Must To Have A Girlfriend/boyfriend by ednited(f): 8:01am On Aug 09, 2017
Kimcutie:
Is that you on your profile pic, well it's nice
yes, thanks
Re: It Is Not A Must To Have A Girlfriend/boyfriend by Kimcutie(op): 8:24am On Aug 09, 2017
ednited:
yes, thanks
U're welcome dear
Re: It Is Not A Must To Have A Girlfriend/boyfriend by tomdon(m): 8:40am On Aug 09, 2017
Kimcutie:
So airtime is a gateway?
You're still asking questions,
Maybe you're one of those that like used and dumped girls because whether you participate now or not, it won't stop those girls from getting all the sex they want and later claim that they were used and dumped.
And you will later need one of them to complete your story

I'm only giving you brotherly advise
Re: It Is Not A Must To Have A Girlfriend/boyfriend by Israelsanni(m): 8:52am On Aug 09, 2017
Kimcutie:
Have ever seen a guy that will tell you he doesn’t have a girlfriend, at least from the age of 17 upwards, well there are numerous of them that have one or two.

Let me use myself as an example, first of all, am 17 year old, two girls ask me in two different occasions if I had a girlfriend, my answer was NO and they asked why, I told them because am not ready for a relationship or maybe stress in a relationship, the girls asking this question are 17 year old, on my case, I want to make it big, get a fat bank account, pursue a good education and career and also get a good job, having a girlfriend at an early age will drown my dreams, although you can have the ones that will support you but what if you meet the ones that can’t do without money.

Every girl or lady out there must have her dreams, achievements, you shouldn’t rely on a boy for your basic needs, like credits, hair making, make up and the rest of the girly things, these are things you are supposed to buy with your OWN money and not someone else, when you are growing into a selfmade woman and the person you love is achieving his dreams, you will feel like a boss, thoughts like “I can’t rely on this guy for my basic needs”.

If you are boy and you’re trying to toast a girl, you will see them at a certain point asking for airtime, the airtime they won’t use and call you, am beginning to wonder if this airtime freaks can’t do without asking for airtime, does their life depend on it.
Guys any girl asking for airtime just know the girl loves money not you and don’t think giving her airtime will make her like you, if you are giving her airtime, do not give because she ask you to, give because you feel like giving and because you won’t regret it in the future, as for me, I have given airtime to some girls not because they asked, because I feel like doing a good thing that day, a good thing I won’t regret no matter how they behave later.

The point am trying to make here is that is better to live your life without a girlfriend/boyfriend until you have met your goals.
I want to make it big, get a fat bank account, pursue a good education and career and also get a good job....go and read rich dad poor dad, thank me later
Re: It Is Not A Must To Have A Girlfriend/boyfriend by Kimcutie(op): 9:22am On Aug 09, 2017
Israelsanni:
I want to make it big, get a fat bank account, pursue a good education and career and also get a good job....go and read rich dad poor dad, thank me later
I have read only 50 pages of that book, nice book though
Re: It Is Not A Must To Have A Girlfriend/boyfriend by David160(m): 11:36am On Aug 09, 2017
Kimcutie:
Have ever seen a guy that will tell you he doesn’t have a girlfriend, at least from the age of 17 upwards, well there are numerous of them that have one or two.

Let me use myself as an example, first of all, am 17 year old, two girls ask me in two different occasions if I had a girlfriend, my answer was NO and they asked why, I told them because am not ready for a relationship or maybe stress in a relationship, the girls asking this question are 17 year old, on my case, I want to make it big, get a fat bank account, pursue a good education and career and also get a good job, having a girlfriend at an early age will drown my dreams, although you can have the ones that will support you but what if you meet the ones that can’t do without money.

Every girl or lady out there must have her dreams, achievements, you shouldn’t rely on a boy for your basic needs, like credits, hair making, make up and the rest of the girly things, these are things you are supposed to buy with your OWN money and not someone else, when you are growing into a selfmade woman and the person you love is achieving his dreams, you will feel like a boss, thoughts like “I can’t rely on this guy for my basic needs”.

If you are boy and you’re trying to toast a girl, you will see them at a certain point asking for airtime, the airtime they won’t use and call you, am beginning to wonder if this airtime freaks can’t do without asking for airtime, does their life depend on it.
Guys any girl asking for airtime just know the girl loves money not you and don’t think giving her airtime will make her like you, if you are giving her airtime, do not give because she ask you to, give because you feel like giving and because you won’t regret it in the future, as for me, I have given airtime to some girls not because they asked, because I feel like doing a good thing that day, a good thing I won’t regret no matter how they behave later.

The point am trying to make here is that is better to live your life without a girlfriend/boyfriend until you have met your goals.
yes bro ride on, am also 17 and I don't intend to have a gf for a very very very long time
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